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They named her Senaida. She is 15 years old. She was born in Bosnia. That is in Europe. She breaks easily. She has a sister, no brother. She talks in third person a lot. If she can't answer your question, she will try to the best of her ability, and when that doesn't work, she will probably be upset. She does research before she answers anyone's questions. Life has been hard for her. She likes to listen to all kinds of music except country - sorry. She is hyper to hide the pain.

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I used to like this guy a lot. But then when I told him and it turns out he likes me too, I stopped liking him just like that. But now(hols) he keeps calling and asking me stupid stuff and I keep hanging up on him but he keeps calling. So how should I get rid of him and make his stupid voice stop asking me anything?

Tell him you don`t want to talk to him anymore and that he annoys you.

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f/21. OK, so I have this friend (m/34) I met on a forum. He was fun and all in the beginning, so we started IMing. What started to bug me about him is that he started posting really stupid things on the forum. There is this girl there that he likes, and they were IMing too, and decided to meet each other. She wasn't really impressed with him, but she was very polite, and even on the forum she said that last Friday she had a great company. Of course, that was meant only for him to understand (OK, I understood too because he told me that they met.) But he also told me that she was not talkative and she looked bored. And later when he called her she kept telling him how busy she is, she can't IM him, she can't meet him and so on. You get the picture. Now he started posting sexual innuendos about the two of them on Friday, and now everyone knows that they met! I think she'll be pissed off, and she has right too! I mean, why post such stuff if you already think that she was disappointed by your appearance?! Oh yes, and he's not provoking her or something, he actually wants her to like him. He told me he hopes things will work out for them eventually! Does he think his comments are funny?! And another problem is that he makes himself look really unattractive, he's always moaning about what a loser he is, how long it's been since he was in a relationship, he posts some really pathetic comments (worse than you would expect from a girl!) and so on. I can't break contact with him because he is so depressed because of this girl's reaction, and he was totally broken when another e-friend he had stopped talking to him. But his behavior really annoys me so much that I would gladly never talk to him again! (And his IMs aren't any better, he actually uses babytalk?!!! I mean, come on!)I'd really like to stay on that forum, but every time I'm there he IMs me, it's so frustrating! What should I do?

Sorry I made you read my rant, but at least that gave you a picture how pissed off I am!

I`m f/15 and you probably wont take my advice, but I`m giving it to you anyway. I know a lot about people putting themselves down to try to make themselves seem like they`re good enough knowing they can find one thing at least that is great about them. I say, the pity train stops here and he gets of. You need to tell him everything you just said to the reader. He`s annoying, he`s pathetic and trying to force someone to like him is def not gonna do the trick. Tell him that she doesn`t like him because of his lack of confidence. No girl likes a guy that`s always whining about the stupidest things in the world. So he`s not Brad Pitt, but god dang he doesn`t have to act like some hobo. Girls like a guy with some confidence even if everything is wrong with him. If the girl he likes sees that he thinks good of himself then she`ll probably be proud to stand next to him.

-- ♥ SPiDERMANN.

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i have long, straight, brownish blonde hair. i wear it down straight everyday. what are some other ways i can style it besides just wearing it down? please help me i need new ideas! thanks a ton.

Since you have straight hair and it`s boring having it straight all the time, crunch it.

--- Rub some gel in your hands and apply it to damp hair.


The half pony tail sounds nice too.

--- Tie half up and leave half down. Also what would look cute is like a nice hair band with some bow attached to it. Also, leave bangs out if you have any.

Put your hair up in a messy bun, hopefully you know how to do this.

Side ponytail with your bangs out. ( If you have any )

Crunch your hair and straighten your bangs and put a cute bow in your hair on the side.


♥ SPiDERMANN.

