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uh me and my boyfriend..
Well me and my boyfriend of 5 months have been fighting so much lately. It’s killing me inside! I don’t know, were both such jealous people and he doesn’t go to my school and he’s working while I’m at school so like we both made promises not to talk to (me to guys, him to girls.) but like I told him I talked to this nerdy geek kid yesterday and he got like so mad and I was like oh my gosh im sorry but you talked to a girl at the mall, (cause we went to the mall yesterday and someone ran up to him and said OMG HEY.) and I got soo sad, but he doesn’t even care he says its all me and I shouldn’t have talked to the geek and I know, yeah yeah.. but TODAY! K well we were texting eachother and he said if either of us finds out one another talks to a (girl, guy, ya.) that it’s over cause we need to stop lying, blaah but yeah he didn’t believe me this morning and so he started being soo rude and calling me an asshole, dumbass, and stuff and I was like oh my gosh I’m not taking this it’s over! And then I was like AH ITS NOT OVER PLEASE GO BACK OUT WITH ME because I love him so much and do not ever wanna loose him but I’m not gonna be called names and hes like we’ll talk at your house.. and wont answer to go out with me? Its killing me, I love him more than lifeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! What should I do?!!?
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hunny its not right to be in a relationship where you arent ALOUD to talk to boys and him ALOUD to talk to girls. that is a very unhealthy relationship. boundaries are okay but setting limits is bad. he doesnt have a right to control you and you him. him calling you names is signs of a scumbag. you need to tell him that you love him but you arent going to take this. he cant put an ultamatum on ur relationship saying u will break up if you do this or that. you need to dump him or tell him he needs to change.
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End it. I know it's hard, because you love him, but guys like him are poison.
You should never be forbidden from talking to guys. Your rights are under attack, and no man is worth THAT sacrifice. Also, once he finds out he can get away with controlling that aspect of your life, then he could move on to bigger things. This is how abuse in relationships begins.
Talking to a member of the opposite sex when you're in a relationship isn't wrong! I have a boyfriend, but all my friends are guys. He hangs out with girls... I have no problem with it! You guys need to both re-evaluate the way you think.
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OKAY, WATCHING YOUR BOYFRIEND FLIRT WITH ANOTHER GIRL IS THE WORST! I know how it feels! But you just have to put it behind you. EVERYONES FLIRTS. if you and your boyfriend really like each other that much than you shouldnt need to make each other jealous. I suggest you CALMLEY talk to you boyfriend about how you feel when he flirts with other girls & im sure he feels the same when you flirt with other guys, even if they are "geeky".
good luck!
xoxo
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if you love him more than lifeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee, you should kill yourself, Juliet. At least then you wouldn't be plaguing this site with one more generic question about "OMG I GOTTA GO OUT BUT HE DOESNT LIKE ME!!". Please, either ask questions that merit good answers or leave, because I'm getting tired of these questions.
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if he's gonna be jealous just because you even talk to another guy, then he's not even worth your time.
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