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Expressing myself through a computer screen Is very hard to do.So sharing info with random people is something i have never done in my life.But im just screaming for help and I have to be heard in one way or another.And im not here to be told that im just overreacting or that i just have to never give up because i've heard it all before and my pain runs so much deeper then that.So listen and just try to spare me the tough love and just help me by giving me the best advice possibly because that it what i really need right now.
This litte feeling that takes over me has been happening since I was a tyke. I mean i felt like my family has always teamed up on me.I guess you can call me the black sheep of my family.I mean my childhooh has been pretty rough but its not about that.The problem is that I feel like im always beening smothered.Like I can never breath in fresh air.When i was younger i used to live in this house that was huge..but sadly it burned to the ground in a huge house fire.So now i live in this box..literally.I feel like in going crazy.The house is over crowded by immature siblings and grown ups.My mom is 40 and so is my dad and those two argue like five year old kids.Im 17 years old and i still cover my ears everytime they go at.Im just so over the whole thing.Being here doesnt feel like a home and im just really ready to live.I mean what parents would want their kids to be around all this screaming and cursing.Im very disappointed in the both of them.Problem #2.The only person that i really felt close to was my twin sister.Its like I was born with my own best friend.From dressing alike to laughing at each others jokes..she was my rib.But no..when she got her so-called boyfriend things changed big time.She start saying things to me like how i couldnt keep a boyfriend becuase no one liked me and how i had no friends.Things that will scar my heart for life.Things she would have never said to me.And she really put me down when she got a job before me.I gratuated in may of 09 and have been looking for a job to help pay for college out of pocket.Im just so sick of being left out.As for friends..My life asnt been anything but a big competion with me.Why does frinedship have to be about jealousy.I can honestly say I never had true blue friends.Now a day everybody just compete's with everyone.No one's honest anymore.I just wanna go to college and start my life.But since I have no money..I have to work for it.Please dont tell me that there's finacial aid becuase i have recieved that but still its nott enough.Yes..I have applied for scholarships and grants.And no..mom and dad cant help becuase their just as selfish as the next person.All they can think about is buying the next hottest car becuase one of their co-workers have it.I need to find myself spiritually but cant never stay focused do to the negative things people fill my head with.I feel like cyring everyday.I just wanna break out of the walls and start my life they I want to. What can I do..? Please you guys..I feel so alone in this world. (link)
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Reading through your question I noticed that all you do is focus on the actions and words of other people. You feel alone due to rejection, being neglected by your family and not knowing who you are yet. You have let the negative energy surrounding you put your journey of self-discovery on hold.
Change your way of thinking. Give Love to all and see the presence of truth in everything and everyone. Know that you are exactly where you are meant to be, where you are now is perfect, wherever you go is perfect. Just stay in the now and everything will fall into place.
Turn on the joy. Smile. Start laughing and live in the now. No one can affect you unless you have ordained it to be so. You are in control of how you handle the actions of others - You are in control of how other people affect you. Everything you are going through is just a lesson for you to learn regarding the power of your own thoughts and strength. Only your thoughts affect you.
You must also be forgiving and unconditionally loving. If you are not forgiving and loving others, you are not forgiving and loving yourself.
You are beautiful beyond understanding and you have more power inside of you than you realise. Start to embrace your strength and push yourself to the end. When you finally begin to see that you are on a journey, you will realise the trivial quality of your suffering and you will easily be able to remove yourself from it.
Most people don't know or don't accept that if they had no thoughts they would be happy. Still your mind. Stop being a slave to your emotions and thoughts concerning the past and the future. Live in the thoughtless, eternal and omnipresent now and you will truly experience the happiness and contentment of just being. By just being, you will begin to experience your own formless, joyful, free and peaceful nature. Drop the mind aside. You already have everything you need and once you realise this, gratitude and joy will begin to bloom from within your innermost self and the fragrance emitted will surely begin to intoxicate both your very own self and every passerby.
Only in imagination do you have limits. Good luck.