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What should I get for my 19 year old boyfriend?? I got him a $25 dollar gift card to Best Buy cause I know he likes electronics... i'm 17 by the way. Anyway, yeah what should I get him?? Or haha not to sound like a whore, but I would go to even farther lengths if you know what I mean *wink wink* haha. We haven't had sex with each other yet and we're both not virgins so idk you help me to decide ^_^

I don`t know if you`re aware of this fact but he is an adult and you are still a minor. It is illegal for him and you to have any intercourse what so ever. I would wait until your 18th birthday or his 20th to give him that birthday present. You wouldn`t want him locked up for a stupid thing like that. The gift card sounds nice and I would get him something that smells good.

♥ SPiDERMANN.

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Okay, so I have a penpal in Germany. I live in Virginia, United States and this kid lives in Weismain, Germany I believe. Keyfact is that he lives in Germany.

Well I want to reply his letter but I don't know what stamps to put on there...do I put on a stamp that says Air Avion Air Mail on it along with stamps?

Could you give me the exact name of the stamp (like the Air (Par?) Avion Air Mail) and the amount of each stamp and how many of each amount? Thanks

I think you put like a regular stamp that you would send anywhere in the U.S. and go to the post office and get them to put like a stamp on it. Not the stamp that you like but like the other one.


♥ SPiDERMANN.

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right i love my girl freind and all this but shes acting really strange like my dog just died and i was realy upset and she just said oh ok and walked off i asked her if everything was ok she said it was why is she acting like this and what should i do?? please help

Maybe you should try talking to her. Explain to her what is on your mind and what is bothering you. She is your girlfriend and she should be able to open up to you. That is what a relationship is all about, trust, and honesty. Just talk to her about the situation and I`m sure everything will work out for the best. ♥ - Good luck.


- SPiDERMANN.

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ok lets see im a 13 year old female

im going out with a guy a year older than me and ever since we started going out ive been getting him in more and more trouble.....
i was thinking maybe i should tell him to take a break until he gets ungrounded because the way i see it is we dont get to see each other and hes just gonna keep getting in to more trouble because of me...so what should i tell him?

What kind of trouble is he getting into, and is he getting in trouble because he is breaking some rules he shouldn`t be breaking, like seing you while he is grounded? Taking a break is never a good thing because honestly, it never works out as a break because one of you is going to leave the other for someone else. Just let his parents cool down a little, and when they do, just continue your relationship the same way as before. If you two break up, chances are you will lose each other. Talk to him about your thoughts because he is after all your boyfriend and he deserves to know the things that are going through your head. Tell him what you would rather do. Talk it out with him and get his opinion on it too. ♥ Best of luck.

- SPiDERMANN.

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16/m
I'm so sick of being alive. Everything is so hard. I can't stand it. It's like I'm doing something wrong. I have few friends, but it doesn't matter because I don't like them. I don't like any one. People don't meet my standards and they never will. And when it comes to girls I have no idea what I'm doing. It's like there's some secret technique that every one but me seems to understand. My problems with girls contribute the most to my loneliness and depression. I'm unmotivated in school, because I care more about trying to find a place I belong, trying to find some one who understands me. I can hardly sleep because I'm always worrying about all this. I'm scared I'll never have friends. I'm scared I'll never have a good job. I'm scared I'll never have my first kiss or have sex, and if I do it will be with some one I don't want to do it with. Somewhere between now and the next few years I 100% sure I'll be dead. I can't take it anymore. I've been to therapy and they even locked me up like a criminal in a mental health ward, but to no avail. I hate life. I hate myself. I hate every one, especially if they're happy. I don't see things ever getting better. Please help me. And don't post anything about God, Jesus, or religion of any kind, it will be an automatic 1 on your rating.

