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My boyfriend and me having u know what
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i have this boyfriend and he really likes me. He wanted to have (you know what starts with a "s") i said no. we are too young! he said ok and it was fine. a couple weeks later, he was at me house and we were the only people there. We were studying for a big test. He said lets take a brake. i said ok. i started to sit on my beD AND eat some popcorn. when my back was to him, he jumped on me! i almost screamed. he was flat faced on top of me. He said "how does this feel?" and he started to have it! i kinda liked it at the time. He was very vigerous with me but gentle too. after, he slid off me and pull all me clothes off. EVERYTHING except my bra/underwear. then, he put himselft close and tore it off. he said "oops!" i pulled away but he had me. then he took off everything and he started again. kissing and touching me everywhere. Even me private spots then he sucked on me breats like a baby. and puuled his arms in between my legs. naked. and said like this? i didn't answer. he started to touch his under private part with mine. while still sucking on me. then he said this is boring. and stopped. then he pushed me into the shower. by now i was getting into it believe me, this is not rape. he turned on the shower me got us wet and went out on my bed and he started sucking on my underprivate part and feeling my breats. I started to love it. it felt tingleing. he stayed like this for a long time. then he took my hand and putit on his private part and kissed and everywhere even my parts. now, i can't face him.. what should i do?
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If you can't TAlK about sex, you definitely shouldn't be HAVING sex. If you can't face him after having sex, [technically considered rape because you didn't consent (even some rape victims feel pleasure)], then you aren't ready to be having it. If he attacked you once and you forgive him for it, he's going to think that it's okay to do it again because you let him off without even a warning. You should end your relationship with him because obviously he doesn't respect you enough to let it go that you didn't want to have sex.
Hope I helped.
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Considering the fact that you couldn't even say the words 'sex', 'vagina', and 'penis' -- you were and are not ready.
Seeing that you can't face him, you were not ready and you were/are embarrassed. You can tell yourself that it wasn't rape but from what I've read, it sounds like rape. You weren't ready and you didn't give him consent. Even if you didn't tell him to stop, it's rape.
I say you dump him and stay away from him.
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well you're obviously not ready...
if you don't think it was a rape because you liked it, then it was just your mistake that you sat on your bed with this guy... what do you think he want's to do on a break on your bed.. <3
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Ok just the fact you couldnt even say the word "sex" shows everyone you are not ready. You can't even say the word sex, let alone HAVE sex.
Oh yes, and its probably hard to admit it to yourself but your boyfriend DID rape you, because he forced you into it without your consent, you i advise you to DUMP that guy.
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Uhm, if you were gonna scream, then it was rape. Whether you liked it or not, it was rape. You can't even face this kid.
Dump him. You said you didn't want to, but then he did it anyways. Call the cops, tell someone.
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Well for one just by your typing you are prob very young & to you it may not seem like rape but it looks to me like you need to go & talk to your parents about this because the way your talking, I don't care if he was gentle or not he still shouldn't have done what he done without you actually telling him you wanted to, & what if he had of gotten you pregnant? Then what? You would have an unwanted baby that is if you didn't have an abortion first, but in my opinion you need to talk to your parents about it because even though you say he didn't rape you..he could be going off & doing what he did to you to other females. Think about it. I hope this helped & sorry if it was harsh but you asked a question & I answered.
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