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Im a 19 year old female and I've been dating this guy on and off for about 6 years now and it started in high school. He used to treat me so well and I loved him. I felt like this was the guy I was going to marry but then he just changed. He started to cheat on me and I would just look past it because I thought he loved me and he would never do that to me. After a while people started to realize that he was cheating on me so I felt stupid and we broke up. We kept getting back together over the period of time but then he met this new girl, Katie. I didn't really care at the time because I had a new awesome boyfriend who treated me way better than my old bf ever did. Then when my ex broke it off with his girlfriend katie, he came running back to me and I loved him so i dumped my boyfriend and went back to him. The same stuff was going on but i loved him so much that i just brushed it off. As i got older i realized how dumb i was being after he didnt come back to me like he always did. I wasn't going to wait around. So for these last 6 months we havent been together or have talked to eachother or anything. He and his gf Katie broke up and he added me on facebook. I thought that he was just trying to do it to make his gf mad because he always used to do that so i didnt answer him. He kept trying but i didnt answer. Then i seen him at a party and he managed to get back into my life. He started texting me after he left and since then we have started dating again. Everything was going so well and he was treating me like he never had before. I was so happy and i thought that he finally came around and realized i was the one he wanted to be with but lately things have been so different. We had an amazing New Years and he was so affectionate towards me. It was fabulous until it just changed one day. we were at a party and he was ignoring me and just be rude to me and saying really mean things. He finally said something just completely out of line and i just walked out of the party. I stayed outside of the garage because i heard him talking and he was talking sh*t about me! I couldnt believe it. Usually when he is mean to me he always fixes it. I thought that when he left that he would text me or something but he didnt. I told myself that i wasnt going to be upset about it but i just cant help it. I am so heartbroken. I thought that i was smarter and stronger than that and i let him back into my heart and he just completely broke me. I can't talk to any of my friends about it because they tell me i should have known better. I just really need someone to tell me something positive and what i should do. I feel so alone and upset. i could use somebody. (link)
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It sounds like you have let this man control you for far too long. You can only give him so many chances, and boy have you given him many.
Drop him. He isn't worth your time. Love yourself and respect yourself enough to move forward and discover people who surround you with positivity, laughter, optimism and wisdom. Do yourself a favour and move on.
See this experience as something which will transform you. Realise that the pain you are experiencing now will shape you and teach you a lesson for the future. You know, deep down, that you deserve better than he has given you. You don't need anyone. You are complete.
"Everything that has happened in your life has happened perfectly in order for you - and all of the souls involved with you - to grow in exactly the way you've needed and wanted to grow." - Neale Walsch
Take the time to focus only on yourself. Let go, give yourself the freedom you've needed for so long. Separate yourself from anyone who may threaten your happiness and make a promise to yourself that your life will only become more enjoyable now. Welcome to a new way of thinking. :)
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Iv been serching my whole life for happyness but nothing fufilles me .I know growing up I had strict parents especaly my father who was a police oficer for 20 odd years .I was naglected and emotionaly and physacaly abused .my whole life I was rejected by family and acused of things that I did not do but hafd to live like an outcast .my family said all the time we care abut you but I wasn't treated fairly .now as an adult its hard for me to open up to anyone on the fear of rjection (link)
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Stress, anger, fear, etc. are all taking you away from the present moment. It takes you away from living life fully and enjoyably. It's a terrible affliction to be constantly thinking, but no one realises because everyone suffers from it. I suggest reading The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle.
Do not allow anyone to determine your worthiness. Don't be tempted to give in to feelings of sadness, or to assess your own value based on this. You are a work of art in the making. Like everyone on this planet, you have made errors of judgement and you've had less than stellar moments which you perhaps had no control over when you were young. But your essence is one of purity, light and value. If you don't believe you are worthy of living a happy and fulfilling life now, then you will never achieve it. Change your mindset, find the goodness and the greatness in yourself and your life. See yourself in the cosmic eyes of the universe and you will understand. Let go, my friend, and live in the moment. This is your life and you are in control of how you live it. Live it well.
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would want to marry?
Title says it, really. Why would God, who knows all about us before He gives us life, let someone who will inevitably, truly, with all their heart want to raise a family be so ugly that no man would want them? (link)
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You must find your self worth. You find your self worth once you realise that you've been holding onto your unworthiness! You find your self worth once you realise the truth that you are totally one with the divine spirit 'which is absolutely everything and everyone. It's simple, my friend. Fully accept yourself and love yourself unconditionally. Your appearance matters not.
Complete acceptance of yourself allows a complete transcendence of yourself. You are so incredibly worthy of love, especially your very own. In fact, you are loved more than you can possibly imagine'¦ Here's a beautiful excerpt from a book entitled Love Without Conditions by Paul Ferrini.
