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Question Posted Thursday June 7 2007, 12:17 am

17/f

my boyfriend and I are both virgins but he has performed oral sex on me. Am i at risk for STD's?
is it possible that either of us has one?

and do guys know when they pre-cum? because i always worry that he has some on his hand and then touches me.

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bitterxsweet answered Thursday June 7 2007, 4:15 am:
yes you are. you both are at risk if you've performed oral sex on other people. also, you can be born with STDs by 'inheriting' them from your parents.

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Dunnworryjuzdoit answered Thursday June 7 2007, 1:18 am:
if you guys both are for sure virgins then you're not at risk of getting an std. If it were another story and your boyfriend had previous sexual experience with a person who had an std like herpes and then performed orally on you you could be at risk of getting it, but that's not the case so dont worry. Just be careful in the future with whoever you're with and make sure the person is tested and clean before you get sexually involved. Other than that, you guys are alright and untainted virgins so enjoy your first time together and just remember to protect yourself:)
As for your other question, its better to be safe than sorry because as much as they think they know if theyre cuming they can never be 100% sure especially with pre cum and ending up pregnant isnt exactly somethin you want at your age.

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hotie91292 answered Thursday June 7 2007, 12:41 am:
you should both get checked even if you are virgins. an std could be transfered if he had cuts in his mouth. guys always pre cum and they are aware of it, i think. you need to also tlk to him about it.

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ferret answered Thursday June 7 2007, 12:39 am:
when doing anything sexual both parties are always at risk for STD's.
also a guy doesn't get any real feeling if he pre-cums, but if he touches it, he'll feel his hand touch something wet.

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andrewislovesick answered Thursday June 7 2007, 12:22 am:
um well if he is on you tell him to wash his hands or something

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