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I'm a new young mom who has a lot of things to say to whomever is willing to listen :). I promise not to judge you no matter how crazy you may think your questions are and I will give the best answer I possibly can!

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does anyone know any good exercises for your butt? i hate asking this but i hatee mine

reminds me of cottage cheese asss :/

SWIMMING! trust me its really good for your whole body. just do alot of strokes around the pool. or if you dont know how to swim then skate or jog. something that makes you move your legs. it really does help.

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ok !i am having a really bad problem. well me and my boyfriend got into a serious arrgument today. he got mad at me cause he said that i was smiling at his friend. i am like omfg cant i even look at anyone.and on the bus today he broke up with me. then he called me and asked me if i would go back out with him. he apoligized and i said ok. well he called me and talked to me a while ago and i dont even think his sister likes me. so what should i do brake up with him or not? srry for this bein so long.
i will rate all 5's and give feedback for helpful answers only.

alright forget about the whole rating 5's thing. im just here to help. i DONT think you should brake up with him. give him another chance. just next time you want to look at a guy, make sure you have a girls night out and look at guys all you want. that way no one gets hurt, even if its over something stupid. and about his sister, forget it. does it really madder wat she thinks about you? well, i hope i helped ♥ leah

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I recently just got braces, and I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for a few months now and we haven't kissed yet.
Well I'm afraid now that since I have braces he won't want to kiss me.
I don't know, this is just something that worries me. But should I be worried about this?

listen, if he likes you then it really wont matter. trust me, if he doesnt want to kisss you just bc of that...then hun, he is NOT worth it! and having braces doesnt really make that much of a diffrents anyway. so dont worry about it. i hope i helped and feel free to ask me anything else.

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i am just wondering why people put lemon juice in there hair. i am not bein mean but i just wanna know what it does
thanks

some people say it will like....bleach your hair.

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what does it mean when a guy is uncircumsized?

does it have any disadvantages or effect anything?

uh..ok well, when a boy is born they have this extra peice of skin on there "thing". so getting circumsized means once there born the cut it off. so uncircumsized means they still have the skin. it doesnt really do anything...i dont think.

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13/f

hey, umm, yeah...i haven't really been sleeping the past 2 weeks...and now, i'm starting to get headaches-like frequently...

this has never happened before, and like i just wanted to know if this is semi-normal or if something's wrong w/ me.

also, i'm postitive that its not like PMS or anything having to do with my period...it just started randomly happening...and plus, i've had it for like almost 4 years now...s0o0o, yeah...help?!

i think it might be stress. i mean THE SAME EXACT THING happend to me when i was in school, pacted on homework, took care of my bro, and my parents were fighting. i was so stressed my eye started twiching when i trie to go to sleep at night. i think you should try to work out whatevers bothering you or if that doesnt seem to help then i sugest going to a docter. maby he can help you.

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14/f .. would you consider it cheating if someone else kissed you but you weren't the one who kissed them?

well.....no i wouldnt. i mean you didnt really do anything. although i HIGHLY consider telling the person your going out with before somone else tells him.

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ok so i love "him" he knows it. but he likes "her". i asked him who it was and he wouldnt tell me. then i asked him if it was me and he said "i aint tellin no1". i really want to know who it is and its bothering me so bad. someone please help i rate high!

its probably you i mean otherwise it wouldnt be such a big deal to tell you.

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have you ever gone out with soemone because of there heart and your friends get all amd at you becaus he isnt hott and they have a hotter boy friend and make fun of yours? well i dont no wat to say or do!!!

YES! and i broke up with him and then i regeted it. so tell your friends that they need to back up becuase they dont know the real him. tell them that they dont need to be all bitchy about it just becuase of his looks. tell them that he is a better person then all of them put together. i hope i helped and i hope your friends understand.

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(16/f)Does anyone know a work-out I can do to work my lower abs? I've been doing crunches/sit ups and all i've gotten is a 2-pack. Would leg lifts help? I don't want a work-out video-and i belong to a gym so i have access to medicine balls and what not, but i'd prefer just a movement i could do at home! thanks!

leg lifts leg lifts! ya!

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I am not big AT ALL, I am very little and I am NOT bragging. I am 13 years old and I'm female, guys don't really want to go out with me because I'm so thin. how do I got more meat on my bones faster than a few mounths or weeks?

P.S. I am 65 pounds.

YOU NEED TO SEE A DOCTER! THAT IS WAAAAAAAY TOO SKINNY! eat alot of meat. i hate to say this bc i dont eat cow, but you must eat alot of steak.

