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New Friend
After being chased for almost a year I finally allowed him to come over. Being both spontaneous Aquarians we have had sex both times that he visited. I know he likes me but I told him I thought he was too young for me (12 years younger) but over 35. How do I get the relationship to take a turn away from sex to more serious dating?
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Tell him you don't want to be this intamite when you're not even dating - honesty is the best policy! :3 Tell him you want to start dating (if he likes you he will agree) and that you want to have sex in moderation.
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You pretty much blew it by having sex and THEN deciding you want to date. That's the backwards way, and its that way for a reason. I guess the best thing to do now would be to have a heart to heart discussion and admit that perhaps you both jumped the gun too quickly by getting intimate right away, and that you would like to have the chance to get to know him better and for him to know you better, as friends and romantic interests, not as sex partners.
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Stop blaming your actions on the stars and planets and begin accepting that it's your own bad judgment.
After you do that, you can tell him you'd like to stop fucking and start dating.
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