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I need help on a guy, let's name him Bill. So Bill and I flirted for a while and it soon became a what you could call friends-with-benefits relationship (while he had a girlfriend) . After a while I told him that I really did like him, he stopped talking to me and cut off our friendship. (Apparently he didn't feel the same and I was just another girl to flirt with.) I ended up telling him i was really hurt and sent him a long paragraph telling him how i felt. he sent it to his girlfriend and she blew up at me. Let's name her Sue. Me and Sue are friends now and so are me and Bill. Bill and I are going to the same high school while Sue is not. I want to have a relationship with Bill during high school but I'm not sure if he'll still be too attracted to Sue to even consider me or if they'll still stay together. This is really long... I'll give credit to anyone who even tries. Thanks. :] (link)
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The guy is using you and you need to wake up and see that. Showing the girlfriend the letter is the same as laughing at you behind your back. He took what you were willing to give so long as it was benefiting him. Soon as you showed some interest he bails on you. Ran to the girlfriend in case you got mad and started to talk.
Find a guy who likes you. This one is a loser. :)
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when people answer other people's questions with: go ask the doctor, isn't that kind of redundant? who goes all the way to the doctor's office to ask one little question anyway? what do they mean? just ask the doctor over the phone? what if your doctor is actually a pediatrician and might think you're a hypochondriac? i have tons of questions to ask my "doctor." i can't go ask every single time. write down the questions and ask the doctor the next time you visit for something semi-more important? (link)
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They do it because they are not doctors themselves and are not qualified to answer medical questions.
Those who have some medical background are smart enough to know only a doctor can diagnose a problem. So anything they tell you is just to get you by until you can see your doctor.
Your doctors nurse is usually more than happy to answer any questions you have. If they are minor questions...your mom can probably help you.
No offense intended to the 13 year olds, but do you honestly want to take medical advice from them? The majority of it is wrong. And some even get banned for answering. :)
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where can you find this type of camera....kodak easyshare cx7430 and also does anyone know if this camera has the screen where you can look at the picture after you take it? if not does anyone know what type of camera does, how much it is, and where i can find it?
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I have an easyshare and yes indeed you can see the pictures you take immediately on the screen.
I got mine at walmart and I love it as I am sure you will too. They run around 255 according to their website.
http://www.walmart.com/catalog/search-ng.gsp?search_constraint=0&search_query=kodak+easyshare&ic=20_0&Continue.x=27&Continue.y=14
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okay so im a girl and people say that you should clean your "down there" but i dont have a douche is it safe to use like regular soap? or something like that?? (link)
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Eustachius is absolutley right.
I just want add that you shouldn't worry about not having douche. As a matter of fact it isn't really recommended that you use it that much. Not really good for you. :)
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Oh my lord!!! Someone hacked onto my account and asked a question in my column that said my friend was going to commit suicide because she was ugly!!! I did not write that and the question is not even true!!!! I don't even know who that girl is in the picture!!!! So shes not even my friend and I didn't write that question!!!! Please don't believe that question!!!! My question is I want to find out who hacked my account and wrote that question, so how do I find out? My password is not easy to uncode so I don't know how they did it!! I'm scared because I don't want that person to stalk me. If any of you answered that question that talked about my friend being ugly, please leave hate mail to the answer of it. I repeat, I would never write a question like that. (link)
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You need to write to dangernerd so he can look into it for you. Write him at dangernerd@gmail.com
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Hey anybody who reads this. I just wanted everybody to know that the user "ShannonBond" is fake. I personally know Shannon Bond and this girl is NOT her! She's faking Shannon Bond and using her pictures, when really this girl IS NOT her. Please Advicenators, DELETE HER PROFILE! That should not be acceptable for people to have fake pictures of other people, and pretend to be them. THAT'S JUST WRONG!
Thanks Advicenators. (link)
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Send a link to her column along with a note to Dangernerd.
