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Do you have any suggestion for a birthday gift that ALL men like? I don't know him that well, but I want to give him something he will really remember. :) (link)
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There is no gift that ALL men will like. Men are not just men or some sort of jumbled simple thing men are people and all men, and all women like different things because all people are different. Most men like video games, however, some don't, ask him what he likes, get to know him more, ask him about his hobbies and maybe you'll get an idea of what he likes. Also simply ask "Hey would you like if I bought you [insert gift here]?" for example maybe he likes watches and would like it alot if you got him a nice watch, maybe he likes piercings or tattoos, offer to pay for a tattoo he wants. (WARNING: They're expensive.) or a piercing or a new pair of studs perhaps. I can't recommend gifts for someone I don't know :3 everybody's different, so you need to do some digging to find out what he might like.
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I've always known something was wrong with me. I had issues with self harm for a long time. I still have suicidial thoughts. I feel the need to drink and smoke when feeling down. My newest being a need to "binge eat". But I tried to stop all that, and change. It all made me hate myself more than I already do but I snapped a bit today. Just ate a take out carton full of fries, grilled cheese, two sloppy joes. a carton full of sweet potato fries and some funyuns. all within twenty minutes then popped a laxative. never ate a laxative after binging before... but I just grabbed the pack I had in my room (because I heard it was a quick weight loss technique)and did it. who knows why?
Anyway I know to get the help I need I'd have to go through my dad and I can't talk to my family. And I really mean I can't. I'm already the black sheep...and it's funny because I give advice on here and try to be there for people and i'm starting to wonder if maybe all the times I said it was going to be okay was me subconsciously trying to make myself believe that...
I know it doesn't seem like there is a question in here...i guess i kinda just needed to vent. I have no one to talk to. (link)
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Hi, I know exactly what you are going through and I'm literally losing the most important person in my life over these same problems.
I'm 98% sure I'm depressed, I have suicidal thoughts sometimes, but I never consider it, I used to self-harm but stopped for my bf. Because of my own personal beliefs I would never smoke or drink. I wish I binged instead I just don't eat, I can't.
I thought I couldn't talk to my family either, I'd only ever spoken to my friends about it until one day my bf made me realize that I needed help, and to prove that I could better myself I told my dad that I used to hurt myself and that I was depressed. He tried as hard as he could to get me a therapist. I went to a therapist for 6 months and she did nothing for me. So I'm trying my hardest to find a new therapist while in the process I'm just breaking down and losing him.
It's hard. It's so hard. My life is so perfect and I'm so sad and I don't know why. I get upset over every little thing. I completely and entirely understand what you are going through and it's a terrible thing. Please vent to me if you need, talk to me all you want, I know how it feels I can't even talk to my closest friends and it's so horrid to be sad like this. Add me on skype, you can vent to me all you want. My skype is: Kiba.Wolfe (The celestial messenger of dirty pillows)
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Okay so first of all im 15 and let's say my ex is tom(15) and my new boyfriend is chad(16).