"You have learned conditional love from people whose love for you was compromised by their own guilt and fear. These have been your role models. You need not be ashamed of this. You need only be aware of it as a fact.
From the time you were an infant, you were conditioned to value yourself only when people responded positively to you. You learned that your self worth was established externally. That was the fundamental error, which has perpetuated itself throughout your life.
Your parents' experience was no different from yours, nor was your childrenâs' experience. All of you need to heal from the same wounds. All trespasses/violations must be made conscious and the emotions attached to them must be released. This is the way that all wounded beings move from the experience of conditional love to the experience of love without conditions.
In the process of healing, you learn to give yourself the unconditional love you never received from your biological parents. And in this process you are 'born again, and reparented, not by other authority figures, but by the Source of Love inside yourself.
Learning to give love to the wounded person within begins to reverse your belief that your self worth must be based on how others respond to you. Slowly you retrain yourself to value yourself as you are, here and now, without conditions. No one else can do this for you. People can assist and encourage, but no one can teach you how to love yourself. That is the work of each individual soul.
Each soul comes into physical experience intent to grapple with these issues of self-worth. However, very early on in the soul's sojourn here conditions are placed on its natural ability to love and include others in its experience.
Reversing these conditions is essential. If the soul leaves the physical world believing that it is the victim of its experience here, it will be drawn back again to unlearn that belief. However, if the soul awakens to the truth that its worth is not dependent on anything or anyone outside its mind or experience, it will establish itself in the Source of Love and awaken from the dream of abuse.
Awakening from abuse means rejecting the illusion that you are not lovable as you are. You demonstrate love by giving it unconditionally to yourself. And, as you do, you attract others into your life who are able to love you without conditions.
Your attempt to find love outside yourself always fails, because you cannot receive from another something you haven't given to yourself. When you withhold love from yourself, you attract others into your life who are doing the same thing.
The experience of unconditional love begins in your heart, not in someone else's. Don't make your ability to love yourself conditional on someone else's ability to love you. Don't place your faith in the conditions that surround love or in the form in which it presents itself. For these are impermanent and subject to the vicissitudes of every day life.
Real love does not change. It exists independently of the form through which it expresses. The Source of this eternal, omnipresent, formless Love is within you. This is where your faith must be placed, for this Love is as certain as anything you will ever know. And once It is firmly established in your heart, you will never need to look for happiness outside of yourself.
People will come and go in your life. Some people will treat you well. Others will treat you unkindly. You will accept the love that is there and see lack of love for what it is, a cry for help from one who is hurting. You will encourage others to find the Source of love within as you did, knowing fully that you cannot fix their problems. The tragedy of their lives can only be addressed by their willingness to look within their own hearts and minds.
One who loves without conditions places no limits on his freedom nor on anyone else's. He does not try to keep love, for to try to keep it is to lose it. Love is a gift that must constantly be given as it is asked for in each situation. And the giver always knows when and to whom the gift is to be given.
There is nothing complicated about the act of love. It only become complicated when one starts to withhold love, and then it ceases to be love that one offers.
One who loves himself is not afraid to be alone. For being alone is an opportunity to love and accept himself ever more deeply. If his lover rejects him, does he feel unworthy? Does he pity himself and withdraw from the world, or bury himself in the search for a replacement? No. He simply continues breathing and extending his love at each step in his experience.
One who loves himself unconditionally does not love in degrees or with strings attached. He does not search for someone special to love. He loves everyone who stands before him. One person is no more worthy or unworthy of his love than another. This is kind of love that is being born in you now, my brother and sister. This is the kind of love that I offer you and that I ask you to extend to others.
It is very clear. You cannot misunderstand what I am saying to you. Love can only exist between equals. Love can only exist between beings who have learned to love and value themselves internally.
Love takes no hostages. It makes no bargains. It is not compromised by fear. Indeed, where love is present, fear with all its myriad conditions cannot be.
I encourage you to be honest, my friend. What you know of love is not the kind of love I am describing. The kind of love I am describing is absolutely terrifying to you!
Why is this? Because the experience of Real Love ends your experience of the conditional world. When you experience It, you no longer feel separate from others. You lose every aspect of your identity that pushes others away. You open to a larger reality that you create with others through mutual trust. Judgment falls away and acceptance rules.
