well what can i say...
I'm from Virginia, an am 17 years old. i enjoy long walks on the beach, candle-light dinners, and lying about liking both.
i hope i can help a few people. if i can just help one, I'll consider my being on this site worthwhile. I can't necessarily guarantee that any advice i give will instantly help, and i won't promise that what i say will make you happy. i can however promise that what i say will be truthful, and that it is what i believe is the best course of action for you.
Website: my myspace
E-mail: nathan.pollock@verizon.net
Gender: Male
Location: good ol' RVA
Occupation: ice cream scooper
Age: 17
AIM: wsl607
Member Since: October 20, 2006
Answers: 32
Last Update: June 28, 2007
Visitors: 2317
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why do guys like bj's so much. what's wrong with a simple hj, its the same thing minus the spit. or does it feel different, i dont know i dont have a dick. someone please tell me why bj's are so much better (link)
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well for me personally, i think a bj feels really good, but i am satisfied a lot more by a hj. but it could just be that im weird.
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15/f.my ex bf and i are like best friends. we ended up hooking up [making out] this past weekend. and then we just kinda talked about it [on AIM] and, well, i just dont know what i want. or how i feel about him anymore. even though it's kinda slutty && unlike me, i wanna keep hooking up with him ! but i dont really think i want a realtionship with him again. because obviously, we broke up for a reason. there was a lot of problems when we were dating so we mutually decided that we should be friends. then...we hooked up. so now i think we're both confused. but hes pretty much made it clear that he doesnt really want to go on dates with me or be my ''boyfriend'' anymore. personally, i dont really want to go out with him either. but i just cant stop thinking about him lately. i dont know what to do. i care about him, but i think it's only as a friend. and i'm pretty sure thats all he feels for me too now. is having a friends - with - benefits really that bad, as in slutty? it IS summer...but idk. is it bad to hook up with him when there's no... feeling behind it? ugh idk =/ (link)
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having a friends with benefits with one person isn't really slutty at all. your main concern is that one of you may get feelings for the other again and wish to get back together, while the other does not. this can cause problems that may ruin any sort of friendship you all have with each other at the present time.
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Ok so my boyfriend is in lots of sports and when ever the team wins his coaches take them out to Hooters. which i kinda have a problem with that cause i dont want my bf looking at other girls like that. and i no that its what guys do but it hurts me ive tried talking to him about it but he still keeps going anyways. What should i do? (link)
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it's hooters, not a strip club. hell i used to go with my dad, mom, and brother when i was younger. it really isn't nearly as big a deal as people make it seem. and really, no matter what you do or say, boys will look, always. its just the way we are, but just because we look, doesn't mean we're really that interested in the girl.
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i masturbate alot for a girl. im 15/f and i do it like twice a week. is this bad for my health in any way? thanks for answering. (link)
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only twice a week? my girlfriend does it at least 4 or 5 times a week. sometimes twice a day. hasn't affected her health at all.
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Okay to start off,I'm going out with this guy Jason and he's told me I love you and all that and I like him and everything just not love.He always ditches me and never hangs with me or anything.And theres this guy Syd in my class and I think he likes me...I've asked him out already (recently) and he said no but me friend Heather said she overheard Nate (Syd's friend) saying that if he went out with me,he'd never talk to Syd again.That's probably why Syd said no.So me and Syd have had joke plans to you know *cough cough do it* and all this and we met to and we didn't have protection so I just gave him a h.a.n.d.j.o.b. with my shirt off.and f.l.a.s.h.e.d. him.We're not going out and we're both seeing someone.I know it sounds like a slutty thing to do :|.Also I put the .'s in cuz my dad has a keylogger and he can serch words so ya.And I'm 13 year old in grade 7 and he's 13 and PLEASE don't give me a lecture please.I know I shold have waited but I didn't and I already regret that so PLEASE no lectures.Thank you (link)
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oh you're getting a lecture. not cause i think you're to young and yes, a selfish little slut for cheating, but i will lecture you on giving such a fascinating story, without putting in a question. please give us a question about advice you may need, or don't put in anything at all :)
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i think my girlfriends dad sexually abuses her. her parents are divorced and she has five older brothers but they all live on their own since there alot older than she is. i went over there for dinner one time because she said she was scared but she wouldnt tell me why and the whole meal her dad kept making perverted comments about her chest size. shes like a 36d which is nice. her dad was like wow molly your tits look huge i just wanna grab them. and she kept telling him to stop and saying not now dad please. and he kept asking me when i was gonna fuck her next. and he thinks she would be good in bed. she kept getting really embrassed. then all of a sudden he did grabb her and then she started crying and her dad told me to leave but she looked so scared i couldnt leave her. i took her to my house. and i kept asking her did he always do this to you and she wouldnt answer me. i dont know what to do. do you think he rapes her and sexually abuse her. thank you in advance. (link)
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yes, she definately is sexually abused, he did it right in front of you. you need to go to the police about this asap.
