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Hellooo! My name is Jackie (obviously) and I just want you to know that you can ask me ANYTHING. There really isn't such thing as a stupid question, if you really sincerely need an answer. Also, you may think your question is embarrasing, but hey, first of all, don't be embarrased. I'm not going to laugh at you, or insult you. Lastly, I do not sugar coat my answers. If you want true advice, i'm going to give it to you even if it's something you don't want to hear. I'm really just trying to help. :)

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14/f - are there any excercises that you find effective to help my upper-inner thighs? i'm 4'11" & weigh about 92 pounds; so i'm small for my age but i have a problem with my thighs ; like when i sit down they spread out which i know happens to evreyone but i'd just like to make them slimmer. thanks! =]

Well you should of course run. Try to start at running 10 minutes a day or as long as you can handle without hurting your body, and then work it up to longer everyday. I reccomend doing it either in the morning or evening, because it's cooler then. Also, listening to music while doing helps alot too.

Also you should do these things called leg lifts. They are pretty hard and you should start at 10 then work your way up to 3 sets of 10. They are really effective though. Here's how to do them:

sit in a straddle on the floor, hands behind you for support (hands should be on the floor, under or near your tail). Slightly lean back and lift both legs (about a foot off the floor), keep your legs STRAIGHT, WITHOUT your legs touching the floor lift them 10 times, release, count to 10 for a breather and repeat.

The key to all excercises is that you have to be consistant! Don't feel discouraged if in 2 or 3 weeks you still aren't satisified! It takes a while.

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okay,so like my friend took me to the pool today and i noticed that she kept going to the edge of the pool hanging over the edge in a trance like 8 times before i asked her, what's wrong. she told me "it feels so good" and was like entirely dozed off. so i noticed that she was letting the jets on the wall hit her pussy. so i tried next to her and i'm telling u IT FELT SO GOOD!!! oh my god! i can't explain it, i've never felt that way before. anyway, my question is, is that normal? r there any other girls out there who do this too?

Yeah it's kind of masturbating. Actually it is. I'm just warning you, don't do that alot in a public pool because people will know what your up to and thats kind of embarrasing. :P

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Hi, I'm 14/f.
I've been masturbating for a while now, and I don't stick anything actually UP there. I just rub my clitoris until orgasm. I'm wondering about the holes in your vagina. Which one (if I want to masturbate with an object) do I stick the object up? And which one has the hymen? Also, I've been thinking about tampons - is that a different opening? Please help!

ok, i'm not trying to be mean to that girl jessika i think thats below me, i'm just saying this so you dont hurt yourself. DO NOT LISTEN TO THAT ADVICE. You masturbate in the vagina which is the hole that is closest to your anus, NOT YOUR URETHRA WHICH IS THE TOP HOLE. dO NOT stick anything up there or it will hurt like a mother fucker.

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Well..not exactly the internet lol, just this particular forum...
So basically, there is this forum, yeah, and most of the people there are something like an ungry mob against me!!!
So no matter what, or how polite I am they always find a way to attack me all together and talk bad, and use dirty words and all. I should be able to just tell them to fuck off and move on with my life...
Only I just keep getting there and try to excuse myself. Its so obscene...you know how easy it is for people to fight on forums right? And they piss me off and I am thinking about it all day. And I wanna tell them to fuck themselves and move on with my life...
Help me? Please?

I feel as if I am starring in some kind of Farrely brothers movie.

It is sooooo easy for people to insult others through the computer. They have the safety of staying behind a screen and they think they are all tough and big because they can say whatever they want and they will never have to meet that person face to face. The people who are attacking you are probably insecure about themselves in real life, so they try and make themselves feel better by trying to make SOMEONE ELSE feel like they do. Chances are in real life they are some lame losers who wouldn't have the guts to say half of the stuff they do on those forums. The absolute best thing to do is just stop going to the forum. Just don't even type one more thing on it. If you really like that forum and the subject of it tough you can just make a new username. Those losers who are insulting you will be all angry because they can't rush onto their computers when they get up and start harassing you. They will be jelous YOU have a life and they don't. You'll probably really want to go right back to it and start talking to them again, but every time you want to just think of how mad they are getting that they don't have you to insult anymore. These people probably love that you keep coming back to the forum and reading their messages. Also, if you really want to, you can leave some sort of goodbye message saying how you are done with those certain people and that they really need to get a life, then just create a new username.

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14/f

ok. i'm average in weight and stuff. but alot of the girls, or my friends, are super skinny, and i wanna lose like 10 pounds, just so i'm close to what they weigh, but i don't look anerexic like them. and we have this huge party coming up, and so yeah. i need to do it fast. like i kinda would like to lose 10 pounds in a week. i know thats tottalyyy unhealthy. but, i don't plan on doing this like 24/7 itll be like a one week thing. soooooo, any ideas?

