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there is this boy....


Question Posted Tuesday October 31 2006, 8:10 pm

Well this boy asked me to the dance, and I am so happy about it. He really likes me, and it shockes me because I don't think I'm pretty at all. I have acne all over my face, I'm not fat, and i don't know, I just don't think I'm pretty. But everyone gets mad at me when I say that because they think it's not ture. Well anyway, I was very happy when he asked me, but I was also kind of upset that he didn't ask me out. He really likes me and all, but he said he wants to see how things work out, then ask me after the dance (my friend told me this) He is also very quiet and shy, he doesn't say much to me. I don't think I've had stronger feelings for a guy this much. I think about him constantly. But I got very upset today. Well this one girl who is a good friend of mine use to go out with him in grade school (we're in 9th grade now), but dumped him because he moved away, but now he is back. She says she's really happy for me and that we are cute together, but for some reason I'm getting the idea that she still has feelings for him, and then I get the feeling that he still has feelings for her. He doesn't talk to her that much, but it makes me depressed. She is gonig to the dance with some other guy anyway. Do you think they still have feelings for each other? Or am I just reading too much into things? Also, I want to ask this question to her or my one friend, but I don't want them getting annoyed because I talk about him a lot. Thanks!

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karenR answered Tuesday October 31 2006, 8:27 pm:
I don't think I would worry to much if he dated her in grade school. They might still be friends but I am sure they have both changed a lot since then.

He also got brave enough to ask you to the dance! He must like you or he would have invited her instead.

It is also perfectly normal for a guy not to ask a girl to be a steady girlfriend until he gets to know her a little better. So, go to the dance. Of course you will be nice to him and smile at him a lot! He will probably ask you to be his girlfriend before the night is over. If not then soon.

So don't worry about things. Just go and have a great time. :)

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