So tom and I dated like a little over a year ago and our relationship didn't end too swell. We had lots of fun but every time he'd try to move farther with me in the relationship I would say no and yes he respected that. But the thing is I was an 8th grader and he was a freshman at the time and our schools were different but we saw each other every weekend and sometimes during the week. Then all of a sudden 3 weeks into our relationship he dumped me over a text saying that he can't do the long distance? Lol it wasn't even long distance? We lived like a mile away from each other...it took me awhile to get over him because he was the first guy I actually truly liked. Oh and he has been the first and only guy to ever dump me. Then last summer I met a guy through a friend and we talked and we have been dating for almost 11 months now. We are very serious with each other and tell each other everything and very open but we've never had the chance to meet face to face yet. But this summer we are going to see each other. So this past 11 months its been long distance with Skype and texting and phone calls. So my dilema is I love chad but tom has never fully left the back of my head...I feel like a horrible girlfriend just thinking about tom. Because chad is so perfect for me we hardly ever argue or anything. I want to be with chad I love him (whatever love is at this age) but tom I find myself thinking about.. is this because chad and I haven't been together yet? (Kiss, and hug etc) and the last guy I was with was Tom. Tom and I text sometimes out of the blue but completely as friends, he trys to flirt but I stop it. I want to be with chad once again. I just dont know why I keep thinking about tom. How do I stop it? Oh and tom and I have not spoke of the breakup since it happened. (link)
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It's not wrong to think about Tom. It's wrong to consider kissing him and cheating on Chad with him. It's not wrong to remember Tom and think about him unless you're still thinking of him romantically. And what I mean by romantically is just thinking of your feelings for him and missing your relationship, not simply thinking of the memories and smiling. You and Chad will be fine. Also if you feel guilty talk to Chad about it, communication is key! You're not a terrible girlfriend at all.
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my boyfriend wants to insert his penis in my ass.. but im not allowing as we are only 17! now he just wants to touch his penis on my ass.. im not ready for that also as im scared of precum.. he cannot take a condom.. so he has asked for using plastic instead of condom. is it ok to allow him to cover his penis with plastic bag and let him touch my ass?is it safe? (link)
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I am 18 and I have had unprotected anal sex multiple times. Do not fret, condoms prevent STD's but me and my bf are both clean so for anal, you can't get pregnant from precum but be safe if you need to. If you ever decide to do anal use lots of lube. Just touching your ass with it does nothing but turn him on, there's no sexual dangers in that. Also no, using a plastic bag does nothing at all for you. It won't protect you from pregnancy, it won't protect you from STD's, there's no point in it. Also, never do anything you're uncomfortable with or not ready for, simply tell him you're not ready. :3 Communication is key!
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hi I'm 19 and my boyfriend said he wanted to try anal sex... The thing is that I never tried it before and I think it will hurt like reallllllly bad. I want to make him happy but at the same time I think that it could be painful :/ I don't know what to do because I love him so much and don't want to disappoint him. We have been dating for a year now. If you know what I could say to him, or any advice in general I would love it! By the way I love your column!
Thank you :) (link)
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Oh wow thank you, I haven't been on here in years, I am surprised. The first time me and my boyfriend did anal it was rather painful. Tell him to take it nice and slow and use lots of lube. Around the 3rd or 4th time I did it I enjoyed it. It all depends on size really, he's really really big so the first time was just plain painful and I bled, I still bleed sometimes. Whereas his first time doing anal with a small toy, he enjoyed it, so it all depends on size, size of penis and size of person taking it. Have fun, tell him you're nervous, tell him how you're feeling, tell him you want to take it slow, communication is key! If he hurts don't be afraid to tell him to stop or to slow down or to not move for a second or two. And when I say slow I mean like 60 seconds for him to just get in you, take it very very slow the first time. Like turtle slow.
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My friend and I were inseparable. I liked him, he liked me. One day he was dared to ask out MY BEST FRIEND. She said Ed and they had been datin since. I was pretty jealous so I started telling her about him and I. He found out and he hasn't talked to me for months. I really want our friendship back but I don't know how. I just want it to be like old times :( how can I do that? (link)
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Be honest, tell him you were jealous that he was spending all his time with her and if he can't accept an apology then he's not a real friend and he's not worth it if he's willing to dump your friendship over one stupid girl.
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feel suicidal can anyone help ? (link)
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You have to figure out what the problem is. What is causing you to feel this way? Disect the problem and fix it or talk to someone who will help you understand your feelings, it could just be depression if you don't really know the cause, contact your doctor or a suicide hotline, there's always hope my love.
