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Ok so im trying to work things out with my bf. we have been together almost 2 years and i am now pregnant even though i was told i couldnt have kids. We have set a date for marriage but there is a problem. He will not save any money and we are stuck renting a basement apartment at a friends house and im not bringing a baby into a basement. So, i suggested that we move down south with family where we could afford the cost of living. He refuses because all of his friends are here. So since he doesnt want to come with me, should i just leave him and go by myself??? I have no family or friends here and both of our families are down south. I think he is being selfish to want me and our baby to stay in a basement just because of his friends.

yeah he is being really selfish, he needs to see what it's like without you and ur newborn (once the baby is born) in my opinion losing loved ones is the only way a man will change his ways!

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Is blow drying bad for you hair?

Is shampoo bad for you hair?

Why?

Thanks guys!

blow drying damages your hair. Shampoo isn't bad for your hair. Your hair needs to be cleansed daily. Try thermasilk, it's heat activated.

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What is the Orient? Also, is it alright to call Indian (people from India) South Asian?

BTW what is being politcally correct? I hope I'm using the word right for this title.

Boy we are sure getting a lot of indian questions lately.

Yes, it is ok to call Indians south asian. Just make sure you don't call them middle eastern. lol

orient is asian people, like chinese, korean, japanse etc. However that doesnt include the south asian countries such as pakistan, india, bangledesh. etc

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Can anyone teach me some simple words and phrases in Hindi? Anything people say on a regular basis? Thanks!

hahaha i can help with this one.

Namaste= hello

Kya haal hain= how are you

hmmm that's all i can think of. You'd have to ask me how to say something specific and i could help you more. I speak fluent hindi.

sure i can teach you all kinds of things lol. u can aim me at Desibeautii aim.

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Hey! I'm not shure if this goes in this category but - does anyone know how to get good karma?

Thank yoU!

Karma is an idea, it's not a fact. So there is no way to receive good karma unless you base it on your opinion of what YOU consider good karma.

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I'm babysitting this demand child. How can i get her to shut up?! Omg. shes so annoying. please help
♥

ignore her. Or threaten to tattle on her.

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Hey, how often would I have to work out to lose about 10 pounds in a month/month and a half? (If that's possible) I won't be running, just walking. Should I power walk, or just go a normal pace? And for how long & how many days per week? Thank you!

power walk, at least 3 times a week.

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my boyfriend gets extremely jealous whenever another guy compliments me, such as on myspace picture comments, and he sends them messages saying really mean things! ( i have his myspace password..shh haha) he told my guy friend to go to hell when all my friend said was "hey how are u youre pretty hot now". Is this jealousy a sign of how much he loves me or is he just very insecure? or both?

both

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This is kind of weird. After I eat something and I get full, I stop eating and I go do something else. No, I don’t keep eating after I’m full. But, until my food is digested if I think about food or if I look at food I feel like I am going to throw up. Is this normal?

People that feel this way usually eat too much. Try eating less. If that doesn't help than it's all in your head.

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16/f
For the passed few months I haven't been eating much. The only thing I eat during the day is breakfast, usually poptarts. The rest of the day I'm not hungry AT ALL and no matter how hard I try to eat.. I just can't. I used to eat A LOT but now I hardly eat at all. What happened??? I'm kind of scared.

Your body got used to not eating. Just try to eat healthy foods so you can receive enough energy throughout the day.

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I'm a plus sized girl, and I'm fine with that but finding clothes is hard for me. I was wondering if anybody could tell me some cool sites or stores, besides Torrid or Lane Bryant, that sell plus sized clothes. I have no price preferance.

The first tihing i thought about was torrid, lol. Try Dots im not sure if they have one in ur area though.

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Does Witch Hazel really help acne/pimples? I have a bottle of it but I don't know if I should waste my time. Has anybody tried it, and did it work?

Im not sure about with hazel, but toner helps.

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14/f
My boyfriend and I have been together along time. We kiss sometimes and everybody has a problem with that! For example today we we're in my room and we were kissing. His little sister (that nobody likes) went and told on us. I have never really done anything wrong before so why are they bugging? They always say I wish you guys would just be friends. We were best friends before we got together. His parents acts like hes to good for me. And in all reality we're getting married (in 5 years) and he never wants to see them again. But they don't think we should be together. what should I do when it's his parents he wants nothing to do with not me?

Mac

Um, there isn't really anything you can do. You can't make someone like you. Just give them some space. If y'all really end up getting married than they won't have choice. I'm not saying they will like you, they dont have to like you, but they HAVE to respect you.

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hey, ive been trying to babysit my neighbor forever. my mom has been asking them for me to babysit. i mean im going into the 8th grade.. im deffinetly old enough by now. shouldnt there be a reason why there avoiding it?

Maybe they just dont like other people taking care of their kids. They are probably just over-protective. Don't take it personally.

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i have this friend and one day ill be hanging out with her and were laughing and talking a lot and having a great time, but then the next day comes and shes all mad at me for no reason. i mean, its not like i even say anything mean to her. is it something she doesnt like about me? or is it just her personality?

bipolar

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i know this is a kinda weird question, but i dont like getting sick, well hey.. no one does. ecspecially in the summer, i dont wanna get sick! so does anyone have any tips on not getting sick? and staying healthy.

take multi vitamins. Try cod liver oil. It helps strengthen ur immune system.

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My legs are really thin, but I have streach marks at the very top. Nobody can see them but me. But they still really bother me. And I told my mom, and asked her if I could get some cream stuff, and she said no. What should I do?

try cocoa butter

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if i dont have sex for like a week and a half it hurts really bad!! like it feels like my hymen is being ripped all over again and it hurts and sometimes bleeds.is this normal? what can i do to prevent it? do i need to get this checked out?does anyone else have this problem?

You either need to have sex more often or stop having sex altogether.

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i m from india.my friend nowadays is really worried. she says that she never had sex with her boyfriend but they only touched one another everywhere.
now the problem is she is not got her periods for past two weeks from the scheduled date.she says that her periods are very regular.
then what can be the reason for her delayed periods.she says that while touching his lower part if she had sperms on her hand and if by mistake she touched her lower part can this lead her to becoming pregnant.

yes it sure can! If a guy and a girl are having unprotected sex, and the guy ejaculates on the girls thigh while pulling out, a girl can get pregnant. Anytime you have contact with sperm you should use a condom.

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i know im not lik FAT, but im fatter than some people, and i keep eating and eating but im working at a camp where i waslk lik all day bt i dont seem to be losing weight, and my thighs are fat majorr turn off..any ideas>

stop eating...? Eat healthy food

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