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ok well im 13f i have aproblem their are two guys that i like im dating one but the other is just a little more than a friend i was wondering one his name is rob and hes soo sweet and the other bobi and hes soooooooo protective of me and he hates rob i love that hes giving me boundries b/c that shows he cares but i cant be happy b/c i think about him and why hes always mad at me the other guy rob is always sweet to me but that worrys me b/c i like having a bf that gives me boundries and i know that he wouldnt what do i do helppppppp plz

go with the sweet one hun.♥ i mean really you think its cute to b protective at first, but then it gets out of hand. but if you wont take it from me. then you should follow your heart. i know its hard to find out what you want but thats part of life...i wish you the best of luck.
later gater.
leah

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ohk so im going to be getting an ipod, it holds 1,000 songs but my question is lets say for example i have 225 songs on my ipod & im getting sick of 5 songs can i delete them so there for i would have 220 songs left?

yes

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I think im fat but people say imnot but i just wanna look good in a bathing suit. soes anyone have any exercises or web sites i can go to. i just wanna loose a few punds.

HELP ME PLEASE

-x- Jayme -x-

do some swimming. and jog, and watch wat you eat. and most importantly just watch how much you eat it. its ok to have a small peice of cake once in awhile but not every day! so good luck. and if you want to see if your over weight go to
am-i-fat.com

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I am 14/f and i am 5'6'' and i weigh around 160 lb
(my scale isnt accurate...)
but people ALWAYS mistake me for around 140 pound
and i know i am fat...ohh harsh me.. i mea overweight. but i do try to lose weight.
i exercise regularly. every monday wednesday and friday (it was on health magz that its not good for you if you exercise everyday when you get older) anyways so i lost 10 pounds around already yes i know i was even fat loser then.

and i dont eat alot, although i snack sometime like eating desert like little bit of ice cream but not a lot.

so what is normal for my height and weight and my age? and how can i get my self to stay exercising?
because during those times i been quiting in and out and technically i only exercised for a month
or 2. so its pretty good losing 10 lb in those month because i dont want saggy skin...talk about ew. no offense... to people who do have those ...

anyways and i am thick in the leg. and arm... and i cant do lifting dumbels anymore because i kinda got hurt from that...

so how do i get my legs to be slender?

and keep on track and any tips on losing weight faster?

please i need help ! i havent had a boyfriend ever! i know people say its not about what's on the outside becaue then its not true love or stuff but i really want a boyfriend and i WANT to look good for him (well future bf ) and i want to feel better about my self...

so please help me

alright, well if you want to see if your over weight then go to am-i-fat.com. alright but anywho you should be doing alot of swimming! that is a really good excersize. and do alot of jogging. and it doesnt really madder WHAT you eat its HOW MUCH you eat it. eat wat you want just not as much of it. i hope it helps.

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I have a best friend... he is so close to me. I go to his house A LOT and juss hang out. we joke around a lot. but im startin to get feelings for him. he is so hularous and very cute. i dont know what to do. i DONT want to like him but i do. and im afraid to tell him. if you could help me that would be great. im really confused. but i think i love him.???its crazy! hELLPPPPP!! thanks ♥

its ok to be afraid to like your best friend, i know, i have before. and you know waht? i didnt affect our friendship at all. i think you should tell him. i mean. life is way too short to wonder wat would have happend if you told him and you didnt. right? well, good luck. ♥

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What are different ways to style sidesweeping bangs? Im getting them tomorrow - should I cut them to the bottom of my ear? Cheekbone? Longer?

just a bit farther than your check bone.

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Hey...I was wondering if I was having normal period pain or not. I have a slight fever, not very high. And I'm having pains in my stomach (everywhere not just in the lower part) and some back pain. I'm getting headaches and after I eat I feel like I'm about to throw up. Plus I'm suffering from a loss of appitite. I should have started by now but i'm a little late. Is this normal?

yep its normal. i get back pains all the time and i hate it. but us girls have to put up with it. i dont know about the fever thing though...maybe you should see someone about that.

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I am in a wedding August 27, I am 5'3 and 120 pounds. My stomach isn't big but a little chubby. Does anyone know how I can tone it up in 5 weeks. Please Help, what can I do????

alright this might be hard. but i think you can do it. do about 50 or more crunches a night before you go to bed and stuff like that. swimming is also good for that. you should also watch wat you eat as well.

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i didnt kno wut category to put this in but o well....ok i JUST got braces and they feel really weird and i cant bite down all the way. I wanted to kno if any noe could give me some advice about braces....pls help thx! ;)

there gonna hurt every time you go to the dentist. just take some advill. i just got mine off.

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