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Right so I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 16, we have so much respect for each other and he's the one I want to lose my virginity to, i know you are all going to say "you way too young" but I know I'm ready! Nothing's going to change my mind... I've discussed the topic with him and he said its up to me, he would never push me into anything I wasn't ready for. I was just wondering where the best place to do this would be? Ehm also, I've done everything but sex with him... I might be staying at his sisters with him soon, should I do it then? I know I'm ready so no nasty comments thank you... I'm American so we're both under-age...
Please don't call me a 'slut', 'whore' ect... Because I'm not I'm mad for this boy so before you judge think?!
Thanks:'-)! (link)
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I am going to answer your question with complete and utter honesty. I am no judging you at all I am sharing my knowledge with you based on my OWN personal experiences I am in no means saying I know everything or to not do this or to not break up with him I am sharing my opinions and thoughts with you and giving my advice but I am going to be honest. So if you are easily offended just ignore this and look to someone else's advice but this is mine.
From what I've come to know trusting a guy that much older than you, usually doesn't work but I know someone I would go out with of the same age difference so it depends on the person. From my experience, he can say many sweet things like I would never pressure you, it's up to you, even if you ask what HE wants he will still say it's your decision. I have had several guys use me just for sex. I was dating a very very sweet guy, all my friends told me he was a good choice we were cute and stuff. He was 16 going on 17, I was 15 going on 16, no big difference, I loved him I wasn't IN love with him but I loved him and I was stupid enough to believe in this love that he was the one I wanted to lose my virinity to, he told me sweet things he said "I'll be here for you, I promise I will stick with you until something f***** up happens." I said like what? And he said who knows? The worled is a f***** up place. My friends were like aww that's sweet! He always told me I never had to do anything I didn't want, and he would never pressure me, I even planned to have sex with him for his bday and he said no. But then he said to his friends behind my back "Oh I would totally have sex with her then just break up with her!" Fortunately I was lucky enough to be friends with the same guy he told, and he cares about me and told me because he didn't want to see me get hurt. A guy cheated on his girlfriend of two years with me just for sexual urges, and I really cared for him because of his personality, I wanted someone sweet and loyal to write me poems and make me cute promises, but he wasn't that guy, he cheated on his gf and he doesn't deserve her, she is the sweetest most faithful girl, I was very close friends with her and now we don't talk at all. I liked another guy for two years, he always would fool around with me and touch me and things when we hung out, I almost went to third base with him and he told me I was the only girl he'd ever done those things with but he never told me he liked me or wanted me to be his gf. Instead he dated some other girl a month later. They all used me. I am the last person to be calling you a slut. You're not a slut for having sexual urges, you are ESPECIALLY not a slut for wanting to have sex with your BOYFRIEND. You are a slut if you DO have sex with MULTIPLE random hookups, not your boyfriend. I was very stupid, I didn't see past the infatuation, fortunately my body told me something my mind couldn't comprehend, everytime I was about to go too far, I would freeze. I would stop where I was and I wouldn't continue what we were doing and when I was ready, I would go all the way. I had a new bf named Dani, boy was I head over heels for that kid, I wanted to lose my virginity to him, I was 15 and so was he, we were both virgins and I loved him, I nearly fell in love with him, I thought I was. We were together for 3 months, it never happened, another guy flirted with me and he dumped me, hates me and doesn't talk to me. That other guy just so happens to be my current bf who I know is in love with me. 3 days ago was our 1 month anniversary and I lost my virginity to him, I never ONCE thought I would lose it to him but that day, I looked into his eyes and I knew I was ready and I knew I was in love with him, it was real because I chose the right person this time. His heart was dark and tortured and I was the one to save him. He had locked his emotions away for all 15 years of his life, and I had brought them back somehow.....because I was destined to be the only other girl he was in love with. He didn't lie to me he had a former love, they never got together but if they did he would tell me because he's told me all about his past sex life, he's far from a virgin I can tell in his experience, and what he does to me. I lost my virginity to him that day and afterwards he kissed me on the forehead and told me he loved me. I didn't