Fake pictures and impersonating others is not allowed and he will take care of it.
dangernerd@gmail.com
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Hi, well, i've been on this website called dollzmania alot lately, and i've been getting pretty bored of it. I was wondering, if anyone knows any really good sites like dollzmania. I just really want to try out some new sites!
And sites will be appreciated!
Much love! (link)
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I've been known to go doll hunting myself. :)
Here is a page of links. Scroll to the bottom because there is a history of the doll making before the links. :)
http://www.answers.com/dollz?gwp=11&ver=2.0.0.453&method=3
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I need to know where to look up information on Wilms mass, its a type of cancer of the kidneys (link)
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Here's a site for you. I started to write a few of them down but knew if this is something your family is dealing with you would want all you could get. This site has 10 pages of links to info for you.
http://www.answers.com/wilms+mass?gwp=11&ver=2.0.0.453&method=3
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Ok, last week I asked what I should do about my "crush" on this girl I work with. I havent told my husband still and I'm just wondering... should I tell my husband that I'm sexually attracted to this woman? Do I tell her? Will that open a can of worms and hurt the good relationship that's going on so far? All I think I'm looking for is maybe some exploring as far as other women go but I dont want to hurt anyone. How can I be true to myself and still come out good in the end (if that's a possibility)? (link)
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I suppose most people get attracted to other people all the time. The best thing for your marriage, if it is what you want, would be not to act on it.
You tell her and you do open a big can of worms. If she feels the same you may act on it. Exploring should be done before marriage if you want other partners, not after. Your husband would be hurt if he found out. You'd feel guilty because of lies if you kept quiet.
If she doesn't feel the same then you might lose a friendship. Then of course you run the risk of gossip which could also get back to your hubby.
If you tell him he could very easily freak out and walk. If you love the man why take a risk that big for a few seconds of possible pleasure?
Good luck what ever you do. :)
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how come advicenators has changed so much? a while ago.. people could ask anyone question they had. now there are all these rules and they really restrict what i am curious about. a lot of serious questions i have, have all been deleted. i dont understand this and i think it should change. (link)
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Because we allow 13 year olds to use this site (and others under the age of 18), there are certain details we are not legally able to give out. Those who do get banned.
So if you want details on some sex act, or if you are asking something that is illegal, or something that we have heard a thousand times it will get deleted. Usually we try to give you another site where the info might be gotten.
Check the help/FAQ in the blue column for more details on what gets deleted. :)
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Should I be worried if I am 39 weeks pregnant and it feels like something is tearing in my side? (link)
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Contact your doctor and let him/her know about it.
Most likely it is just muscles stretching, but call or visit an emergency room to be certain. Don't take chances. :)
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hey, well sometimes when im looking at questions t answer i see something say a word then write (sp?). im wondering what (sp?) means.
-caitt (link)
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It means they are unsure if they are spelling (sp) it correctly. :)
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My sister, 40/f, was scratched by her kitten a couple weeks ago and was feeling ill so she went to the hospital. They informed her she has Cat Scratch Fever...Yes, it's a real disease!
I have researched this for her, but I cannot seem to find out how long her symptoms are supposed to last.
Has anyone out there experienced Cat Scratch Fever, and if so would you please share it with me? Any help is appreciated! (link)
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Symptoms will last from 2-5 months. :)
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I shaved "down there" about a month ago. I got terrible bumps, which I guess I should have expected. But these bumps haven't gone away and now they are like pimples, getting white heads and they bleed when I pop them. Is this normal?
And no, I do not have an STD...I am married, happily for 7 years and there is no possibility of either of us cheating.
I will never shave "down there" again, I was wondering how Nair would work? Any suggestions?
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Shaving does cause irritation. Hair growing back itches like the devil. Use lots of lotion. It is all normal.
Regular Nair will burn you badly. Do not use it.
I believe they make a product for bikini are so be sure to read the label. There are several similar products out there as well. :)
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What do they say about assuming?
People always say " You know what they say about assuming" What do they say!? (link)
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It makes an Ass out of U and Me. Assume.
