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Last Update: September 9, 2007
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umm im 14 years old and i never had my period yet and i have no boobs at all (link)
Boobs & period are not the most important things in life even though people may make it seem like they are. Your young, give yourself time to bloom. Believe me, from experience once you get your period you'll hate having it & wish you didn't so just enjoy the time you don't have it, theres nothing wrong with not having either one just yet your day will come & you will get everything all girls have & have to go through. Then you'll wish you didn't have it at all, hope this helps


I have been friends with this kid for a long time, and about 1 month ago his g.f broke up with him. And he was sad for weeks and i felt so bad he liked her so much. Im 13 and hes a year younger So he Came to me for help and after that we started like talkig 24/7 and like hanging out alot. But Last night He kept on dropping SUCH obvious hints that he liked me. He kept on asking me questions about my pas relationships and about if i still liked any of the boys and who the things on my profile were for, I told him It wasn't for Anyone and He was like "dang I thought it was for me" so i guess Its kinda obvious he does like me but then after that hes like "what if one of us likes eachother but then the other person gets mad and we never be friends again" but I didn't answer cause i had to go.
But I mean its pretty Obvious he likes me but like i DONT wanna like him like that AT ALL i like things the way they are now and i really dont want to go out with him or anyone at the moment. But If he ever tells me he does like me and asks me out I dont wanna Hurt him Like his ex did cause he was So sad.
Now whenever he signs on i dont want to talk to him because I feel so awkward now.
Idk What to do.
Sorry it was long.
Helpp (link)
If you don't have feelings for him the way he does you then just be honest with him. Don't avoid him or ignore him when he calls or messages you because that will hurt him more. If you 2 are friends then you should be honest with each other & just tell him the truth. Because the truth will set you free.

Also, just tell him that you would rather just stay friends instead of taking it to the next level because you don't like him like that.

Hope this helps.


Alright I asked advice about a 13 year old friend of mine, who was being abused and that helped a lot thanks everyone...but now I need desperate help with my boyfriend. I'm seriously in love with this guy, but I feel as if theres not honesty or trust in the relationship. I'm 19 and he's 17 we've been going out for almost two weeks now. He claims to be in love with me. The thing that bothers me is a bunch of people have been telling me a bunch of stuff about my boyfriend. Like he stold some girls picture and made an account on a chat called userplane the chat rooms name is called teen chat. Then today a friend of mine IMs me on AIM, and says that someone I know talked to him and my boyfriend was talking about a different girl, how he was already going out with her. And he said that if she doesn't respond to him then he'd just have to settle for me as a back up. I don't get wtf that means but I'm so freaking upset. Please help out and tell me what to do!!! Thanks. (link)
If your 19 & he's only 17. He is prob a player. I mean girls mature faster than boys & if he has to get online to try to find him a girl or someone to hook up with then you deserve & can find much better. Sit down with him & have a talk & I am sure you know what your heart is telling you. If you have any doubt in your mind whatsoever about him lieing & the rumors being true then dump him. I hope things work out but my honest opinion is you deserve better, don't let a guy bring you down.

Good luck to you



sooo when i was giving my boyfriend a handjob when he was fingering me... then he rubbed his balls that had skeet on it and thenn continued to finger me. can you get pregnat that way? please reply as soon as you can! thanks (link)
Only if the skeet was enough to surface into you & meet one of your eggs...depends on how much skeet it was...but more then likely no.


ok.
i have this boyfriend and he really likes me. He wanted to have (you know what starts with a "s") i said no. we are too young! he said ok and it was fine. a couple weeks later, he was at me house and we were the only people there. We were studying for a big test. He said lets take a brake. i said ok. i started to sit on my beD AND eat some popcorn. when my back was to him, he jumped on me! i almost screamed. he was flat faced on top of me. He said "how does this feel?" and he started to have it! i kinda liked it at the time. He was very vigerous with me but gentle too. after, he slid off me and pull all me clothes off. EVERYTHING except my bra/underwear. then, he put himselft close and tore it off. he said "oops!" i pulled away but he had me. then he took off everything and he started again. kissing and touching me everywhere. Even me private spots then he sucked on me breats like a baby. and puuled his arms in between my legs. naked. and said like this? i didn't answer. he started to touch his under private part with mine. while still sucking on me. then he said this is boring. and stopped. then he pushed me into the shower. by now i was getting into it believe me, this is not rape. he turned on the shower me got us wet and went out on my bed and he started sucking on my underprivate part and feeling my breats. I started to love it. it felt tingleing. he stayed like this for a long time. then he took my hand and putit on his private part and kissed and everywhere even my parts. now, i can't face him.. what should i do? (link)
Well for one just by your typing you are prob very young & to you it may not seem like rape but it looks to me like you need to go & talk to your parents about this because the way your talking, I don't care if he was gentle or not he still shouldn't have done what he done without you actually telling him you wanted to, & what if he had of gotten you pregnant? Then what? You would have an unwanted baby that is if you didn't have an abortion first, but in my opinion you need to talk to your parents about it because even though you say he didn't rape you..he could be going off & doing what he did to you to other females. Think about it. I hope this helped & sorry if it was harsh but you asked a question & I answered.




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