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Well this guy asked me to the dance and I was dared to go over to him tomorrow morning and give him a hug, but we aren't going out. I would LOVE to give him one, but how would I approch him and what do I say to him before I give him a hug? I also think he was about to hug me when he had to leave at a football game, but I didn't because I thought it would be too soon. How should I do it? Thanks! (link)
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Don't do it on a dare. It may get back to him that you were dared and he may feel bad about that. May feel teased or something...especially if your friends start giggling.
Wait for the dance to hug him (unless he hugs you before then!). You can go talk to him though. He will hug you I'm sure. Friends mean well, just don't always go along though. :)
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I am a sophomore girl in highschool and i have had a major crush on this boy (who is a senior now) since last year. We have both ran on the same team for two years (but the season is over now). And i thought that there was absolutely no chance of "us" ever being together. But at our homecoming game (like october 3) i was sitting beside him and teasing him because a lot of freshmen girls always crowd around him. and he told me "its ok, because the girl sitting beside me (that would be me )is pretty cute. Then the next day he asked me to do something with him and we had an awesome time. But after that we didnt talk very much because i dont see him that much.
Then, about two weeks later, he called me and we talked on the phone for over an hour. He called me about 4 times within 2 weeks. He would skip class to eat lunch with me and it was great.
but i just found out that my friend has been telling him to call me and really pressuring him to be around me and ask me out and stuff. And now me and him havent talked on the phone for about a week and i'm wondering if he ever liked me to begin with or if he was just doing it becuase she told him to. (she has a way of leading people on and making them do stuff). I'm really confused and i dont know if i should call him or if i would seem needy, please help (link)
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I would call him and ask him what he feels. Tell him just like you told us. You know your friend is pushing him and you want to know how he really feels about you.
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If a guy you almost went out with and had sexual relations with has mood swings of liking you then talking shit about you still like you?
He literally know everything about me without me telling him and he always talks about how much he hates me and he calls me a whore. I don't understnad why he talks about me so much. I thought he might still ike me but I don't know.
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I think what he thinks is that it is okay to be nice when he wants something and then OK to bad mouth you any other time. Don't put up with that crap. You can do so much better. If he doesn't respect you ALL the time, tell him to get lost. :)
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I'm taking medication that makes my lips extremely dry. As a result, they are constantly chapped, and a few days ago, they started to crack and bleed on the sides. It is painful and not attractive AT ALL. Chapstick helps a little..I reapply chapstick about every 15 minutes.
How do I make the pain go away and help my lips get better? =[ Don't tell me to stop the medication. I need it, and the lip thing isn't a HUGE deal... (link)
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You have gotten some good answers so far. I just want to add that you might want to try a "wet", for lack of a better word, chapped lip product like Blistex. Rubbing a dryer lip balm like chapstick on them may irritate them more.
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My friend, Rachel, who just happens to be my boyfriend, Dane's, ex girlfriend is always trying things with him! I catch her gazing at him during band all the time and she always laughs when he says something funny, and she's always talking to him and trying to make him laugh. She even told him, "Dane, you know you still love me..." And she said it to him when I was right next to her! I can't believe her!
I didn't do anything, I just pretended like I didn't care. It's impossible for me to tell her to back off, but she needs to learn that he's with me now. I don't know what to do. I think I'm just going to ask Dane if he still likes her, and if he says no, (which he better! lol) I'll tell Rach that I asked him that and that he said no.
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Tell Dane to have her stop. All he needs to say is "I am with_______now and it is really rude for you to carry on like that with me. She is also your friend, have some respect!"
