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So, I was talking to my crush and I told him I was mad that we don't walk to class together anymore. So, one day I came out of the girl's room as he was coming out of the boy's room. He kicked my backpack, asked who I was waiting for, I told him that I was waiting for my friend. He walked out the door, my friend came out, we walked out the door and he turned around, looked in front of him, turned around to look at me and my friend again and said "hurry, I'm waiting for you!" I picked up my pace, caught up with him and we walked to our next period together. Does that mean that he likes me?
No.
Okay. I'm going to try and make this brief. My bestfriend and my boyfriend have never gotten along. Ever. They claimed they never talked to one another, couldn't stand the other, all this lovely stuff. Making my life super easy. Lol,jk. So on the fourth of July, while on my boyfriends phone, I saw texts from my "bestfriend" that were incriminating to me. She'd told them things I'd done while bf and I were broken up, more than three months before then, along with more than a handful of lies. He and I hashed it out, her and I hashed it out, she promised she did it out of misplaced anger, she'd never do it again, blah blah, and I forgave her when she needed a place to stay because of home issues. WELLLLL, two days ago my boyfriend forwarded me a text from her AGAIN telling him things I'd said while I was visiting her at college. More things I thought I could confide in her. Him and I were arguing, I was angry, so the things I said we're untrue, and they're just typical things you'd say to your girlfriends when you're venting about aggravating boys. Yet she felt the need to clue him in to these rants. I also found out that they've cultivated some sort of relationship behind my back, where they text sometimes, she's called him complaining about her life, and she "drunk dialed" him on more than one occasion. Including last night. While they both told me they never talked. After she promised she'd never do this again. And here I am left looking like an idiot. My question is, what do I do. I thoroughly HATE confrontation, I'm horrible at standing my ground, sticking up for myself, etc. As evidence my my too-quick-to-forgive ignorance the first time she did this to me. Mind you, I'd at least understand this had I done something to deserve it, but I absolutely did nothing. Honestly. She texted me today asking about me visiting next weekend, and I ignored her, then my bf texted me about a half hour later saying she tried calling him, and keeps texting him to call her back. He hasn't. But I have no idea what my next step should be/how I can prevent myself from feeling bad and forgiving her. I'm disgusted with her. But she's been totally normal to me since the date on the text my boyfriend forwarded. As if she'd never do a nasty thing against me. So I'm completely clueless as to what I need to do, how to approach this in a mature but firm way, all this. Any help at all is so greatly appreciated, and I thank you so much if you've read this all. If it helps, I'm 19, bf's 21, and twoface is 18. Thanks in advance.
Stop talking to her. Any time she texts or calls you, just respond by sending her this picture;
http://thegamingliberty.com/wp-content/uploads/TWOFACE.jpg
Oh, and tell your boyfriend you and her are no longer friends, so that when she tells more bullshit lies to him, he knows they're crap because you guys don't talk.
soo me and this guy had a thing at the end of the summer it was only for a few weeks but i was really starting to fall for him. then he just stopped texting me and told me he's kinda with this girl now. i work with him and i kinda want to make him realize like "wow thats what i missed out on". i don't like being played and messed with..how can i do thiss?
Continue texting him as if he's another guy. When he texts you back saying it's not him, refuse to believe him and continue texting him constantly.
I don't know if he'll realized what he missed out on (or if there was anything to miss out on in the first place), but I do know that that would be really annoying.
I have been suspecting that my boyfriend of 4 years is cheating on me and could be already engaged!! i go to ask him and he says its crazy talk and all.. i look at his phone and its always clear.. but i have a feeling he tells the other one not to call or text at the times he does see me.. is there any way i can get hold of his cell phone record for free or anything!! ah i'm going crazy here i need to know!!! please help me!!
Why are you trying to come between our relationship!?
I went skinning dipping at the lake area last weekend with this guy I know. We fooled around in the water and he did cum. My period was due yesterday but it hasn't started. Can you get pregnant by skinny dipping like this?
Well, if all he did was cum in the water, it's extremely unlikely but slightly possible that a little teeny sperm made it into your vagina. Unfortunately, this sperm would have become infected with lake water. You would thus give birth to this;
http://images2.fanpop.com/images/photos/3800000/Creature-From-The-Black-Lagoon-classic-science-fiction-films-3835656-1024-768.jpg
:(
My BF and I are in love but we haven't had sex yet. The other night things got really heated with us. His parents are gone this week because his dad has surgery and he was there all alone so I came over of course. Things happened and I let him grind on my vagina until he came. I wouldn't be worried but We were bare like without pants by the time he finished. He only put the head of it in for like 5 seconds but that was all. I cleaned his cum off me like 10 mins after we were done. Am I pregnant?
It takes cum eight minutes to seep in through the pores in your skin and swim directly to your ovaries :(.
Just kidding, but why would you leave cum on your skin for ten minutes before cleaning it off?
my boyfriend keeps asking me to have sex with him but i havent gave him an answer yet so what do i do ? i'm 15
You say fuck no asshole, I'm only 15!
17/m .hi there.been going out with this girl for nearly a month now and was wondering whether i need to get her a gift .if yes then what would be good things to get?was thinking just some chocolates and a card.anyway.Thanks:)
No.
