He keeps asking for sex and I don't know what to say anymore!
Question Posted Monday September 20 2010, 11:19 pm
my boyfriend keeps asking me to have sex with him but i havent gave him an answer yet so what do i do ? i'm 15
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sofiatonicha08 answered Wednesday September 22 2010, 9:35 pm: hey bbe im sofia im 15 too x
the questain ive got for you is do you trust him?
because if you dont trust him dont do it girl
your underage anyway x
but not gnnanag you on that because i have sex but say NO and if he keeps nagging you leave him because someone who love and repects you would not force you in to something like that
i got raped when i was 13 i was not ready to have sex i was still a baby but ive been doing it since and it has ruined evrything for me cosi didnt trust the fella
becarefull and if you decide to use a condom x
ly x [ sofiatonicha08's advice column | Ask sofiatonicha08 A Question ]
stefplus7 answered Tuesday September 21 2010, 1:38 pm: What do you do??? You tell him flat out NO I am only 15 yrs old I am not ready to give my virginity up yet and if you cant respect that austa baby there is someone out there that will respect it. Trust me I was married at 16 and divorced at 26, this guy wanted to be my daddy instead of a husband but Now that I am older I know now that the guys I slept with when I was 14,15 they didnt LOVE me they liked that I had big boobs and a crotch they can tap.. And if you decide or decided to sleep with him remember you can get pregnant and ask yourself are you ready to be a mommy!! Good Luck and enjoy your life while your young motherhood will be amazing when your old enough to support him/her. [ stefplus7's advice column | Ask stefplus7 A Question ]
Sami143 answered Tuesday September 21 2010, 10:49 am: If he is pressuring you to have sex with you he honestly doesnt care about you. i know thats hard to hear but its true. All he wants is sex. But he isnt the only guy hunny. Its teenage boys in general. Talk to him and tell him your too young and your not ready to have sex. if he doesnt understand or gets mad then leave him. he doesnt deserve you. but you should never let anyone pressure you into having sex. Its when your ready. not when someone wants you to be ready.
gr8fruit answered Tuesday September 21 2010, 12:14 am: Hi there,
If you don't feel comfortable having sex, tell him you don't feel comfortable. He would of said 'ok' to you saying no and continued your normal relationship if he really respected you, but since he keeps bugging you, tell him to lay off. The only way to stop him is to let him know you are serious. If he still keeps pressuring you after that, don't talk to him for a bit.
If he eventually apologizes or actually stops asking you for sex, then let him back in. He shouldn't just want you for sex, there are more important things to a relationship... and if thats all he wants, he is not the right guy for you <3 [ gr8fruit's advice column | Ask gr8fruit A Question ]
hitler_the_goat answered Tuesday September 21 2010, 12:04 am: If you don't feel comfortable with having sex, then tell him so. if he persists, tell him to fuck off. simple as that. just wait, in a few years, the hormones will balance out, and they'll start acting normal.
-gunner [ hitler_the_goat's advice column | Ask hitler_the_goat A Question ]
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