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Dont you hate


Question Posted Tuesday October 31 2006, 8:04 am

when people on this site give you rude answers?
I mean , if you want to answer a question its to help someone, not be rude.
So if you say something mean to someone, maybe when you ask a question someones gonna be mean toward you.
I just think its totally wrong.


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NinjaNeer answered Tuesday October 31 2006, 5:37 pm:
It is wrong. You come on here to get advice, not to be heckled.

The problem is that some people perceive criticism as rudeness sometimes. I've received low ratings before because I have given advice that the person does not want to hear. I'll get comments like "I think you're full of sh*t" and things like that, just because I maybe see things from a different perspective because I'm in a different stage of life from them.

You can always file an abuse report, and they'll be blocked from the site.

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holahayley56 answered Tuesday October 31 2006, 4:26 pm:
I understand what you mean, but sometimes.. people arn't really trying to be mean, just honest. & it can come across mean, but they can be most likely doing it, just to get it through the persons head, to help them. I've done it a few times, & realize it was a little mean. But, I just want them to look at it at a realistic way. What I really hate..is when people rate you like ones, for just trying to help them.

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MelLeDisko answered Tuesday October 31 2006, 4:12 pm:
I do understand where you're coming from and everything, but mostly half the time the advicenators aren't trying to be rude, they're just giving their advice. Like me, I've been in that situation before where I even tell them I'm not trying to be mean, and I give them my advice, and it's not what they want to hear, so they give me a 1.

But like I said, I bet you're talking about those advicenators who give really rude comments that don't even give advice in them, which I do think they deserve the 1s and everything.

If you feel you're not being given good advice, you can always file an Abuse Report, and have Advicenators look into it, and have the user possibly removed from the site.

I hope I helped.

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karenR answered Tuesday October 31 2006, 3:59 pm:
If you feel someone is giving you a mean answer, file an abuse report and someone will look into it for you. That goes for feedback too.

Be sure and provide a link to the question in your abuse report. The link for abuse reports is in the blue column to your left. :)

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Teza answered Tuesday October 31 2006, 3:51 pm:
Mean.. a bit but sometimes people deserve it. I don't always give the nicest answers to people because I don't tell them what they want to hear. Some poeple ask really pointless questions & they don't deserve to get good answeres. But I do understand where you're comming from. I know that sometimes they can answer questions in a really mean way even if the question does have a point to them. If you see that, report it as an abuse and they will get banned for it.

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JackiexMarie answered Tuesday October 31 2006, 3:23 pm:
How is asking why people are rude asking for advice?

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DancinCutie08 answered Tuesday October 31 2006, 3:07 pm:
well being mean isn't always bad though. sometimes its knocks some sense into people. Like the ones that asked i had sex with 10 guys tonight could i be pregnant. Sometimes dumb questions need dumb answers

I do agree its not nice to be rude when someone needs true advice but rudeness happens and you have to be able to accept that

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Tuesday October 31 2006, 2:13 pm:
Well I am harsh at times because I think what they are asking is totally stupid & its pretty self-explanitory such as


I got new shoes, they are blue, and nike. I bought them for $80. Will it be okay to wear them to school or are they not cool enough?


I hate stupid things like that, and sometimes when you do ask for advice people need to be blunt about it. Thats how i prefer for people to be.


But then again i totally understand you cuz the problem is pretty serious enough for someone to sit down and take the time and thought out to type it and post it on here to get some answers.

So i dont think people should be completely and uterly rude but on the other hand i think people need to state there honest opinion. Its only beneficial to the person needing the advice.

So i hope i helped you out quite a bit, although i did side with two sides, i do understand where you are coming from.

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brumzfinestnigga answered Tuesday October 31 2006, 10:39 am:
why isnt this question been deleted

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