Question Posted Monday September 20 2010, 11:15 pm
soo me and this guy had a thing at the end of the summer it was only for a few weeks but i was really starting to fall for him. then he just stopped texting me and told me he's kinda with this girl now. i work with him and i kinda want to make him realize like "wow thats what i missed out on". i don't like being played and messed with..how can i do thiss?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Trauma answered Wednesday September 22 2010, 8:48 pm: Trust me, you don't want to be "that girl". You could try to make him want you, but it could also fail, and then you'll just look desperate. I'm not trying to be rude, I've just seen this situation enough times to know that trying to make him jealous usually isn't a good idea. He's in a relationship right now, so don't interfere. Go out, have fun, and don't think about him. Don't let him know that his "game" got to you. Honestly, the best way to drive a guy crazy is by acting like you're perfectly happy without him. [ Trauma's advice column | Ask Trauma A Question ]
Matt answered Tuesday September 21 2010, 4:25 am: Continue texting him as if he's another guy. When he texts you back saying it's not him, refuse to believe him and continue texting him constantly.
I don't know if he'll realized what he missed out on (or if there was anything to miss out on in the first place), but I do know that that would be really annoying. [ Matt's advice column | Ask Matt A Question ]
gr8fruit answered Tuesday September 21 2010, 12:30 am: Hey there,
The easiest thing to do, is ask him if he wants to hang out sometime. See if he wants to catch a movie at your place, take a walk around a park, get some ice cream, or have a picnic. It doesn't matter if it is anything extreme, it just has to be something where you are alone with him and can show him your personality, which will make him smile :)
You say you already know him a bit, so you would know if he is a player. Trust your instincts. If something feels wrong, it probably is. The only way to know for sure, is to get to know him better.
If you can make him laugh, he probably likes you and if he quickly says yes to one of your options, he is probably already interested. Just gain some one on one, show him who you really are, and flirt of course. Wink at him, say sweet things, look him in the eyes, lean on his shoulder, and touch his arm/leg. He will get the hint and if he likes it, he won't tell you to back off... even if he has a girlfriend. If he does say "hey, you know I have a girl" or something like that, say "I'm sorry, I was curious" and grin at him. Just be yourself and he will be sure to fall for you in time <3 [ gr8fruit's advice column | Ask gr8fruit A Question ]
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