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Do guys get turned off if their penis smells bad after anal?
I had sex with someone I've been seeing. For the first time, I had anal sex. I was not expecting that to happen. If I knew it was coming, I would have done an enema ahead of time. He still treated me well and acted as if everything was fine afterward. But now, he's not talking to me as much. I know that if you do anal, it's going to smell like poop. Now I'm just hoping he didn't try smelling his hand or whatever.
So, do guys get turned off if their penis smells like bad after having anal sex? Or are would they be satisfied that they even had sex, etc?
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Well the truth is that you got played on the long run my friend that's if hes still not talking to you. And yes I know it hurts but men will be assholes about shit and women will be bitches. ok heres the deal that penis smelling thing if there still turned on would have to be up to the man.
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It might not be the smell. And I'm not trying to hurt you by saying this but he might have just been looking for one thing and now that he has gotten it he's trying to move on. I know it's mean if he is trying to do that but in the long run you will see he did you a favor. In the future if you meet someone don't move to fast. And as far as anal sex goes. Save things like that for your husband or someone you have been with and love for a long time. Because men do talk be careful.
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I agree with the other answers you've had. This guy sounds a bit thoughtless to me.
My worry is that you might think anal sex is normal. it isn't. No-one was built for anal sex, it can cause all sorts of physical problems if it keeps happening (incontinence - where you leak poo, anal fissure - painful area of the anus which can take a long time to heal, vaginal infection - if he doesn't wash his penis thoroughly after anal sex then tries normal sex.)
None of those are good, you don't need such problems.
Hope this helps, best wishes.
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You know what, if he has a problem with it, he can go and find someone who's ass doesn't stink. And good luck to him! There is a very small chance that this is what his problem is though. It doesn't smell that bad, probably not even much at all, and he's the one that wanted to do it. If a guy is turned off by anal for whatever reason, he's going to choose not to do it. It's not like your butt and someone else's are much different in terms of smell. His problem would be with anal in general and not with his particular experience with you. Is this the first sexual experience you've had with him? It's possible that he's feeling weird about that. It's possible that this was the first time he tried anal and he just didn't like it. You really never know. Maybe something else is going on in his life coincidentally. Whatever it is, there's only a very small chance that it has anything to do with you. Even if it is about you, that's his problem, not yours, and he's not a good person for it. Don't worry about this at all. Cast it away from your mind entirely. If it's really bothering you, it might be a good idea to identify his behavior (hey, you're not talking to me as much all of a sudden) and ask him what's going on. Don't bring up what it could or couldn't be about. Let him explain if he wants to. It seems like the two of you are not strong in the communication department yet. Work on that and this should sort itself right out. Never feel ashamed about your natural body and what it does. You can't fight biology and if someone wants to take themselves so seriously that they expect you to, ditch them immediately. Good luck!
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First off A guy really can't smell his penis unless there is a really bad odor coming from it.
If the anal sex is unplanned and something that just happened, which happens when the petting gets hot and heavy and you get to that point and she says I'm on my period. Then she say you can have bloody sex or my back door. This is one of those times when its unplanned.
Condoms should always be used during anal sex as the anus is full of bacteria that is not good for the penis to be exposed. A condom not only prevents this bacteria from infecting his penis it also prevents transfer of most STDS and the HIV/AIDS virus which is still largely attributed to anal sex.
If you enjoy spontaneous sex you should be carrying condoms in your purse for the reasons stated above. Even if you are on birth control until you are in a long term committed relationship and both tested you should make your partner use a condom. Remember every time you have unprotected sex you are having sex with every other partner that had unprotected sex with him or her.
Now as to your original question which is the reason I went through the above first. Had a condom be used there would be no smell left behind on his penis. Any smells or skid marks would be on the condom which he could just roll off. As for his finger it really does not get far enough up the anus to pick up anything so a bad smell probably is not there.
Do guys get turned off. Not by smells. If a guy gets turned off it is generally a realization of something that has been ingrained in him since his parents first had that birds and bee's story with him. What he has probably been told about anal sex and girls that allow boys to do such things dates back to Victorian England. Back then only prostitutes and slovenly girls allowed men to have anal sex with them. In fact the word slut originates around this time as well.
If this was his first time having anal sex then it may be he is fighting with himself. Just about every guy he knows talks about getting anal sex. Now he has had anal sex, it was unplanned and his feelings are in a twist.
Most guy know what they are getting into, no pun intended, and they don't care. They want to brag to their friends that so and so let them do her in the ass. Any offensive smell is out weighed by the bragging rights.
It is my feelings your friend is having an attack of conscious.
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So, I'm guessing you're a troll, but trolls need to know: if you're in a poo-hole, don't be surprised when it smells.
The biggest problem with the scenario you're describing was that you were not expecting that to happen. It's really kind of a big deal to have anal for the first time and you should have talked about it enough to the point that you were consenting enthusiastically and felt prepared and ready for it in whatever way you needed.
Please turn your thinking around and get in touch with how you feel and what you want and don't worry so much about whether he's adequately satisfied with how he smells after a sex act it sounds like he pressured you into. Most likely, he has something else going on that has busied him and that is the reason he isn't talking. You need to take care of you. He can worry about himself.
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