'I'm not afraid of that,' you say. But consider it please. Be honest with yourself and with me. You ARE afraid of that, because it ends this dream and the only way your ego knows to end the dream is to die. So please recognize your fear of love, your fear of death, your fear of annihilation.
I have said 'lest you die and be born again you shall not enter the kingdom of heaven.' When I said this I was not talking about reincarnation. I was talking about the death of the ego, the death of all beliefs that separate you from others. I was talking about the end of judgment.
What dies is not you. What dies is everything that you thought you were. Every judgment you ever made about yourself or anyone else. That is what dies. And what is born again is full of light and clarity. It is the Christ that has eternal life, in you and in me.
I tell you, my brother and sister, your resurrection is at hand. And you are afraid of it! You cannot fool me. I see you trembling, on your knees, looking up at the cross where you will soon be lifted up to pay for your sinful thoughts and acts. Do not deny your fear or I will not be able to help you.
What dies on the cross is not you. You are not the body. You are not your fearful thoughts. All this can and will die. If not now, it will happen later. You cannot avoid the death of the ego. You cannot avoid the death of the body. But these are not necessarily the same. Do not make the mistake of believing that your ego dies when your body does, or that your body dies when your ego does.
Your ego dies when you no longer have use for it. Until then, it will not be taken from you. You can hold onto you ego almost forever, but you will not do this. For this is hell forever. There will come a time when the pain will be overwhelming. There will come a time when you will call out to me 'Jesus. Please help me. I am ready to let go.' That time comes for every being, I assure you.
[Let us be clear that Jesus has no exclusive place, or position in the Christ Mind. Krishna, Buddha, Moses, Mohammed, Lao Tzu, and many others are consciously joined with him there, or perhaps I should more accurately say 'here.' If you feel more comfortable addressing yourself to Buddha, or Krishna, please do so. Jesus will not be offended. Indeed, he will be pleased, because you are following his teaching of non-separation.]
Until then, all you can do is walk through your fears. Acknowledge every fear you have and turn each one over to me. 'Jesus, I am afraid to die 'Jesus, I am afraid that God will abandon me.' Let your fears come up and turn them over. That will quicken your awakening. That will take you directly to your core issues, to the fear beyond all your fears. Rest assured, when you come to that place, I will stand beside you.
Gentle brother and sister, I ask only for your trust. Give it to me and we shall walk together out of this place of shadows. I cannot protect you from facing your fears, but I can take your hand as you do so. Rest easy. The outcome of your journey is guaranteed. Where I am now, you shall also be. And then you will know with absolute certainty that Love is who you are. It has neither been born in you nor has it died in you. It is inseparable from you. It is your only Identity."
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Lately I have begun to lose faith in my religion and it's starting to bother me because I feel less protected, less comfortable. Kind of alone? What do you do when you lose faith in your religion? Any tips?
(I won't say my religion because I don't particularly think it matters... I'm sure a lot of people from a lot of different religions lose faith after a bit, but come back to it.) (link)
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Perhaps if you are losing faith in your religion then your current religion isn't really for you. I think it would be wise to simple look into spirituality and to focus only on happiness, peace and love. Just like the Buddha said, don’t believe anything unless it resonates with you within your heart and soul. Never take anything for face value. Dive deep within yourself and discover your own Truth and see what resonates with the deepest part of you. That way you won’t be fooling yourself or struggling to believe.