It is probably best if you don't say anything to her. It will make her mad and possibly just make her do it more. :)
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Hey! It's me that girl who asked for advice on that guy. Thanks for that! It really helped. But I forgot to ask a couple more question (sorry!) Well not only is he shy, but I am as well. I would LOVE to go over to him after one class is over, and just talk to him, but he is usually talking to his one friend, and I don't know if he wants me over there. I get so shy I don't know what to say. Also, that girl he use to go out with. Well she told me that she and him broke up about 4 times, and she got tired of it so she said she left him for good, but it doesn't seem like it! She seems to be talking to him more and flirting with him and it's making me incredibly upset! I want to talk to her but I know she'll get mad. I also would like to tell the boy I like, but I never will because I'm so scared and I don't know how I would ask him. I even cried because I was so scared to fall in love, because I knew I would probably get crushed, but I didn't think it would happen with me and him, but this one girl is making me all depressed. What should I do? thanks! (link)
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If you are both shy, it may be best if you could get his IM address or even email and communicate that way. Much easier to talk that way when getting to know each other.
The other girl might be a little jealous. Doesn't mean she wants him necessarily but she is probably
flirting with him more because of that. If he likes you, she isn't going to have any luck at it. Don't
talk to her about it any more if you can help it. You want her mind on someone else!
Don't let her make you all depressed. She had her time with him and it didn't work out. Wait for him to say something about liking you first and then tell him. It will be much easier that way.
Hope to hear about you to being an item soon! :)
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Would you concider asking questions/questioning someone cyberstalking/stalking? thanks. (link)
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It would depend. If the person being questioned has said "stop asking me questions" or something similar, then yes. It probably could be considered
cyberstalking. :)
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Okay, so when I was 10 (I'm 26 now), I fell off my bike and broke my two front teeth straight across in half. My dentist put a bonding on each one, and it made them look a little too long, and over the years a small stain has started showing along the seam of one, but they work just fine as teeth and nobody really notices that they're not perfect. Now that I'm an adult I have another dentist who's recommended that I have the existing bonding (and what's left of the teeth) replaced with porcelain crowns... the length would be more natural, and they'd possibly use a brighter color and whiten the rest of my teeth to match it. It'd be more permanent and look better, but I'm really struggling with it because it seems like such a cosmetic thing to do and I've always fought against that sort of thing, it seems vain. Like, I'd NEVER have cosmetic surgery, so why do it for my teeth? I know I'm way overthinking this... most people would have had it done years ago. My teeth bug me but fixing them bugs me too. What would you recommend? (link)
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I think I would do it. You wouldn't be doing it for cosmetic reasons really. It is something recommended by your dentist because the stuff you had put on years ago has done its time. This fix will most likely last a lifetime and you won't have to worry about it ever again.
It is a great opportunity to have your teeth whitened if you want to do that. If not, you can also get them to match your existing teeth in color.:)
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Well this boy asked me to the dance, and I am so happy about it. He really likes me, and it shockes me because I don't think I'm pretty at all. I have acne all over my face, I'm not fat, and i don't know, I just don't think I'm pretty. But everyone gets mad at me when I say that because they think it's not ture. Well anyway, I was very happy when he asked me, but I was also kind of upset that he didn't ask me out. He really likes me and all, but he said he wants to see how things work out, then ask me after the dance (my friend told me this) He is also very quiet and shy, he doesn't say much to me. I don't think I've had stronger feelings for a guy this much. I think about him constantly. But I got very upset today. Well this one girl who is a good friend of mine use to go out with him in grade school (we're in 9th grade now), but dumped him because he moved away, but now he is back. She says she's really happy for me and that we are cute together, but for some reason I'm getting the idea that she still has feelings for him, and then I get the feeling that he still has feelings for her. He doesn't talk to her that much, but it makes me depressed. She is gonig to the dance with some other guy anyway. Do you think they still have feelings for each other? Or am I just reading too much into things? Also, I want to ask this question to her or my one friend, but I don't want them getting annoyed because I talk about him a lot. Thanks! (link)
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I don't think I would worry to much if he dated her in grade school. They might still be friends but I am sure they have both changed a lot since then.
He also got brave enough to ask you to the dance! He must like you or he would have invited her instead.
It is also perfectly normal for a guy not to ask a girl to be a steady girlfriend until he gets to know her a little better. So, go to the dance. Of course you will be nice to him and smile at him a lot! He will probably ask you to be his girlfriend before the night is over. If not then soon.