Wow, reading this made me cry. Like isn't the best thing for me either. I have the same problem. I wake up at night and can't go back to sleep, I have too much on my mind. All my life I've spent trying to fit in. For all those people who make you make, you hurt you, who put you down, don't give them the satisfaction of you dead. Prove everyone wrong, you can be the strongest person if you tried, if you weren't meant to have a purpose, you wouldn't be here. EVERYONE including you and myself have someone out there. It's just hard to find them. Looking for them isn't going to put them out there, they come to you. Let life fall into place on it's own. You think no one cares, you're wrong. I care, I know this probably doesn't mean anything to you, but if one simple stranger can care, then some other people do too. Find something you're best in, have a hobby. You can ever talk to me if you want, if anything happens to you, I'm going to live life knowing I could have helped you in some way and didn't. IM me on aim, [[ luke is elf ]], add me on myspace [[ www.myspace.com/shadows_askew ]] IM me on msn messenger [[ el_tacoloco17@msn.com ]] You seem like an amazing person, and I would love to meet you. If anything, I could be your friend. Just hang in there, life isn't always the best, but it's what you make it. Make yours count. ♥ [[ Someone who cares. ]] ♥

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I went out w/ this guy and we both liked each other alot and then he just broke up w/ me becz i wanted him to kiss me and i swear. What should i do to get him back???????? Please HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If he broke up with you because you swear and wanted to kiss him, girl it was not meant to be lol. I don`t know of any guy that breaks up with a girl because she swears, unless he`s a goody too shoes, and because she wants to kiss him because as far as I know guys love kisses. You don`t want him back lol. You can get better. I can tell now.

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i was on youtube and i found this on the top videos: http://youtube.com/watch?v=gSmYVlofcZE does that really happen when you get your period? lol probably not but im still wondering ... thx

I don't even think Klotex is a brand of tampons or pads lol. This is so nasty and soooo not true. This person is just...wow..

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13/F

this GIRL likes me at my school.
how do i get her to leave me alone?

Just tell that girl that you don't feel comfortable around her when she follows you around and says she likes you. She will understand, just tell her nicely.

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Basically there is this girl, Nikki nobody likes her. She had friends at one point and then everybody turned on her including me. I'm friends with a 'popular' girl Lindsey. And Lindsey is rude and snobby but she's kind to me. I'm not 'populer' me and Lindsay just hangout during school. I dont like Nikki either, and she knows it. But today I was hearing Nikki and her friend talking about, Nikki cutting herself. I saw it was true, I know it was she showed her friend her scars [I saw them there is two]. And I dont know why I did thing..to Nikki and anybody who's going to sit there and think they never made a bad decision knowing it was wrong and did it anyways is a lair, we've all done it. I told Lindsey, It was a bad idea she's going to tell everybody she hasent, yet. I'm about 50% sure she will. But I know Nikki started cutting because of Lindsey, I know it. I don't know what to do, Suggestions? comments? I feel awful that she cuts herself and I know Lindsey, And Some what of Me and her own self image issues affect this cutting.

I'm in middle school 8th grade.

Hun, if this Nikki girl goes around showing people her cuts then it's cries for attention. Just to be sure though, tell a counselor. No one should hurt themselves because of someone else, no one should hurt themselves period. SO, inform an adult and don't be rude to her just cause your friends are or because no one else likes her.

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I am a sophomore girl in highschool and i have had a major crush on this boy (who is a senior now) since last year. We have both ran on the same team for two years (but the season is over now). And i thought that there was absolutely no chance of "us" ever being together. But at our homecoming game (like october 3) i was sitting beside him and teasing him because a lot of freshmen girls always crowd around him. and he told me "its ok, because the girl sitting beside me (that would be me )is pretty cute. Then the next day he asked me to do something with him and we had an awesome time. But after that we didnt talk very much because i dont see him that much.

Then, about two weeks later, he called me and we talked on the phone for over an hour. He called me about 4 times within 2 weeks. He would skip class to eat lunch with me and it was great.

but i just found out that my friend has been telling him to call me and really pressuring him to be around me and ask me out and stuff. And now me and him havent talked on the phone for about a week and i'm wondering if he ever liked me to begin with or if he was just doing it becuase she told him to. (she has a way of leading people on and making them do stuff). I'm really confused and i dont know if i should call him or if i would seem needy, please help

It would help if you asked him what is on his mind and why he did what he did. Did he talk to you because he liked to, or did he just talk to you because he was a dumb idiot and listened your friend? Ask him that. Hopefully, you get a solid answer. And if you don't like him, you should tell him instead of leading him on.