Get it? LOL :)
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how do you get stys? you know those scab things on your eyes or bumps on ur eyes that hurt! please and thanks! (link)
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They are caused by bacteria. Here is a site that tells you all about them. :)
http://www.mamashealth.com/eye/sty.asp
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I am a 35/f whose teenage daughter has been living with her father for most of her life.
When her father and I divorced it was decided she would live there because I wasn’t financially stable enough to give her a comfortable year-round home but she has always spent most of the summer with me.
While things have changed a lot now. I make a good deal more money, pay child support and have a much more comfortable home for her. She’s decided she wants to move in with me for the rest of high school because the high school in my area has a much better art classes and several of her friends attend it.
I’m delighted of course, the thing is, she is afraid to tell her father about this decision. She says she’s mentioned maybe moving in with me before, and it’s upset him or he has taken it as a joke. She has asked me to come over and be with her as she discusses the move with her father.
So my question is: Should I be there while she tells her father she has chosen to live with me next school year? I want to be there for her, but I don’t want her father to feel threatened or ganged up on. Part of me thinks she is old enough to be able to talk to her dad about this herself (I’m sure he’ll be a bit hurt, but he isn’t an ogre or anything, he wont go nuts.) So I’m quite torn, please advise. (link)
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I really think you should let her do it herself.
It is her decision not yours, and you don't want him thinking otherwise.
I think if she explains why he will be upset at first but will probably eventually understand it.
He will no doubt be hurt by it but he'll survive.
She will probably have some feelings of hurt as well. Making your own decisions and living with the consequences are part of growing up. She will survive as well! :)
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About a year ago my boyfriend and I went against our better judgement and I ended up pregnant. So now we have a baby. It's put a real strain on our relationship. At first we argued over abortion, then adoption,and finally I ended up giving in and keeping the baby. We've been trying to share the responsibility this summer, but since the baby lives with me he doesn't understand my feelings, even if I try to tell him. The baby sometimes stays with him for a week, but apparently that isn't enough. Whenever he's around me all he seems to care about is the baby. Yesterday we had the oppurtunity to hang out alone and mom would watch the baby... but my boyfriend declined. I'm around the baby all the time so it's really irritating. Does he care about hisson more than me now? What's going on? (link)
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He needs to really experience taking care of the baby. You know when he has his turn his mom is doing all or most of the work!
Maybe, if you are on good terms with his mom, you can have her let him do most of the work for a weekend and let him get a real taste of having a baby 24/7.
I have done it. It is tough. Hang in there though
it will get better. Be sure and bring it up about his really not understanding though. He needs to do some of the work himself. :)
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What is carpal tunnel? How do yu get it? (link)
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This site will answer all those questions and more for you! :)
http://www.ninds.nih.gov/disorders/carpal_tunnel/detail_carpal_tunnel.htm
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My 6 year old daughter recently started saying she wants to meet her real dad (he hasn't seen her since she was two years old except for a brief chance meeting at a friends house a two years ago.) I'm not sure what brought this on, except that I just had another baby with a different man, and he and I share custody, so maybe she's feeling a little jealous that her baby brother's dad is around but hers isn't. I'm no longer involved with my son's father, but we are civil for our child's sake so it isn't like he could be a father to her. But I need to know- do I call my daughter's father and make him have a relationship with his daughter? I don't know what to do, or what to say to her. (link)
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She is getting to an age where she is going to school and hearing other kids talk about their daddy's. That combined with the new baby is bound to bring up questions.
Unless there is a reason not to involve her dad in her life, I would suggest you at least let him know what is going on with her. Tell him she is asking questions and see if he is willing to be part of her life.
If he isn't then you will have to be honest with her about it. Not in a mean way but just so she knows that you tried. It may not mean much right now, but it will someday. You will just have to tell her that some daddy's (not very many) just aren't ready to be daddies and it isn't her fault or yours.
Good luck. :)
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