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I had sex with someone I've been seeing. For the first time, I had anal sex. I was not expecting that to happen. If I knew it was coming, I would have done an enema ahead of time. He still treated me well and acted as if everything was fine afterward. But now, he's not talking to me as much. I know that if you do anal, it's going to smell like poop. Now I'm just hoping he didn't try smelling his hand or whatever.

So, do guys get turned off if their penis smells like bad after having anal sex? Or are would they be satisfied that they even had sex, etc? (link)
It might not be the smell. And I'm not trying to hurt you by saying this but he might have just been looking for one thing and now that he has gotten it he's trying to move on. I know it's mean if he is trying to do that but in the long run you will see he did you a favor. In the future if you meet someone don't move to fast. And as far as anal sex goes. Save things like that for your husband or someone you have been with and love for a long time. Because men do talk be careful.


hey everyone!
so i have a 21 year old boyfriend & im 19. but it seems like no matter how much i wash my vagina it still seems to smell!! any suggestions?? also my butt seems to smell as well. i know this sounds weird & awkward. im sorry guys haha. & yes i take showers & wash as many times as i can. with a bar of soap (wash it 3 times in the shower) and then sometimes body wash after. thinking maybe it might make it smell better.

please help! ahhhh!

thanks! (link)
Try drinking more water. Also peppermint soap is good also. They sale it on amazon and at target.


I dont wanna hear about how selfish i am, or how I shouldnt do this bla bla. I dont want to be here anymore. I'm not going anywhere. I have no future. I have been depressed for years. Ive tried everything. The little family that I have hates me, I've been bullied my whole life, I was diagnosed with psychosis a year ago. I'm homeless now. I don't want to be here anymore. I feel like a burden and it would be easier for everyone if I died. Sometimes I wish I could just die in a fast car accident (link)
Don't give up. Everyone doesnt hate you. Because I don't hate you. I know what your going through. I have suffered with depression and low self esteem. My son also has health issues. I was also bullied. But you have to keep living. Your a blessing. Your life is a gift. I'm sure there is alot of good things about you. I think you should talk to a doctor. I don't know if your a religious person or not but you always have God. Rely on Him. Take one day at a time and please be blessed.


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So today one of my freinds straight up said he hates gay people. Well I'm gay but I havent come out yet and I always thought so did most of our other freinds that he was bi. What he said hurt me and it dosnt make sense to me. He's not a religious person at all so he dosnt really have a religious reason. Mabey he's just trying to fit in at school. We do go to a pretty homophobic school. It just dosnt make sense to me. (link)
I think you need to ask your friend why does he hate gay people? I feel like if he doesn't give you a good enough reason you need to think about keeping him as a friend or not


My husband left my children and I July 2013. He walked out took the car. Junked it so neither of us could have it. During the marriage he stole from my father and from my son. For money. He'd lie about it. During the time we have been separated he meet a girl lived with her and her 2 toddlers and 1 infant. They didn't work out. I ended up having to move up north for support. I didn't have any family were we lived. I filed for divorce. Recently the last 2 to 3 weeks he wants to get back together he loves me and the kids he wants to be a family he'll go to church counseling find a job and keep it work hard. He says he's changed he's sorry I ask why he did the things he did he says he was stupid. He says I won't regret taking him back he wants to prove to me how much he loves me how much he's changed I don't know what to do. (link)
I wouldn't believe him. It seems like your doing good without him. I wouldn't put my kids and myself through it again. I think you and your kids deserve alot better.




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