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I am a student at Douglas County High School. I love to sing and I hope to be on the Bachelorette or however you spell it.
Gender: Female
Location: North Carolina
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
Member Since: September 5, 2014
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I'm 15 and I plan to ask this guy named Gus that I really like to go see a movie or something so we can pursue a relationship, but I know for a fact that another girl likes this guy and she's known him for three years and never had the courage to ask him out and I've only known him for a few months. I think that he likes me though and only views her as a little sister type person. If he says yes I'd feel so guilty about doing this to her but I'll end up feeling that way if Gus starts dating someone else because I waited too long. So should I go ahead and ask Gus out and just let the girl move on or do I just stay friends with him? (link)
Listen honey im sure she won't care how you feel if he said yes to her. She would just go about her day like nothing happened. So just go.for it and see how it goes. Maybe she'll be the sportsmenship type


Hey there..
My boyfriend and I will mark 2 years in the next two weeks. However, something doesn't feel right and I get the feeling that we are hanging by the thread.
He seems distant of late. He has been going through some rough patch, which I understand.He has opened up to me and I know he has been honest.
My problem is, we have discussed his way of handling things and the fact that it doesn't sit well with me. Normally,he just goes silent.He even switches his phone off with no warning. What's left is me trying to get through to him and all he does is ignore until whenever it suits him. We had a talk the last time he did this, and I expressed why it hurts me to not be able to help him and instead get shut down like the rest of the people.
It hasn't taken long for him to do the same.
I have tried to call him now for almost two days. He has ignored my facebook and whatsapp messages. I had his brother inform him that I was trying to get through to him, but he still did not see the need to respond to that.
Mean while, the reason for calling was because I was also going through some trouble and he was aware of it. He had opened himself up to me and made himself available if I need to talk. That upsets me, because not only do I not have a friend in my current state, but I also cannot be a friend to him.

How do you leave someone who isn't available? Should i just write an email? Maybe he'll respond to that and see the magnitude of his actions. (link)
You should just keep your distance. Maybe he just doesn't want to bother you or be bother right now while he's in thus rough patch. But don't break-up it'll bring him deeper into the patch and you don't want that. Just give him time and it'll work out




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