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protective or sweet
ok well im 13f i have aproblem their are two guys that i like im dating one but the other is just a little more than a friend i was wondering one his name is rob and hes soo sweet and the other bobi and hes soooooooo protective of me and he hates rob i love that hes giving me boundries b/c that shows he cares but i cant be happy b/c i think about him and why hes always mad at me the other guy rob is always sweet to me but that worrys me b/c i like having a bf that gives me boundries and i know that he wouldnt what do i do helppppppp plz
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If you think you love 2 people at once then you don't love either enough. - Micaela Logan
I strongly believe in this quote. Only one guy deserves to be loved (or in your case, liked) by you.
You can't date someone and like someone else at the same time. So decide now. Liking two guys at the same time shows that you don't care about either as much as you thought. So choose now. Chances are, if you aren't sure who you like more you probably don't like either enough.
Seriously, no one can EVER help you pick who YOU like more, let alone people you don't even know. You haven't even told us much about these guys. So I guarantee you NO ONE will be able to help you in choosing.
If you finally pick only one guy, you need to spend more time with him. Get to know him even better and get that other guy COMPLETLY out of your head. That's the least you can do for him. And even then, if you decide you still don't totally LIKE your boyfriend, it's time to break up with him. Dating is about experiencing new things, trying things out, bonding with someone, and finding what you need and want. You don't have to be confined to one person forever, you are free to date people to find someone that's for you.
And like I said, the minute you find out he's not the one you truely have strong feelings for, you need to break up with him and save him more heart ache. But if you do decide he is the one that gets ALL of your love, get the other guy out of your head and spend more time with your sweetie.
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go with the sweet one hun.♥ i mean really you think its cute to b protective at first, but then it gets out of hand. but if you wont take it from me. then you should follow your heart. i know its hard to find out what you want but thats part of life...i wish you the best of luck.
later gater.
leah
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hey well i know how you feel because i have felt the same way before so dont worry. . . .but the best thing that i can tell you to do is follow your heart because i did and i ended up with the one that i wanted....and then sometimes you have to think of who you like more theres no reason that you guys cant be friends...but you should really decide which one you want because your really hurting your b/f! hope i helped!
xox dina!
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I would go with this Rob guy. He sounds alot more friendly and it sounds like you would have a better time with him.
If you like the boundaries thing, then just talk to Rob about it and maybe he'll get it.
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