need a sweet poem or a promise. When love is true, you know it. And I want you to believe in this before you fall so hard for someone who might not feel the same way about you as you do about him. I know how it feels, it hurts and if you lose your viriginity to the wrong person imagine how much more broken down you will be if they betray you, it hurts in general knowing how much you love them but if they're you're first it will be a more fatal blow than you can imagine. Yes, my bf is perverted he tries so many things and doesn't listen when I say stop unless I'm serious, he's immature, he's irritating, he's very sexual, he pins me down and says he will rape me and if I let him, he really will. He's done it before. But I know he loves me and if I honestly didn't like it, he wouldn't do it, but it's part of who he is and I love every last drop of it. I love him for who he is and I wouldn't change anything about him. I love it when he plays games with me, I tease him so that he does do that. It's part of me. I pull away so that he'll pull me close and kiss me all over my face until I let him kiss my lips. I kiss his cheek and walk away so that he'll grab me, pull me in, and hold me close. I mean everything to him, when I broke up with him the first time(due to severe complication with the other guy) he was crushed, he literally walked around like an emotionless zombie, nothing in his past had ever hurt him like that, he was the most happy care-free energetic person because he sealed his emotions away. I brought them out in him and he can't handle the torture unless I'm there with him. It's true love. I know he was the right person. I hope you do too. Use protection.
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Im a 19 year old female and I've been dating this guy on and off for about 6 years now and it started in high school. He used to treat me so well and I loved him. I felt like this was the guy I was going to marry but then he just changed. He started to cheat on me and I would just look past it because I thought he loved me and he would never do that to me. After a while people started to realize that he was cheating on me so I felt stupid and we broke up. We kept getting back together over the period of time but then he met this new girl, Katie. I didn't really care at the time because I had a new awesome boyfriend who treated me way better than my old bf ever did. Then when my ex broke it off with his girlfriend katie, he came running back to me and I loved him so i dumped my boyfriend and went back to him. The same stuff was going on but i loved him so much that i just brushed it off. As i got older i realized how dumb i was being after he didnt come back to me like he always did. I wasn't going to wait around. So for these last 6 months we havent been together or have talked to eachother or anything. He and his gf Katie broke up and he added me on facebook. I thought that he was just trying to do it to make his gf mad because he always used to do that so i didnt answer him. He kept trying but i didnt answer. Then i seen him at a party and he managed to get back into my life. He started texting me after he left and since then we have started dating again. Everything was going so well and he was treating me like he never had before. I was so happy and i thought that he finally came around and realized i was the one he wanted to be with but lately things have been so different. We had an amazing New Years and he was so affectionate towards me. It was fabulous until it just changed one day. we were at a party and he was ignoring me and just be rude to me and saying really mean things. He finally said something just completely out of line and i just walked out of the party. I stayed outside of the garage because i heard him talking and he was talking sh*t about me! I couldnt believe it. Usually when he is mean to me he always fixes it. I thought that when he left that he would text me or something but he didnt. I told myself that i wasnt going to be upset about it but i just cant help it. I am so heartbroken. I thought that i was smarter and stronger than that and i let him back into my heart and he just completely broke me. I can't talk to any of my friends about it because they tell me i should have known better. I just really need someone to tell me something positive and what i should do. I feel so alone and upset. i could use somebody. (link)
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Break up with him. Lol sorry I only read the title but if a man treats you like shit that means he doesn't love you. If he does than tell him well that's tough shit if you treat me like this then you don't deserve me. Block him ignore him do not think about him. Think about how horrible he was to you and don't think about him or else you'll want him back. Sorry I didn't give such good advice but I have homework to do.
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I'm 15 and I'm pregnant. I know it's not ideal. I know it's a bad situation. I'm not happy or proud of what I did. It's something I know I have to deal with though.
I told my mom two days ago that I am pregnant. She was really mad at me and told me that we'd get rid of "it" soon enough then.