The only possible way to lose 10 pounds in a week is to become anorexic or bulimic. If there was any other way a huge amount of America's population wouldn't be obese. You can lose less than that by eating healthy (cutting ANY junk food from your diet)and excercising (running around your neighborhood or town, going to the gym, etc.)

I understand that you really want to lose weight, but when it gets down to it, losing 10 pounds in a week = stop eating or start throwing up your food.

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Hello. I had no clue what category this would go under. I was going to look to see if anyone else has asked this before, but I wasn't sure where they would've put it. My lips are burning really bad right now and they usually don't this much. I use just regular chapstick a lot throughout the day and I put a lot of it on. I use the mint, cherry and strawberry kind. Sometimes the regular kind too. I don't know if there's any chapstick or lip gloss that has made your lips really soft before, to where they're not chapped often or even burning. If anyone knows please let me know asap! I'll be going to the store soon. Thank you very much. Oh and it's not that my lips are chapped. They're soft, but right now they're burning. So I just want something really good that you've used before.

Burt's Bees is GREAT! It makes your lips soft, and it gives them a nice minty smell, and a tingly feeling (in a good way.)

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i straighten my hair almost everyday and i have a lot of split/dead ends.. what could i put in my hair before i straighten it so the heat dosnt distroy it even more?

thankss =]

I know an amazing product. It's called Fantasia Hair Straightening Serum. It's around 9 dollars I think, but it's worth it. My hair was soooo silky and soft after using it, and it also protects it from heat. Just rub a bit in while your hair is damp.

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I have a butt that i hate =] how to i get it firmer and smaller? all exercises needed! No pills no medicine or remidies please! Thanks =]

The best excersises for your butt are lunges and squats! Here is a link on how to do squats:

http://exercise.about.com/od/exerciseworkouts/ss/howtosquat.htm

Lunges are really easy to do, just look them up on google.

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i REALLY want to be a model. I'm not pretty or anything and i dont fit the height and weight requirememnts, but im obsessed with americas next top model (the show) and i love posing and stuff. I took a few pictures of myself with high fashion makeup i tried by myself. can you give me your honest opinion: If i got some training could i be a good model? (and lost some weight)?

http://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j182/Babiixbrunette/mcc4.jpg



http://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j182/Babiixbrunette/mcc3.jpg


http://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j182/Babiixbrunette/mcc1.png

(the thir dones kinda bad)

Are you 5 foot 9? Are you incredibly skinny? Do you have a unique look? If not, then you definitely can't be a high fashion model like on runways.But you can be a commercial model like for magazines and things like that, because in those kinds of things people need all kinds of people. You need to be at least 5 foot 9 to be a high fashion model.

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Prom is coming up, and my friend has been trying to convince me to go tanning with her. So i went today, and it was pretty okay. but when i got home i found a website saying all these risks about tanning and i'm not sure i should go again....

Do tanning beds really cause skin cancer and other skin diseases? are there safe ways to get a tan?

You should REALLY not go to tanning beds. You can get skin cancer, and when you get to be older, you will have ALOT of wrinkles. I mean all old people have wrinkles but you will have ALOT. It's just horrible for your skin. Also, there was one case where a girl went everyday to a tanning bed, and her insides decayed, but of course thats only in EXTREME cases.

If you want to get safely tan, try mystic tanning. Go to a good one though, because some can make your skin orange-ish.

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ok.
i have this boyfriend and he really likes me. He wanted to have (you know what starts with a "s") i said no. we are too young! he said ok and it was fine. a couple weeks later, he was at me house and we were the only people there. We were studying for a big test. He said lets take a brake. i said ok. i started to sit on my beD AND eat some popcorn. when my back was to him, he jumped on me! i almost screamed. he was flat faced on top of me. He said "how does this feel?" and he started to have it! i kinda liked it at the time. He was very vigerous with me but gentle too. after, he slid off me and pull all me clothes off. EVERYTHING except my bra/underwear. then, he put himselft close and tore it off. he said "oops!" i pulled away but he had me. then he took off everything and he started again. kissing and touching me everywhere. Even me private spots then he sucked on me breats like a baby. and puuled his arms in between my legs. naked. and said like this? i didn't answer. he started to touch his under private part with mine. while still sucking on me. then he said this is boring. and stopped. then he pushed me into the shower. by now i was getting into it believe me, this is not rape. he turned on the shower me got us wet and went out on my bed and he started sucking on my underprivate part and feeling my breats. I started to love it. it felt tingleing. he stayed like this for a long time. then he took my hand and putit on his private part and kissed and everywhere even my parts. now, i can't face him.. what should i do?