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I love him so much it kills me when we have to go our seperate ways and live so far apart... I cry myself to sleep, I can't eat or think straight because I miss him so much... please help me. (link)
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You must learn to channel these negative emotions and focus only on the love you feel for him. Think of all the good times you've had and all the good times to come. Remember how much he adores you and remember how much you adore him. Understand that in love there is no need for such pain and negativity - in love, distance is irrelevant. Accept the situation, make the most of it, push yourself through each day and remind yourself of why he is worth all of this. Be strong and try to understand that attachment is not healthy, it is damaging for you and those around you and it will be difficult for you to enjoy love the way you should when it drowns you like this. You can't go on and on at a break-neck pace, start enjoying yourself without him! Have fun with family and friends, do things which are productive throughout each day and relax your mind. Love is all there is. :)
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I am a teenage girl with kind of a big problem. My thoughts are consumed by the thought of appearance and other peoples approval. I am constantly looking at myself in the mirror seeing every imperfection wheather big or small. I know a lot of people have this problem, especially at my age. But I get severly depressed from it, I have made people not want to be around or get annoyed with me always asking if I look good. And I cannot go a day without receiving a compliment from anyone other than my mom, if I never get one I'll feel like I looked disgusting that day. I love my life, and the only thing I would change is how I view myself. So please anyone out there with an opinion or could help me with this situtation, your time is very much apperiated. (link)
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You must realise that you are your own worst enemy and you will never be satisfied with yourself if you continue on this cycle of self-hatred. You are young, fresh and you have your entire life ahead of you but you are wasting precious time focussing on the negative. In the words of Ram Dass: "Everything in your life is there as a vehicle for your transformation. Use it." Give yourself a break. Take the time to really open your eyes and see yourself in a new light. True beauty comes from within, so look around and understand that your appearance is completely irrelevant. By loving yourself and treating yourself with respect you will find your happy place and finally be at peace with who you are. There are people in this world who will look at your flaws and imperfections and think that they are beautiful - and they really are! They give you character; there is nobody else out there like you. Remember that you are a strong girl, you are still growing and someday as a woman you will look back on this time in your life and realise that you never gave yourself enough credit. Your life is going to be filled with growth and adventure, all of which will overpower the sadness that you feel now. Give yourself permission to let go of your insecurities and to start living a more positive and fulfilling life.
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My boyfriend and I broke up 3 weeks ago, and... Let's just say that I give up. I don't know what to do anymore. I was positive it was going to work out, but he's just not trying. He told me he just didn't want to anymore, he just doesn't want a relationship anymore.
So I was thinking about giving him time since he wants to be a surgeon and everything. He will be working two jobs and going to school as a full time student, I know he won't have time for me. He wants me to move on, he asked me why I like him and everything.
He says that I'm always going to be that one special person, like the first person he kissed, the first person he lost his virginity, things like that. He also says that he's always going to love me, but the one thing that I'm scared about moving on... Is that I don't know where we will end up. Will we be friends? Will we possibly be together again? The other thing that I am scared to move on, I'm afraid he might be with another girl. I know it sounds selfish, but I'm terrified of losing him to another person. I don't want to even think about it, because he also told me that he wouldn't want to meet or see another girl because he knows they would get him off track to his career.
He doesn't want me to wait, because he believes he won't come back. He says he hopes, but he doesn't think he will. He even got my sister to try to help me move on, and that just hurts more.
Is there a way where I can move on? I don't want to hear about time or anything, but I need help to stop thinking of him moving onto another girl and everything. It makes me want to hold onto him longer because I'm scared he will.
The other question is, there must be a possible way that he will come back. So I was wondering, what would it take for him to come back? It doesn't matter how long for him it would take him, even years if it has to. But... Just how? Please help me.
Please and Thank you! (link)
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This break-up is terribly recent and your head must be in a funny place. You may not want to hear this, but I refuse to give you anything but the truth. Time will heal your broken heart. Give yourself the chance to live an independent life. Do things which make you happy, keep yourself busy and relax. Just breathe. Boys will come and go but at the end of the day you've got to remember that you are in control of how you react to situations like this. Rather than worrying yourself silly, understand that the pain you are experiencing right now (and also any emotional pain that you experience in the future) is going to shape you and transform you into a beautiful person who has experienced the ups and downs which will inevitably occur throughout life. If you love this person, let him go. Give him permission to live his life, just as you must live yours. Focus on getting through one day at a time, start to enjoy your own company again and think about the negative effect that emotional attachment has had on you. Free yourself of this burden. Love yourself without him. If you ever need to talk, I am here.
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Is this abuse. I have been wanting to go back to school (college) since my husband and I started dating. He told me I dont need to go to school I need to work. Friday, I called the college and talked to someone about signing up for online school, one class at a time and work. Well when we all went to town he said where to I said walmart and I need to go by the college and he gave me a look and said for i said to pick up papers to sign up for school and he keep asking me why. I said because I want to. Well after walmart and he did his errons he went home and didnt even start to head towards the college. Hes constantly yelling at my 3 year old. ( his step son) My father says im being abused emotionally. I love him even though there is constant conflict mostly because he wont look or keep a job.I think im scared to leave. (link)
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The fact of the matter is that you have a young child who you must protect from any person or thing you may see as a threat. This man, whether he is the step-father or not, has absolutely no right to yell at your child and you should not allow it. His controlling behaviour is a sure sign for what could potentially become some form of abuse in the future if you let it. Considering that you've seeked advice for this matter suggests to me that you really are worried about the situation you're in, so I think that this relationship must end for the sake of both your safety and your 3 year olds.
