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Forced to like me?
I am a sophomore girl in highschool and i have had a major crush on this boy (who is a senior now) since last year. We have both ran on the same team for two years (but the season is over now). And i thought that there was absolutely no chance of "us" ever being together. But at our homecoming game (like october 3) i was sitting beside him and teasing him because a lot of freshmen girls always crowd around him. and he told me "its ok, because the girl sitting beside me (that would be me )is pretty cute. Then the next day he asked me to do something with him and we had an awesome time. But after that we didnt talk very much because i dont see him that much.
Then, about two weeks later, he called me and we talked on the phone for over an hour. He called me about 4 times within 2 weeks. He would skip class to eat lunch with me and it was great.
but i just found out that my friend has been telling him to call me and really pressuring him to be around me and ask me out and stuff. And now me and him havent talked on the phone for about a week and i'm wondering if he ever liked me to begin with or if he was just doing it becuase she told him to. (she has a way of leading people on and making them do stuff). I'm really confused and i dont know if i should call him or if i would seem needy, please help
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Calling him to chill wouldnt' seem needy at all. Calling him 3 times in two days to chill would seem needy. There is a difference.
Maybe he hasn't called you because he feels the same way? He too does not want to seem needy? Possibly.
Anyway, if it doesn't seem like he is gunna call you then take matters into your own hands and give him a shout.
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if i had to make an educated guess, i'd say he has liked you, but was jut afraid. he probably was just getting some encouragement from his friend.
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dont act like you know or it bothered you he hasnt called. just talk to him in school and tell him it was fun hanging out and you should do it again. if you let him know you know what your friend did and your mad he hasnt called, it will only chase him away
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Ur in a stiky situation.
try smilling sweetly at him if he makes eye contact with you and still dosent smile the u need to move on and try to act like nothing happen and if you ever see him in school make sure he sees you laughing and having fun to prove to him you werent mad or fazed by what happend.
Hope i helped=)
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the only way you can find out is to ask him yourself. asking your friend probably wont do any good because she doesnt know how he really felt to begin with. just dial his number and talk, it doesnt take a rocket scientist. im sure if he really didnt like you he wouldnt have skipped class to talk to you. if he didnt like you to begin with, he wouldnt have talked to you in the first place. maybe hes just been busy lately and hasnt had time to call you or maybe hes got a girlfriend. so just ask him its the only way you will ever know.
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It would help if you asked him what is on his mind and why he did what he did. Did he talk to you because he liked to, or did he just talk to you because he was a dumb idiot and listened your friend? Ask him that. Hopefully, you get a solid answer. And if you don't like him, you should tell him instead of leading him on.
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well if i were you i would ask my friend if he really does like me. i would tell her that i really do like him and im wondering if he likes me back or it's just you telling him. i hope you guys end up together, hope i helped.
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of course you can call him .. and you should ask him about your friend. confront your friend tell her that you dont appreciate that she did that to you.
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I would call him and ask him what he feels. Tell him just like you told us. You know your friend is pushing him and you want to know how he really feels about you.
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