Ok just the fact you couldnt even say the word "sex" shows everyone you are not ready. You can't even say the word sex, let alone HAVE sex.

Oh yes, and its probably hard to admit it to yourself but your boyfriend DID rape you, because he forced you into it without your consent, you i advise you to DUMP that guy.

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hey ppl! well, i'm 14/f, and i have a problem. when i was about... 11 i think, i wanted to start shaving my legs. well, my mom didn't think i was old enough to shave with an actual razor, so she got me an electric razer thing. well, now i'm 14 and that electric razer does just not cut it. it doesn't get all of the hair off my legs. i want a razor, but i don't think my mom will let me. does that stuff by suave or whatever work? its the stuff kinda like nair. with the bladeless razor. idk what to do. help! thanx!!

I think since you are 3 years older and a teenager now, your mom will think you are responsible enough to use one. If she still doesn't want you to, make a deal with her, something like "If you let try to use a razor, I swear if it doesn't work out i'll stop." If that doesn't work, then you should buy the other kinds of shaving products, it's better than nothing.

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ok there is this kid Joe at my school.. he's been talking to me, hitting me with a stick, and IMing me..

I was away and he left these messages..
Joe: Hey
Joe: wats goin, sry that im finally responding to u now,
Joe: i just been busy studying and workin
Joe: but i think we should def hang out this weekend
Joe: c ya on tuesday

Tuesday came he didn't talk to me or aknowledge my presence. Then today we had a class together.. and still nothing. don't know what to do... what to sya or anything.

Sincerely,
InLoVeWiThDaSaNi

Yes, he probably is shy. This is coming from a shy person, so I know. Usually shy people are more outgoing online cause they aren't with you face to face. He probably likes you but too shy to come up and talk, so I think YOU should go up to him in class and start talking. Just be like "Hey, so can you still hang out this weekend?".

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me nd my mate was on habbo having a PRIVATE convo, then the next day my other mate, luke said he'd seen the convo bcoz he was sitting in the portable thingy, i just wanted to know how do you do that??

OK, if you have two porters in your hand, put one down, because if you put one down without the other linking porter out, you wont go to the other room. If you are in a room that isn't yours and you don't own the furni, you are going to have to have someone rotate the teleporter RIGHT AFTER you get in it and before you go to the other room.

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well lol i posted this before and everyone one helped out great but i need a little more advice =[ Well um heres a photo of me im the one with the medium lenthg browin hair with the white head http://coookiieloove.piczo.com
band well I dont see my self as a pretty girl like others i look at the mirror adn want to break it to be honest i need help i want to know what will make me pretty what make-up honstly i just want to look at my self and say hey i look pretty today but i never do please help

I saw your other question, and just about every single answer said you were pretty or beautiful. I still agree. Also, I think now you're just trying to get people to say you're pretty, so please don't post this anymore please.

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what do i do if the child im watching is being very bad and decides to get her head stuck in the stair rails

should i leave her for being bad

plaese say yes

thanx

If you want to just hear yes then go somewhere else because i'm not. No, don't leave her, and i'm sure she didn't do that on purpose. You can hurt the poor kid's neck. You don't punish a kid by physically hurting them, you put them in time out of forbid them from doing things they like to do.

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is their any Instant messaging like imvu? if you dont know what that is go to www.imvu.com just to see what its like. i want to go on a website like imvu cause its 3d instant messaging. and my comp. wont let me log onto imvu anymore. so i wanted something simular to it. thanks.

There's one website that really isn't instant messaging, but it's like IMVU because you make an avatar and you communicate with people with that avatar. It's www.habbohotel.com
All you need for it is to download shockwave.

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i want a new sn.
something with like

-criss
-riss
-riss
-xx
-xox
-love
-broken hearted


doesnt have to have it all. i just want a cute one.

like my friends name.. she tied it into cupcake. it was really cute

xxlovecriss
rissxoxriss
xxrissriss
xoxloveriss
xx b r o k e nhearted

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What are some cute clothing stores that sell clothes kinda like Forever 21 and Wetseal? Anything you say will help. Thanks a bunch! =)

- Express
- Charlotte Russe
- Aeropostale
- Teen section in macy's
- Gloria
- PacSun

(Charlotte Russe is the best!)

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if I have a burberry purse for sale on ebay and 9 watchers is that really good?? I have 4 days left on it.Do you think alot of those peaple might bid at the last minute? thanks

Yes they will. Once I was selling an old game system and I had like 2 watchers, and about a 20 dollar bid. THen in the last hour someone bidded $130.00! So 9 watchers is really good.

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