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17/f
my boyfriend and I are both virgins but he has performed oral sex on me. Am i at risk for STD's?
is it possible that either of us has one?
and do guys know when they pre-cum? because i always worry that he has some on his hand and then touches me. (link)
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when doing anything sexual both parties are always at risk for STD's.
also a guy doesn't get any real feeling if he pre-cums, but if he touches it, he'll feel his hand touch something wet.
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do adults do bj's. like would my parents? or is it just a teen thing? (link)
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yeah, as disgusting as it may seem to you they do. just pick up a penthouse magazine if ya don't believe me.
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is there a FIFA world cup every year? or is it only every 4 years?
thanks =) (link)
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it is every 4 years. which sucks :-\ oh well.
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Well im only 14 as you can tell.
I want a baby because they are soo adoriable.
I have a boyfriend we have had protected sex a few times already.
And would do it again.
We have been together for 2 years.
I love him and he loves me.
He is 3 years older.
My parents know and have known his family our whole lives, blah blah blah blah blahh.
So i keep telling him how much i want one but like he says i know you do but i am not ready to be a father and think about how much it would hurt and we dont have enough money.
So i need someone to try and convince me not to want one.
Because you have no idea how badly i want one.
Please help :\ (link)
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Oh yes, babies are cute.
however, once you have one, your life is over.
everything you do will have to revolve around your kid.
you will have to feed the baby, bathe the baby, take the baby to the doctor when he/she is sick, watch the baby constantly, and make him/her happy 24/7.
you will have no more time for anyone or anything else.
no more shopping sprees at the mall, no more going to the movies with friends, because you will need all the money you have for taking care of your kid.
also there's school. you'd basically be done with it. and without a good education, neither of you will be able to hold a job that pays enough for you to be able to raise a child and keep yourselves alive.
oh and babies don't stay babies forever.
chances are if you have a kid now, he/she will grow up with totally screwed up lives seeing as they more then likely won't get the care they need.
but if you want to deal with all that by all means, have a baby. after all when you can finally get one to be smiling and laughing, they are quite adorable.
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Ok..soo im 17/F and all my friends have had sex or have done sexual things. And of course im the one that hasnt at all. I just dont want to do that right now..im not focused on that. Im focused on other things and i dotn even think about it. But my friends are making me feel like that i should be doing that stuff..that like im a freak if i dont. And now i think..am i really a freak? What do you think about this and what should i do? (link)
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if you aren't ready to do anything sexual, then don't. if your friends can't respect that, then they aren't really your friends now are they?
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I am a freshman in highschool and he is a senior and he is afraid to ask me out cuz of the age difference do you have any tips
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well my girlfriend is a freshman while i'm a senior. before you rush into a relationship with someone this much older you have to remember a few things:
1. he's got a few years more of life experience then you, and that may include sexual experience. he may or may not try to pressure you into doing things.
2. i don't know what he plans to do after high school. if he is going to college, remember, there are a lot of temptations. i have seen many relationships fail because of one or both people going to college. however, i have also seen relation ships last while the guy was in college and the girl was in high school. but i think it can only work if he plans on a college that
s close to where you two are currently living.
personally i think a three year age difference is fine.
if he is afraid to ask you out because of the age, then the best you can do is tell him that it's really not that big of a deal. but you can't make him ask you out. if he really thinks that 3 years is that big of a deal, he probably isn't worth pursuing.
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hey i was wondering do you always feel it when a guy gets hard? like at my school dance i was grinding with my bf and i could deff feel it but i cant at other times even when i know for a fact that hes horny. thankss (link)
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it really depends on how big his penis is, and its position in his pants. it would be harder to feel it if it were pointed up.
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how can i hide my anorexia from my parents? (link)
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anorexia is a serious problem that can cause very bad health effects for you. what i think you need to do is not try and hide it, but rather get help for it.
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Has anyone been there? I'm gonna go there for my friend's birthday and I really don't know what to expect.
And I'm really REALLY indecisive. I take 15min to pick between jeans that are basically the same. Haha anywhos, so any pointers on what to get? I'm going to the one in West Broad Street in VA if that helps any...
And also do I pay for the meal or does the birthday dude's parent pay? lol thanks =] (link)
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i think it's a lot like kabutos (though i don't know if you've been there, but it's also on west broad street). i've never been there, but my brother has, maybe i should go ask him....
also generally the parents will pay for it.
