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Ok so my boyfriend is in lots of sports and when ever the team wins his coaches take them out to Hooters. which i kinda have a problem with that cause i dont want my bf looking at other girls like that. and i no that its what guys do but it hurts me ive tried talking to him about it but he still keeps going anyways. What should i do?
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you shouldnt have to worry about it, hes dating you, so he obviously likes you. not some girl at hooters. its just a resteraunt, not a strip bar, hes not watching girls dance on poles, hes watching them bring him food. and most guys will look at anything thats bringing them food. haha
and even if he does hit on a girl, you know its just for her looks, not who she is. he doesnt emotionally like her, like he does you. he just likes lookin at her.
no matter what, guys will look at girls, always. and putting him in hooters wont make him look at girls any more than he already does. im sure you and your girlfriends all look at guys at the beach and the mall, you should let him have the same liberty as you do.
hes not cheating on you, just lookin at come people that arent anything special to him anyways
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it's hooters, not a strip club. hell i used to go with my dad, mom, and brother when i was younger. it really isn't nearly as big a deal as people make it seem. and really, no matter what you do or say, boys will look, always. its just the way we are, but just because we look, doesn't mean we're really that interested in the girl.
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don't worry about it... just because he looks at them, doesn't mean he's gonna flirt/get with them. think about it... he could see girls at school that look like them but he's with you, right? you can't stop him from going.. that's just being possesive and if you keep that up, he'll end up leaving you. so really, just chill & don't be hurt by it. it's not a strip club... it's a restaurant with hot waitresses. <3
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If the entire team is going to Hooters, then it would be unfair to stop your boyfriend from going. You look at other guys occassionally, so why can't your boyfriend look at other girls?
One of the main concepts of a relationship is trust. Unless you hear another member of the team hooks up with a Hooters girl, I wouldn't be worried. If you want, call your boyfriend every few times he goes to Hooters, just to remind him that he has a girlfriend waiting for him at home. Just don't make it a habit to call every time, because you may come off as clingy or overly-worried.
Then again... its another issue that a COACH, a teacher associated with public education, is taking his boys to Hooters, of all places... I'm surprised nobody has complained, lol. If I were you, I wouldn't do anything about it personally though, because then your boyfriend would definitely think you were overprotective.
Good luck <3
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You can't stop him from going to hooters with his team. Even if you could, it wouldn't be fair. Guys will look at other girls, it's going to happen. A girl who works at hooters should be the least of your worries. Like Cux said, he's not going to dump you for some waitress. And if you try to stop him from going, then you are just going to come off as controlling, and that might end your relationship. I really don't think you have anything to worry about. Trust him, I'm sure things will work out.
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Don't let it worry you. He's not going to dump you for some girl he thought was hot at Hooters. Trust me, if he was that shallow- you would know. Trust him. He obviously still likes you if he's going out with you.
--Jack
(15/m)
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