So don't worry about things. Just go and have a great time. :)
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ok this boy always call me names like slut and std hoe and all sorts of things and it makes me depressed. I mean we use to go out and then I thought we were friends but then he has to try to be cool and say stuff to me! he calls me at 3 in the morning leaving me messages and I can't stand it anymore! what should I do besides ignore him. (link)
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Well it certainly isn't cool to call girls names.
Next time he calls you a name do this. Sounds weird but it will probably stop him in his tracks.
Smile real big and say ___ I love you too! :)
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Is there an age where your periods just stop? Like forever? I'm not talking about irregular periods... i'm talking about if you're 70 years old, do you still get your period?
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Yes you do stop having them one of these days, usually at any time after you turn 40. Just like when starting your period, the age is different for everyone.
It is called menopause should you want to look for more information. :)
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when people on this site give you rude answers?
I mean , if you want to answer a question its to help someone, not be rude.
So if you say something mean to someone, maybe when you ask a question someones gonna be mean toward you.
I just think its totally wrong.
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If you feel someone is giving you a mean answer, file an abuse report and someone will look into it for you. That goes for feedback too.
Be sure and provide a link to the question in your abuse report. The link for abuse reports is in the blue column to your left. :)
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hello i am in year 10 im 14 and so is my girlfriend and she hasnt came on her period but he weirds things are that we are both virgins but we have had oral sex plz help me (link)
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I'm sorry but I'm not real sure what you are wanting to know.
She could start her period at any time. It still isn't safe to have unprotected sex or anything. She
could easily get pregnant before she ever has one.
IF that is what you are asking. If not please send another question and I will see what I can do for you. :)
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Hi. Thanks for your answer to my dilema. I guess I'd like to elaborate on some things. We are both in therapy together and I am also in therapy individually. He is advising both of us to make changes, no just me. He has told me that he also believes my wife is depressed and should see a therapist by herself also. The therapist is good (at least i think). The problem is 1) she won't agree to this, or at least is dragging her feet about it and 2) in couples session she is very good at agreeing with the therapist and seems to want to change but everything that was said in the session is forgotten by her in the next day or two after meeting with the therapist. Seems like I'm the only one working at it. Thanks again for the advice and any further thoughts you might have. (link)
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After being married for 31 years I can tell you for certain that both of you have to want to work on it.
One person alone, unfortunately can't get much accomplished. You will have to make her understand somehow that she has to make an effort.
I don't know any good way for you to do that. Sure wish I did. You could tell her its over if she doesn't seek some medical help...that could backfire though so you don't want to do that unless you are serious.
She does have to give you the respect you deserve for taking care of the family by working and paying the bills. She has to take care of your home and your children. That is after all doing her part. Doing her share.
I do wish you luck and hope so much it works out for you. Right now concentrate on getting her some attention for possible depression. That may make all the difference in the world. See what happens next.
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so i told my boyfriend I think we shoudl take abreak because he was being way to controlling and overpowering and he fraked out saying he was gonna drive his car into a tree and drove away..i found him and we talked and he keeps saying that if we broke up he would die..this relationship isn't good for me..how do i get out of it (link)
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You don't let yourself be bullied by his threatening suicide. Contact a relative and tell them of his threats and then tell him goodbye with a clear conscious. You cannot stay in a relationship you don't want out of fear of what he will do. That is abusive. You are not in any way responsible for his life or what he chooses to do with it. :)
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what does it mean for a girl to "put out"? (link)
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It means she will have sex.
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How do you effectively clean a mirror without it leaving streaks or "fuzzies" from the washcloth? (link)
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I know the best way to clean windows and it would probably work the same. Use vinegar and wash it with a piece if newspaper or a coffe filter.