I had sex and the condom broke some time but we didn't realize it until we were finished. How much sperm comes out when a condom breaks anyways? I want to know how worried I should be I guess LOL thnx
Enough to ruin your life LOL yrwlcm
I really hate my Dad because he's a prick and is always grounding me for this and that. Like I come home only like 1 hour later and he's FREAKING out. He doesn't like me I swear. The only thing I can think of is that I'm sexually abused or something and maybe he did it! I'm so mad at him. Is there like a test I can take to see if I'm sexually abused? Like a FREE test because I dont got a job.
If he doesn't like you, why would he want to sexually abuse you?
About a year ago my best friend and her bf set me up on date and after a while we started being boryfriend/girlfriend. My bestfriend started getting mad at my bf for "taking me away from her" or him getting mad at the stupidest things. So I had to make a decision between my bf or bestfriend and I chose my bf.After a year of barely talking to my bestfriend we started talkig again to try to make things work except my bf doesn't like the when I'm with her because they hate each other.now a year later I'm confronted with having to make the same decision..my boyfriend or bestfriend. My bf hates my bestfriend so much that he's making me choose.I have fun with both of them and just don't know who to choose.who should I pick? (17/f/Ca)
You should choose your best friend's boyfriend, and then you can have the best of both worlds, Hannah Montana style.
One of my relatives and the rest of my family have been in a fight for over five years. The relative moved out of town without telling anyone in my family except for me. She wanted me to know where she is if I need her, but for now wishes to have no contact with the rest. However the rest of my family have figured out that she's no longer at her old job. What do I do? I would just stay out of it except that the rest of my family is likely to grill me about her when they come to visit me in a few weeks. It is one of those dysfunctional family things and I can understand the relative's position but I am stuck in an impossible position with her wish that I pretend that I know nothing about where she is.
Lie to your family and send them on a wild goose chase across the world, almost as if you're a real life Carmen San Diego.
Well i am 17 years old and have been with this guy on and off for 2 years. We always break up then get back together but he had a child when we were apart. I truly love him and claims to feel the same way but he always brings his friends into our relationship causing it to fall apart. Is it best for us to be together and work it out or not?
Well if your boyfriend is constantly screwing your relationship and has already produced one illegitimate child, do you really need to ask the Internet what decision to make? Use your brain.
What does it mean when you keeping thinking about one of your exs when you have a boyfriend? Should i take it as a sign?? What does it mean..
It means you're soooooo confusedd- and u need helpp!
Okay I have decided That i want a STEADY advice buddy which means that i want to have one specific person (that actually LOVE giving advice) That i can write to wheneva i need advice. Im senseing that some of the advicee that is giving to me is not serious. I wont someone that will actually think the advice that they are about to give to me and not go off their own disappointments. Example: If I ask someone what should i do about my boyfriend I dont want the response to be...(FORGET HIM!!! HE'S NOT WORTH IT) Just because that person have had some problems in their relationship. I wont a person that I can send direct msgs to. I also want someone that wont take FOREVER to respond bacc because I really do need help on some situations. So please, if you feel as if you can be a great advice buddy then please respond. Thanks
I've been here for six years and I don't really care for giving advice or care much at all for anyone on here. So on one hand that could be a negative, but on the other I have a total third party view of things, seeing as how I don't care and all.
My parents never taught me how to ride a bicycle but I want to teach my son and daughter (twins). They are 4 years old right now and they play around on a little tricycle all the time but I am wondering when I should purchase a real bicycle for them to learn how to ride? I know it's great exercise for kids and I'd really like to teach them while they're young. What is the best age to teach your child how to ride a bicycle? And since I have the money right now should I go on and purchase a couple of bikes for them? Thank you.
You didn't exactly ask this, but what will make it easier for your kids to learn the balance they will need on a bike would be to first book them up with a couple of two wheel scooters. That way, they learn how exactly to balance without the risk of completely falling over; their feet are right there to keep them upright.
I did this really stupid thing and over plucked my eyebrows. Now they're thin and weird and I hate it. I remember seeing on TV some place about using an oil every night on the eyebrows for them to grow back quickly to be thicker and fuller. I can't remember if it's olive oil or castor oil. I have both so I guess I could put them both on but I'd rather do whichever one is the right one so I can get my eyebrows to grow back fast and pretty. Thanks if anybody knows.
My lady friend says yes.
I have to make up a song/dance/acting type thing based on solitary confinement, but I was wondering if anyone knew any good songs they could recommend?
Fast heavy songs, and also gentle songs. I am ecorporating urban and ballet into it, similiar to the famous dance company bounce with their interpreation of one flew over the cuckoos nest.
thanks
Welcome Home (Sanitarium) by Metallica.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0eMQyX-zAhQ
After being chased for almost a year I finally allowed him to come over. Being both spontaneous Aquarians we have had sex both times that he visited. I know he likes me but I told him I thought he was too young for me (12 years younger) but over 35. How do I get the relationship to take a turn away from sex to more serious dating?
Stop blaming your actions on the stars and planets and begin accepting that it's your own bad judgment.
After you do that, you can tell him you'd like to stop fucking and start dating.
I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
Sorry if this is too long!
Sounds like an immature jerk. Break up with him.