I tried to tell her it's not what I want. I want to take responsibility. I know it's a hard road. I don't want to kill my baby or "get rid of it." I want this baby and I want to do my best with him or her.
My mom says I'm being stupid and on Monday she's going to call the clinic to schedule an appointment to have an abortion done.
I get where she's coming from, but it is NOT what I want to do. I want to give birth and raise my kid the best I can. I'm not perfect. Nobody is. I just want to try my best.
They always say it's 'my body and my choice' but I feel like my mom isn't giving me a choice here. It's my mistake and I want to do what I think is best. It's my baby I am carrying. I don't want to have an abortion. What do I do? How can I get help so she doesn't make me get one? (link)
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Oh my gosh! Tell her it's not her decision it's your baby and you're choice! I mean 15 and pregnant you're not really ready to raise a child and she probablly feels she will be the one to take responsibiblity, tell her it IS your choice stand up to her for yourself and your baby is the father willing to help? If he is don't worry it won't be that hard tell her you are only doing what's best for the baby and you want to have it yourself taking another's life away is cruel. Especially if it's not your decision to take. Get the father on your side to convince her you will do a good job and you will be a good mother and take care of him/her. and you will do anything for him/her!
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I am not a good person. I have made many poor choices and no matter how hard I try, I cannot seem to stop screwing up. I know suicide is selfish, but I just don't want to hurt anyone else. I know that by committing suicide I will hurt many people, especially my daughters, but if I stick around I will hurt them more over the years. I have tried everything and nothing has worked. I know I will go to hell, and I am prepared because I deserve it. I tried to get God to stop me or help me or save me, but He hasn't. He just lets me continue to hurt those I love. I have researched, and thought this through for a very long time, tried to get every help I could. Am I missing something? I don't think there is any other way out. No matter what I do, I will hurt my loved ones. This seems to be my only option, but before I go and do it, I thought I would just ask. Maybe in the depths of this pain, I have missed another choice. Maybe not. (link)
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Just because you have made poor choice doesn't mean you're a bad person just think about your choice before making it and pick the right choice. Everyone screws up nobody's perfect, suicide is selfish it will hurt people more than anything you've done before. Because if you suicide it will hurt people much worse and they'll be thinking how it may have been their fault and thinking their whole lives about how they could have stopped you or helped you. You have daughters? You cannot do that to them!!! Make them live without a father they will be so crushed and you want to watch them from heaven crying over your lost life wouldn't you be crushed if your father commited suicide and you lived without him? No suicides go to hell, you can never be with them the death of a loved one often triggers suicide to them as well. You don't want that for them. God cannot help you stop hurting people only you can. THERE IS ALWAYS ANOTHER WAY OUT!!!! Things are not as bad as they seem, try to sit them down and talk about how they feel about you and what you did to hurt them and listen and do not argue and ask them what they want you to change and really try do not give up easily try try try! Whatever they want you to change go for it. There's always another choice please don't go through with it. I know where you have been I felt unloved and alone after my grandmother died, I knew my friend was leaving to another school and I'd almost never see her (I saw her once in the summer but haven't seen her since then, her parents are strict and I can only see her when she comes over which is rare) and she's my most close friend and my best friend in the whole world moved to another state and I haven't seen her in years. The boy I was crushing on for 2 years started ignoring me I saw him only 3 times last year. I'm glad 2010 is over, worst year ever it was like everyone else felt the same because 2011 celebration was one of the biggest ever. I felt a huge weight lifted off my shoulders I cut myself I though of suicide but I got through it and it's a new year think of it as a fresh start. Don't go through with it trust me. You may change it's easier than you think! Oh my god you're a female all females feel that way about themselves at one point in life (I'm a female) I have a friend who's deep in depression but I love her with all my heart and I would be so crushed and alone if she commited suicide please don't go through with it. Have hope!!!!!