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14/f
tomorrow, im getting a blood test. the thing is, i HATE needles, and i HATE looking at the thing and seeing my blood, which means basically, i hate blood. and afterwards, i am paranoid for the whole day looking at where the needle went in, and i feel like its hurting, but im actually causing myself to FEEL like its hurting. i have no idea what to do to make myself lmore comfortable. any suggestions? (link)
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well the best you can do is just try your best to relax. maybe even listen to some music on an ipod if the doctor will let you. taking some sort of pill to help you relax may interfere with the blood test results so i wouldn't recommend that, unless you want to be forced into having another test done.
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I stumbled across this site by accident. I seriously doubt many of you have the qualifications to give real people proper advice. After reading some of your responses to people's inquiries i was quite astonished as to how teenagers find they are able to give quality advice and information to real people in need with such little life experience. If you ask me you are not in a place to give your "personal opinion" when people truly believe you are giving them the right answer simply because you claim "people think i give really good advice". (eg. i am still at a loss as to how a 17 year old girl thinks she can give advice to someone regarding conceiving a child) I know you try to come across as a "godsend" to poeple who are in some sort of personal crisis and need a fast easy answer but the truth is, in the cases where it really counts, there rarely is one; at least not from you. (link)
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Well a lot of people who are asking for advice here are teenagers. So who better to give them advice then someone who understands how a teenager thinks (in other words, a teenager!)
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Well me and my boyfriend of 5 months have been fighting so much lately. It’s killing me inside! I don’t know, were both such jealous people and he doesn’t go to my school and he’s working while I’m at school so like we both made promises not to talk to (me to guys, him to girls.) but like I told him I talked to this nerdy geek kid yesterday and he got like so mad and I was like oh my gosh im sorry but you talked to a girl at the mall, (cause we went to the mall yesterday and someone ran up to him and said OMG HEY.) and I got soo sad, but he doesn’t even care he says its all me and I shouldn’t have talked to the geek and I know, yeah yeah.. but TODAY! K well we were texting eachother and he said if either of us finds out one another talks to a (girl, guy, ya.) that it’s over cause we need to stop lying, blaah but yeah he didn’t believe me this morning and so he started being soo rude and calling me an asshole, dumbass, and stuff and I was like oh my gosh I’m not taking this it’s over! And then I was like AH ITS NOT OVER PLEASE GO BACK OUT WITH ME because I love him so much and do not ever wanna loose him but I’m not gonna be called names and hes like we’ll talk at your house.. and wont answer to go out with me? Its killing me, I love him more than lifeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! What should I do?!!? (link)
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if he's gonna be jealous just because you even talk to another guy, then he's not even worth your time.
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why is it wrong to date a friend's ex? i just dont get why i wouldnt do it but i still dont know why but also my friend was asking why. because she liked a this one guy and her friend knew that she likes him and she even said"im not gonna go out with him hes like my brother i wouldnt do that to her" but next thing you know she's going out with him, and i think shes mad at her about this she said she would go out with him if he asked her out but i said " i think its wrong" but she said "well i had a right to get mad at her too" what do you think about this situation? (link)
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it really isn't wrong to date a friend's ex, just awkward. but if someone goes out with a friend's ex, and the friend can't get over that, then he/she has their own issues they need to work out.
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I'm 14 years old and a female.
I have a boyfriend who I have been going out with for 4 months now and at first he was so sweet and really nice to me. Over time he started getting mad at the littlest things,, like how I dressed or did my make-up. He would call me a whore or a slut and other things, and about a month after that he bcame abusive. He would always loose his temper and hit me. Never in front of anyone though, and he just got worse and worse but I never told anyone. So after school yesterday I tried to break up with him, he got so mad and punched me. He said if I ever tried to break up with him again I would regret it. After he left I was just sitting in the hallway crying when this guy I really liked(I didn't know him that well but I like him even before I had a boyfriend)came p to me and knelt beside me and asked me if I was okay. I tried lieing to him, telling him I tripped and fell but he wouldn't by it.(I'm guessing my black eye gave him a hint) He asked me if my boyfriend did this to me and I said yes. He lives close to the school so he asked me if I wanted to go to his house to get cleaned up and I said yes. When we got there he helped me wash the cut and everything and we started talking. He asked me if it was the first time my boyfriend did this to me and I told him no, then I told him everything. For some weird reason I trusted him. He walked me home and when we got their he hugged me and then he kissed me. He said he would take care of my boyfiend. I ddn't really know what he meant but I let it go. I was to happy he kissed me. I was late to school the next day, but when I got their I was just in time to see the fight between my boyfriend and the other guy (Lets call him Matt). They were broken up by the police officer. They were both pretty beat up.Both of them got sent to the principals office. Matt got suspended for a week, and my boyfriend 3 weeks. (He has previos fighting records)I caught Matt as he was leavigng and asked him why he would get in a fight over me. All he said was "I love you and I couldn't stand to see you hurt like that" and he walked away. What should I do I really need help. (link)
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call the police on the creep if he touches you again, and give "Matt" a chance.
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