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Me and this guy I know have know each other for a couple of years, and we started dating a couple of months ago (about 8), but two weeks ago I lost my virginity to him. I didn't regret it and it was one of the best moments of my life, and he didn't push me or anything. The thing is (yes I know I'm going to get bashed a lot now) is he's 19 and I'm 15. I know you are going to say it was wrong but it felt right to us. The real problem is I told my best friend about me losing my virginity to him and she totally flipped. When me and him started dating, she was really wary and told me it wasn't a good Idea and he was only using me, but now 8 months on we're still together and he never pressured me once. He,obviously being a boy was ready, but we only had sex after I told him I was ready. Anyway after I told my friend about losing my virginity, she basically shouted at me for about 20mins straight calling me a b**** and some other charming words, and then said that if I ever get pregnant or if my boyfriend dumps me, she wants nothing to do with it, and she will only say I told you so.

I don't know what to do now I feel like a worthless piece of crap after what she said, and know that if anything was to happen, my own best friend wouldn't help me?

What should I do? I don't want to lose wither of them.
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My friends are the same way... and its so frustrating! What i do is just what feels right. They obviously arent your true fried if they judge you for your choices.


Hi welL I'm not realy sure what I should do. I'm sTill a virgin and so is my boyfriend we been dating for a year alreay he is also a virgin. Should we have sex already? Should we loose it already I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15. Are relationship is realy close and serious but I don't want to mes it up by having sex.. Please help or give me tips on what to do :) thanks (link)
im 14, and just 4 days ago i had sex with my ex boyfriend...

we dated for only 3 weeks but it was because i wasnt ready for sex and he wanted sex.

now that we've done it, it seems as though lots of problems are disapearing and our relationship has a slight boost.

however now there are more problems such as worrying about getting pregnant, and getting caught.

sex can mess a relationship up, but if you are both ready then go for it. sex is like the glue to a relationship. but since you are so young sex wont be all that great. it takes a while to actually enjoy it.


DOes it hurt to have sex for the first time?
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well actually i had sex for the first time 4 days ago, and for it being my first time, it didnt hurt all that bad. when he went all the way in there was a little pressure but thats it.




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