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There's this girl I hang out with a lot. We've known each other since we were little kids. We grew up together and we're both 15 now. For 4 years now I've fallen for her hard. I daydream of her all of the time. I dream of her at night. I can't get her out of my head. I love everything about her from the way she smiles to the smell of her hair when I'm close to her. I always seem to find myself making excuses to see her more often. I feel like I'm obsessed because my feelings for her are so strong I can't have a proper girlfriend (I always end up being distant to them, not really wanting to date them, and dumping them early on because of my lack of interest).
I've kept these feelings a secret but sometimes I think I should tell her. I'm afraid she won't feel the same though, and I'll end up ruining the friendship. I know I sound like such a wuss here but the emotions are so intense and I've kept them in so long.
What's the best thing to do in this particular situation? Should I tell her and risk everything? Should I keep this stuff bottled in? (link)
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You should tell her and she'll either feel the same way back and if she doesn't then ask her if you guys can just stay friends and things shouldn't change but if it does tell her to pretend it didn't happen because it doesn't change anything. If she lets it ruin the friendship then she's not worth it. Good luck!
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18f. My boyfriend and I decided after four months, mutually that we should be friends. Hes the same age. Things had been going good, but then things would feel off and we would not see eachother for a while and then be happy when we were together again. I felt we needed more interesting things to do when we were together and he just seemed content. One day he seemed real frustrated at me and so I had brought up the idea of being friends for awhile, he said he agreed. His one guy friend said to me that he probably didn't want to break up and that he just agreed, which makes me wonder if he still has feelings. I don't have any close friends/family to talk to or hang out with and so all I can think about is him. I feel as if I lost the only person I had going for me, but I also feel it was kind of the right thing to do. I hope to find another guy, but every nice guy seems taken. I am a friendly, approachable person. What to do?
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Well I'm being lazy here ask to get back together with him or that u wanna hang out more, sorry it's not a good anwser but I just really gotta pee!!!!!
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My ex boyfriend put on his facebook last night 'praying that you miss me'
That's obviously about me (who else would be missing him) I know he's not seeing/dating anyone else because I'm good friends with his friends and they told me he's not (I didn't ask them)
Btw he broke up with me 3 months ago. For the first 2 months I contacted him but the past month I haven't. (link)
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Mmmm, he probablly misses you or hopes you miss him and may want him back.
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My mom got me a hamster for Christmas. He's really cute and I'm happy because I wanted a new pet for a long time. The hamster is kind of big and is black and white colored with a pink nose. I was wondering if anybody had some sort of cute Christmas names I could name him since I got him today (Christmas)? I'm not coming up with anything, and my mom is like, "Name him Santa!" so...any other ideas? Thanx (link)
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Lol u could name him oreo, or christmasy......mmmmmm........gingerbread, ribbon, eh I can't think of any christmas names lol xD cookie, milkyway, uhm can't think of anything good luck! I had a black and white hamster....his name was oreo :3
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15/f
I don't think I've ever felt love before.. of any kind. I mean I like my family but I feel towards them what I would feel towards a stranger or looking at a wall. Sure, I tell them I love them occasionally but I guess everyone just says that. I don't really have the best relationship with my family but not the absolute worst. That's probably because I don't like to spend a lot of time at home. I'm usually at a friends or when I am home I sit in my room away from the rest of them. And that's okay because it keeps me away from the bitching they do. Just is it normal to not really feel anything special? Is it like a mental thing? Or do you sincerely feel something? Maybe I'm jut thinking about it to much or expecting to much.. I dunno.
I don't think I've ever felt a lot of emotion before and I am just lately realizing it. I'm young, I know.
Also, just another little side question for fun.
