kristamikele answered Saturday September 18 2010, 9:43 am: It means different things. Sometimes it's just innocent, like you run into your ex, or someone mentions his name, and you start thinking about the good times, and it can even hurt because it's really hard to let a person go. Even if you don't really like your ex, it's always hard when he gets a new girl, and all of a sudden you'll start wondering if you could get him back, or if he likes her better than he liked you...Sometimes, you are having issues with your current boyfriend so you start thinking about how it was with your ex and wondering if you didn't have it better before. It's definately normal to think about your ex, but it's not normal to think about him constantly. I wouldn't take it as a sign, though, because then you're just looking for trouble. Don't do anything drastic. If this is something that has just started happening, try to understand why you're feeling this way, and how you're actually feeling. Have a good conversation with you, and spend most of the time listening. If you find that you truly have feelings for your ex, you don't necessarily have to share that information with your boyfriend, but you definately should not start flirting with your ex and trying to test out the waters unless you break up with your boyfriend. I know it would suck if you were to break up with your boyfriend only to find out that your ex isn't interested, but if you start flirting with your ex when you still have a boyfriend, your ex will think you're a cheat, and he won't take the relationship seriously. Not to mention, you will really hurt your boyfriend because it is painful to get cheated on. See, there's so much to think about. Just take it slow and be honest with yourself, and don't make any sudden decisions. [ kristamikele's advice column | Ask kristamikele A Question ]
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