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trying to find my way in life
Iv been serching my whole life for happyness but nothing fufilles me .I know growing up I had strict parents especaly my father who was a police oficer for 20 odd years .I was naglected and emotionaly and physacaly abused .my whole life I was rejected by family and acused of things that I did not do but hafd to live like an outcast .my family said all the time we care abut you but I wasn't treated fairly .now as an adult its hard for me to open up to anyone on the fear of rjection
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Stress, anger, fear, etc. are all taking you away from the present moment. It takes you away from living life fully and enjoyably. It's a terrible affliction to be constantly thinking, but no one realises because everyone suffers from it. I suggest reading The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle.
Do not allow anyone to determine your worthiness. Don't be tempted to give in to feelings of sadness, or to assess your own value based on this. You are a work of art in the making. Like everyone on this planet, you have made errors of judgement and you've had less than stellar moments which you perhaps had no control over when you were young. But your essence is one of purity, light and value. If you don't believe you are worthy of living a happy and fulfilling life now, then you will never achieve it. Change your mindset, find the goodness and the greatness in yourself and your life. See yourself in the cosmic eyes of the universe and you will understand. Let go, my friend, and live in the moment. This is your life and you are in control of how you live it. Live it well.
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hey there first off thank you for posting your question on here.
I gotta say your family treating you the way they did has something to do with how you are feeling right now. You have low self-esteem and therefore are afraid of opening up about certain things in your life and thus, you are not getting the appropriate guidance and or advice you should be getting.
- Try to move on now with life, be string and do not let anything not even this self esteem issue get in the way of you being the best you can be.
- Get help from someone you trust or from your doctor... this will help you break that shell of yours and further move you towards a more happy and productive life.
- You just need to remove this life block and you will be ok... we all have difficult times but we can all get through them... including yourself.
- this fear of getting rejected is normal due to your family experience but if anything, I am here so ask away!
I wish you the best take care and keep strong we can achieve anything we set our minds to.
- trueadvice3
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