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Who to choose my boyfriend or bestfriend?
About a year ago my best friend and her bf set me up on date and after a while we started being boryfriend/girlfriend. My bestfriend started getting mad at my bf for "taking me away from her" or him getting mad at the stupidest things. So I had to make a decision between my bf or bestfriend and I chose my bf.After a year of barely talking to my bestfriend we started talkig again to try to make things work except my bf doesn't like the when I'm with her because they hate each other.now a year later I'm confronted with having to make the same decision..my boyfriend or bestfriend. My bf hates my bestfriend so much that he's making me choose.I have fun with both of them and just don't know who to choose.who should I pick? (17/f/Ca)
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You should choose your best friend's boyfriend, and then you can have the best of both worlds, Hannah Montana style.
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try talking to them and make a time management table to see when you can spend time with both of them because the way i see it is that they are fighting that you are spending too much time with one more than the other.
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I usually don't pick sides on questions like this, but you're 17. You're not going to marry this guy, if he's not trying to get over his shit and make peace when she is you're going to dump him eventually. Or conflict over something and come out hating each other. Or get cheated on when he finds a girl more willing to put up with his shit.
Your best friend could be there for life if you maintain that relationship. You'll be happier in the long run, rejoin the world of singles.
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I'm not sure how long you've known your best friend or your boyfriend. I think how long you've known them is a huge part of the decision.
I personally think that you should keep your bestfriend though. Boyfriends will come and go but it's important to keep old friends. I would assume you've also known your bestfriend longer than your boyfriend which would be another reason.
Also another reason I would choose your bestfriend is because your boyfriend seems kinda shallow to make you "choose" between him and your best friend.
Chances are since your 17 you're gonna break up with the boyfriend eventually anyway. I say stick by your bestfriend and tell your boyfriend that if he doesn't like her he can leave. He might but who cares trust me you'll easily find another eventually. A good boyfriend will not ask you to choose either him or your best friend that just sounds ridiculous. (22/m)
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