One day when my boyfriend was over in my room we were dancing and grinding. I was kidding around and started to grind on his ass like guys do to girls. He said he actually liked it and I saw he got a big hard on. Now when he comes over and I feel like dancing he will make remarks about me grinding on his butt again. Sometimes I do it and when I do I can see he gets really turned on. Yesterday we did that and we ended up having amazing sex after. Is this okay or weird?
AskSinz answered Friday January 7 2011, 8:55 am: This is totally fine, your just finding it weird because normally its the other way around. Your boyfriend is just telling you what he likes and you should feel quite happy. But if it's too weird for you or you dont like it then have a talk with him, but there is absolutely nothing wrong with it xx [ AskSinz's advice column | Ask AskSinz A Question ]
adviceman49 answered Monday January 3 2011, 2:24 pm: To answer your question, when it comes to sex my view is this: anything done between two consenting adults, as long as no one is physically hurt, is absolutely fine. No one should force their partner to try or do something that partner is not comfortable with. This goes both ways. A guy should not force a girl and a girl should not force a guy. If either agrees to try something and while you are trying it, it turns you off or it hurts; you say stop and you stop. No pleading, begging just stop. If you follow this rule you should have a very enjoyable sex life.
As to your boyfriend asking you to grind against his but, this is normal for a lot of guys. Some guys are blessed or cursed, depending with a lot of feeling in their butts. Grinding or lightly pressing their butts or dragging your nails over their butts is very exciting. This may sound weird but try lightly smacking his butt, he may like it. It all has to do with extra nerve endings back there. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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