Don't you think the worth of "love" kind of decreased like everyone literally tells everyone "I love you" whether they mean it or not. Makes it not as special, yanno? (link)
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Well if they do alot of arguing (that's what bitching means in my family)that's probablly why you don't spend much time with them and don't feel that love for them. It's normal my friend says she's never said i love you to her mom or hugged her. That's not really normal but I'm sure what you're feeling isn't totally uncommon. It may be a mental thing, if anything happened to you as a child or you're sensative talking about your family with other people. Expecting too much I don't think so, thinking about it too much....maybe, if you're letting it bother you. Never felt much emotion that's normal some people are just like that. It did not decrease people I know say I love you but there's different kinds of love like you may love someone like love who they are or what they do or you may love a friend like they're you're family or you can be in love with someone which is alot different. I've never really met anyone who says I love you without meaning it like as if to a stranger. You may just love someone for something they have done it's as simple as that. Some people have a lot of love in them (I for one happen to be one of those lucky little ducks!) :3
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One day when my boyfriend was over in my room we were dancing and grinding. I was kidding around and started to grind on his ass like guys do to girls. He said he actually liked it and I saw he got a big hard on. Now when he comes over and I feel like dancing he will make remarks about me grinding on his butt again. Sometimes I do it and when I do I can see he gets really turned on. Yesterday we did that and we ended up having amazing sex after. Is this okay or weird? (link)
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No it's not weird everyone is different and have different things that turn them on. and guys are easily turned on.
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ok so im 18/f and hes 19/m
i dont know why this is confusing me so much but it is. haha.
so i messaged him saying
' when i see you expect big tackle hugs'
and his response was
' haha okies =] from you...=]'
its the from you...=] part thats really confusing me. what does he mean by that? is it flirty?
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Uhm no I don't think so from you probablly means he's assuming you are going to give him big tackle hugs it's possible he thinks you like him or he likes you and is hiding it by ploying that you like him.
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Alright I'm a 19 year old male,and I've known this girl for a lot of my life. In the past two years we've realized that we have feelings for each other. Due to a series of complicated events she's actually been dating another guy for almost two years living with him for more than one.
Their relationship has always been tenious at best as he is abusive and controlling (she told me herself I've had to take her in to the hospital for the damage he's done) Unfortunately whenever we do get together (I've been living in another city for a while now) we end up kissing, telling each other how much we love each other, I've never had sexual relations as I won't condone cheating more than we have. Sorry for the long story, just on new year's I finally told her that we should be together but due to the vast distance and her lack of place to live if she leaves her boyfriend the only option is for her to live with me in a new city, basically should I ask her to move in with me? Thank you in advance for your help. (link)
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DEFINITELY tell her to move in (sorry if I spelt it wrong.) Her boyfriend's abusive? That's terrible! Tell her to break it off with him if he really loves her he wouldn't hurt her the hospital? That's insane tell her to move in with you if she's cheating it's obvious that his physical abuse is messing with her psychologically and her emotions are a bit mixed and instead of being loyal to her beater she goes to the one she loves- you. It's what he deserves of course tell her to break it off with him because he doesn't deserve her and if he loves her he wouldn't treat her like that. You can treat her well if you love her and she can be happy with you.
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I am always really, really tired. I mean, I could take a nap at any time of the day and sleep for a couple of hours, easy. I usually sleep anywhere from 9 to 12 hours every single night. I always feel so darn tired and sleepy. Sometimes when I'm up for about 11 or 12 hours I start to feel flat-out exhausted and I haven't even done much at all, you know? When I was little I hardly ever slept, I had insomnia, and I would sleep like 3 or 4 hours at night if i was lucky. I was never tired then. Now I'm 17. What is wrong with me? (link)
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It's because you're over sleeping trust me if I sleep 12 hours I feel exhausted. Wow I have insomnia too, lol maybe you need less sleep I'm tired if I get 7 hours or 12 hours lol I think a good 9-10 in between is ok because I still feel a little tired but not bad. I'm 14 turning 15 soon but you can try it if you oversleep you'll feel tired try to get a good inbetween sleep maybe you need 6-9 hours instea of 9-12 :3 hope my advice helps!
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