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I have been married 9 years. In the beginning my wife and I got along great and I would say I considered her my best friend. Over the years though she has become difficult to live with. We do have two kids (girl age 7, and a boy, almost 2). She is currently a stay at home mom. She has really changed, as have I, but with her, she is always yelling and belittling, particularly to my daughter and to me as well. We don't fight every day, but several times a week is probably the norm. The other day as my daughter was getting ready for school, she was yelling at her to get ready (I was taking her to school), As she was leaving for school my wife yells out the door to my daughter, I was hoping to be in a good mood today, its your fault that I'm not and then she slammed the door. It has gotten to the point of being unbearable. We are in counseling together and I am trying to be more patient with her, but its not easy - she is not very receptive to it and claims she has a right to yell, etc, and blames everyone around her for her state. She doesnt work, so I am the only one working and paying the bills. I am also the one doing the majority of the housework when I get home. She claims she "Can't" do housework because she's "watching the kids" but I know from my daughter, neighbors, and from my own observations that she keeps my son (almost two) in either the playpen or stapped into the high chair most of the day while she watches TV or spends time on the computer IMing her chat group buddies. Just yesterday we had an argument which got pretty loud (I never raise my voice, its always her thats quick to yell and slam doors). The neighbor came downstairs to say he was tired of the noise and that "next time he was calling the cops" - my wife then started yelling at him, which prompted him to call the cops. The cops came and they asked ME to step outside and stood me in stance to pad me down and asked if I had weapons on me or in the house. I was afraid they were going to cuff me! They just asked what was going on and after talking to us, they left. I had never been put in that position before (cop taking me out) and it was very humiliating and caused by nothing that I did. I am now at my wits end and sorely in need of advice. Am not really considering divorce but starting to think it might be best for the kids. My parents currently retired and are moving out of state so I am afraid of being left with no support system here (I have no other family here while my wifes family is.) They want me to move my family where their going, and thats also a possibility and my wife is open to it as we are in need on a larger house but cant afford it in california. advice please on how to deal with everything. (link)
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I would consider a new counselor if the current one is suggesting YOU be patient. Seems to me she should be getting that advice.
Telling your daughter that SHE is the cause of moms moods is abusive if you ask me. Her self esteem is fragile at her age. Your wife may not realize she is doing that but she really needs to stop.
I would refuse to argue with her. Next time she starts up put the kids in the car and take them to the park or something.
Since you want to attempt to save your marriage you may need to find a better counselor if this one isn't providing results.
I am all for keeping the family together. My son has 5 kids in a relationship worse than yours even and I think he should send her packing. I am trying not to be negative here! It will come down to what you can live with for the next 50 years. How she treats your kids is another big factor.
Encourage her to see a medical doctor. As the person before me said she could possibly be depressed. If that doesn't work, I wish you luck.
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how does this question get deleted:
does stretching burn fat?
what is wrong with that ? (link)
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I looked it up and it was given the lowest rating by 5 L1 moderators.
If you are looking for the correct answer, It is no,
stretching does not burn fat.
If you do not believe me then believe MikeCFT who told you no in your original question. He is a fitness trainer in the real world and will always give you correct answers to your fitness questions.
I don't know why it was deleted for sure. They probably thought the answer was easily looked up on the net, or perhaps they felt you had already gotten the correct answer. :)
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I'm a female who is 16 years old and my ex boyfriend is 17. I really miss him and especially miss making out with him. Would it be a good idea if we both agree on being friends with benifits? The thing though is I still really like him so I'm just afraid that if we would agree to being just friends with benifits my feelings would grow stronger for him. What should I do? (link)
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I know you are right...your feelings for him would get stronger!
I don't like the friends with benefits thing myself. What you decide to do is up to you and I wouldn't look down on you for it at all. But, let me give you my reasons and you can decide from there.
For you, it will be very frustrating. As you said your feelings will grow but to him you will just be a place to go when he can't get it elsewhere.
He will go out with other girls and carry on like a free bird and you will be left waiting with the hope that he will call. And he will sometimes and you will get your hopes up and then he will go right back to whoever he wants to see.
He is the only one who will benefit from the relationship really. I don't know if sex is included in the making out, but it really doesn't matter. There is more to a relationship than making out. That is the part you will REALLY miss.
Your best bet is going to be finding someone else
to care for. Not easy to do but people do it every day. As soon as you begin to care for someone else
you will be fine. So, until you find someone, spend time with your friends and don't dwell on the past. There is someone better out there waiting.
If you should decide to continue with benefits just be careful. If sex is involved make sure he wears a condom. :)
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