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Then man I love treats me like sh*t. What should i do?
Im a 19 year old female and I've been dating this guy on and off for about 6 years now and it started in high school. He used to treat me so well and I loved him. I felt like this was the guy I was going to marry but then he just changed. He started to cheat on me and I would just look past it because I thought he loved me and he would never do that to me. After a while people started to realize that he was cheating on me so I felt stupid and we broke up. We kept getting back together over the period of time but then he met this new girl, Katie. I didn't really care at the time because I had a new awesome boyfriend who treated me way better than my old bf ever did. Then when my ex broke it off with his girlfriend katie, he came running back to me and I loved him so i dumped my boyfriend and went back to him. The same stuff was going on but i loved him so much that i just brushed it off. As i got older i realized how dumb i was being after he didnt come back to me like he always did. I wasn't going to wait around. So for these last 6 months we havent been together or have talked to eachother or anything. He and his gf Katie broke up and he added me on facebook. I thought that he was just trying to do it to make his gf mad because he always used to do that so i didnt answer him. He kept trying but i didnt answer. Then i seen him at a party and he managed to get back into my life. He started texting me after he left and since then we have started dating again. Everything was going so well and he was treating me like he never had before. I was so happy and i thought that he finally came around and realized i was the one he wanted to be with but lately things have been so different. We had an amazing New Years and he was so affectionate towards me. It was fabulous until it just changed one day. we were at a party and he was ignoring me and just be rude to me and saying really mean things. He finally said something just completely out of line and i just walked out of the party. I stayed outside of the garage because i heard him talking and he was talking sh*t about me! I couldnt believe it. Usually when he is mean to me he always fixes it. I thought that when he left that he would text me or something but he didnt. I told myself that i wasnt going to be upset about it but i just cant help it. I am so heartbroken. I thought that i was smarter and stronger than that and i let him back into my heart and he just completely broke me. I can't talk to any of my friends about it because they tell me i should have known better. I just really need someone to tell me something positive and what i should do. I feel so alone and upset. i could use somebody.
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Break up with him. Lol sorry I only read the title but if a man treats you like shit that means he doesn't love you. If he does than tell him well that's tough shit if you treat me like this then you don't deserve me. Block him ignore him do not think about him. Think about how horrible he was to you and don't think about him or else you'll want him back. Sorry I didn't give such good advice but I have homework to do.
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Dear lonley,
Hello i see your passing for troblee her im a make plain and simple..D.U.M.P. H.I.M
Your passing troble im sorry this is happaning yu dont deserve none of this ..I belive you should go your way aand avoid him ..
*hope you take my advice ..
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Oh my gosh girl you don't deserve any of this. You need to step up to the plate and leave this guy. Take what you learned from him and learn it as a lesson. Don't try to make things work with this man because he's not being fair and he's a mess! I'm sorry that you had to deal with him for so so long. But you need to feel good about yourself because your the good guy. He's the bad guy. You did nothing wrong. So you should be the better one to leave him. After all what have you got to loose from him? He just hurts you over and over and over again....And that's what you want? Heck no. Just dump this guy in front of everyone to even lower his confidence and get back on track to finding someone new. You were doing good by dating someone else after you broke up with this guy but getting back together was probably a big mistake. Don't worry it happens all the time to couples like yours did. Be happy and think to yourself that you are sooooooo much better without this dude! Wish you the best :)
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It sounds like you have let this man control you for far too long. You can only give him so many chances, and boy have you given him many.
Drop him. He isn't worth your time. Love yourself and respect yourself enough to move forward and discover people who surround you with positivity, laughter, optimism and wisdom. Do yourself a favour and move on.
See this experience as something which will transform you. Realise that the pain you are experiencing now will shape you and teach you a lesson for the future. You know, deep down, that you deserve better than he has given you. You don't need anyone. You are complete.
"Everything that has happened in your life has happened perfectly in order for you - and all of the souls involved with you - to grow in exactly the way you've needed and wanted to grow." - Neale Walsch
Take the time to focus only on yourself. Let go, give yourself the freedom you've needed for so long. Separate yourself from anyone who may threaten your happiness and make a promise to yourself that your life will only become more enjoyable now. Welcome to a new way of thinking. :)
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