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age differences


Question Posted Monday February 5 2007, 8:04 pm

I am a freshman in highschool and he is a senior and he is afraid to ask me out cuz of the age difference do you have any tips


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ferret answered Monday February 5 2007, 11:27 pm:
well my girlfriend is a freshman while i'm a senior. before you rush into a relationship with someone this much older you have to remember a few things:

1. he's got a few years more of life experience then you, and that may include sexual experience. he may or may not try to pressure you into doing things.

2. i don't know what he plans to do after high school. if he is going to college, remember, there are a lot of temptations. i have seen many relationships fail because of one or both people going to college. however, i have also seen relation ships last while the guy was in college and the girl was in high school. but i think it can only work if he plans on a college that
s close to where you two are currently living.

personally i think a three year age difference is fine.
if he is afraid to ask you out because of the age, then the best you can do is tell him that it's really not that big of a deal. but you can't make him ask you out. if he really thinks that 3 years is that big of a deal, he probably isn't worth pursuing.

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