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I'm looking for a site on facts that are really standard. They don't have to be amusing:just basic knowledge. For example, the boiling point of water and colors of the rainbow are things that I want to learn. Even who's face is on each bill. Any sites out there?

http://www.gotfacts.com/facts.php?category=World&catID=9


http://www.cs.cmu.edu/~bingbin/

http://teentwist.com/Fun/randomfacts.html


http://www.facts-about.org.uk/random-facts-index.htm

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15/M What am I supposed to get for my girlfriend's birthday? I know that you're not supposed to give money or gift cards because to them it says that you don't care. Any ideas?

Buy her something that smells really good with like some candy chocolates to show her you love her, and also include a nice card. On the card though, don't just give it to her, write something romantic in it.

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I really hope this question will not be deleted.
I got a lot of hair on my balls
I wanna get rid of them and I dont know how.
I cant shave them, I definatelly cant wax them so I just spend a lot of time trimming them every now and then.
Any other solution? How to shave balls they are very sensitive and get cut really easilly.

Try using Nair. " For more hair, use NAIR!."

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Sorry if its long. But please read.

Well my best friendd ever moved about 3 years ago, we are still just as closer maybe even closer sand talk all the time. Right now she is going threw a areally hard time, she moves alot and has just recently moved somewhere new, it was hard for her but she is making the best of it and finally started to have fun. Now in the past week everything has been oging downhill. I feel so bad for her and i wanna be there for her but heres the problem, she calls me everyday in tears and yes i sit and i listen to eveything she says but then i dont know what to say back to make her feel better, she will sit and spill her heart out for hours and then i just end up sayin aww im so sorry i wish i could be there with you to help you stuff like that but i feel like its not enough, i feel bad that i donthave good advise for her. So what can i do to make her feel better what are some things i can say?

You are a good friend even though you may not think so. Tell her that you promise to always be there for her, and if you can't help her or give her any advice, tell her you will cry with her. Tell her how bad you feel when you can't help her and to always look at the positive in life. Maybe, even pray for her before you go to bed, and tell her to pray too.


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15/f. i got my formal dress and i ordered it online. well it fits except it is a little short. so i tried it on with leggings and it looks cute, but i'm afraid that now it isn't dressy enough. the dance is a holiday winter formal and everybody gets all dressed up. here are two pictures and i'd like your opinion (guys & girls) on which way i should wear the dress.

http://img62.imageshack.us/img62/9889/dressnoleggingsqw5.jpg


http://img163.imageshack.us/img163/1583/dressdm2.jpg

THANKS!!!

That dress is stunning. It looks really great on you. I think the leggings aren't formal but they do look great with the dress since the dress has a lot of black. I don't think the dress is at all short. Oh and by the way, your shoes = rad to the tad.


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Alexisonfire- Is it said Alex is on fire or Alexis on fire

How do you say Chiodos

How do you say Saosin.. someone told me it's like Say-ocean, but which syllable is stressed, SAY-oh-shin, say-OH-shin, or is it say-oh-SHIN (if you understand what I mean)

Augustana- Does the last 2 syllables rhyme with Donna, or Banana?

Thanks for the help =)

Saosin is said say oh sin.
augustana is like august anna
I'm not sure about the other too though.

♥ Hope this helps in any way.

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I need help, I have warts around the ring on my penis or little small weird looking things...

And no, i've never been sexually active.
It is NOT an STD

So what is my problem?

Thanks

I'm not sure how you got this, but I was doing a little research and from what I read it seems as if you use Oxi-med, it should reduce the warts. Since you said that you are not sexually active it can't be genital herpes because as far as I know that is a sexually transmitted disease. Go to the doctor if the problem worsens from this. Also, look at this website and read everything before you go of and buy some treatment, also be very careful with the side effects.

http://www.wartcream.com/

♥Hope you get better.

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