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long distance: he hasnt talked to me for a week now!
K so im going out with one of my friends cousins and hes a really nice guy and we both love eachother a lot but its a long distance relationship he lives in new york and i live in canada i met him when he came here to visit my friend and we had an instant connection and since then weve been chatting and talking to eachother on the phone but about a month ago he left to a different country for his brothers wedding and he said he was gonna go for 2 months and then he would come here to see me but now hes gonna be gone for a few more months because his sister decided to get married too and weve been chatting and talking on the phone while hes been there but just not as much as we use to we talk maybe once or twice a week and we use to talk everyday before he left i just dont know wut to do i really love him a lot but it just isnt working out for me i mean he hasnt talked to me for a week now and he doesnt seem to be bothered by it but i am plz help wut do i do.
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Dear worried lover,
I belive you should just take a rest from him maybe its not the same when you talk too him tell him how you feel maybe he feels like if he just cant be apart talk aboutt your relation ship ..maybe that will help take care and have fun
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Well first, quit worrying so much. It sounds like he doesn't see his family a whole lot, he probably is just spending a lot of time with them. Or maybe there is bad reception? Something. But it isn't because he needs his space. If he needed his space, he would tell you.
Just gently bring it up to him. "So, we haven't talked in a weekk...what is up with that? :)"
Have YOU tried texting him. A long distance guy always used to message me when I was on facebook, but after a while he would stop so I could message him first. You both have to put in the effort to keep your relationship going.
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this has happen to me once before too but the guy just needs his space. Us girls tend to get a little clingy so all he needs is some space to figure stuff out and do what he went there to do. its not your fault at all so don't think that but he will call you back you just need some patience
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