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i really need advice/support/someone to talk to..
i really feel like my life is getting out of control. i hate who i've become. i used to be this really nice shy girl who cares about everybody's feelings and i was just overall a nice person. a lot of people liked me because i was so nice. but now i just feel like i'm losing control of my life. i'm not influence with drugs or alcohol. (i'm not that stupid) but i feel like lately i've been so unfair and un-loyal to people. i've lost about 20 people in my life. they walked out of my life because they said i was too much drama and they couldn't handle me in their lives and they were better off without me there.
the first few times people left me were hard.. i didnt know what i did wrong and i was devastated. but then after about 10-15 people left i got used to it and realized they were being stupid. but then something major happened this past week.. my ex boyfriend wanted to get back with me (while i was still with my current bf) and a huge drama fest broke out. they fought over me and made me pick in between them. for a few days i kept switching my mind and i know that was a bad mistake. finally today i made my decision to stick with my current bf. my ex was devastated and started to tell me that karma will kick my ass one day and that i'm a hurtful person. he said i dragged his heart and ran over it with a tank. that made me cry and i realized that its not just a coincidence.. so many people have walked out on my life and i realize its all because of me and how i treated them. my boyfriends friends hate me because they heard how unfair i was treating my bf (by comparing him to my ex and not deciding who i wanted). my bff told me that i was a horrible person because i treat people badly and dont think about how others feel. and just so many other things happened in my life that makes me realize how horrible i am.. like for example- i lost a good girl friend because i thought she was just using me and didnt really care about me. another time i lost a guy friend because i told him i really cared about him but he wanted more and it just fell apart because we wanted different things.
my parents tell me i'm such a good kid but i honestly dont see how they and other friends can look at me and think i'm a great person... i admit it- i treat people like crap. i'm unfair towards people and say things i dont really mean. i've been crying for the past 2 hours because i feel like i'm literally losing control of my life. i wish i could just start everything over and forget about all of my mistakes.
i just really need advice on what to do. i've tried talking to close people about how i feel but they keep getting mad at me because i "dont realize how important i am" but i honestly dont think i'm that important. i feel like if i was gone tomorrow, nothing would change in life. yeah my parents would be sad (which is why i promised myself i wouldn't commit suicide) but i feel like all of my other friends wouldnt even notice me gone.. they would probably be happy to have me gone because i cause so much drama. but the thing is.. i dont purposely try to cause drama... it just happens...
another thing- sometimes i realize that i cause drama, and i back off. i try to fix it by backing off and just letting things happen naturally. but everytime i do that i get b*tched at by other people because i'm not "giving effort in life". its like- if i try in life, everything just gets worse. but if i dont try- people think i'm lazy and dont care.
i really dont know what to do anymore.. i'm losing control of my life and i'm hurting people that mean so much to me (unintentionally). how do i get back on track and just start over? or make myself feel better? just please... any type of advice? i know this is probably very long and you might feel annoyed and not want to answer.. but even if its just a small answer, i will be grateful for anyone who is listening right now.. i'm just so upset with my life and i want to change but everytime i try to change, it just gets worse. please help :( (link)
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It is clear that you have been brought straight back down to Earth as you have all of a sudden been struck with this heart-wrenching guilt.
You must take all of these negative emotions and turn them into something positive. Confront the people that you have hurt in the past and give them all a sincere apology. They may or may not accept it, and this is something which is beyond your control. Once you have done everything you can to justify your actions, you must start focussing on yourself. You are unhappy and struggling to find peace in your life right now. Perhaps being surrounded by so many people is a burden for you. It is always more likely that drama will occur in a large group of friends, so right now perhaps being around so many people isn't doing you any favours. Forgive yourself, sweetheart. You are only human. We all make mistakes but there's no room for regrets. Once you have apologised, move on with your life and start over. It is a new year; use this time to discover what makes you happy.
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