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jealousy issue
my boyfriend gets extremely jealous whenever another guy compliments me, such as on myspace picture comments, and he sends them messages saying really mean things! ( i have his myspace password..shh haha) he told my guy friend to go to hell when all my friend said was "hey how are u youre pretty hot now". Is this jealousy a sign of how much he loves me or is he just very insecure? or both?
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It sounds like both to me. It's not that he's insecure about himself and others sending you comments on MySpace. It's probably because he loves you a lot and he's just scared to lose you, that he's acting this way.
My boyfriend gets mad too, when random guys leave me picture comments and comments on my MySpace. But he KNOWS he's not going to lose me over something silly like that, because I talked to him about it.
Just explain to your boyfriend that those messages and comments are people just saying their views on you. He shouldn't take it to heart. Explain to him that he isn't going to lose you over some silly comment that is on your picture on your MySpace page. You're with HIM and you don't plan on leaving him for some random guy on the net. ♥
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he sounds insicure to me and he wants you all to himself but its not like there goin to take him away from you...maybe he doesnt realize how strong your relationship is no matter how many times you tell him...i think u should talk to him about it and tell him how much you love him and no guy will take u away
<3 Meredith
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i think it's his own insecurities and that he's afraid to loose you to other guys cuz maybe he feels he doesn't deserve you hope i helped hunny if you need anything else just let me know
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the way i see it
maybe it's because he loves you so much and maybe he's had an experience where he got a girl taken away from him because of all those kind of compliments. maybe he wants to make sure that you love him.
i think you should talk to him and make sure he knows that he's all you've got.
but i think it's kind of sweet that he's doing this.
answer to your question: maybe both
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okay...if it really bugs him, u need to talk to him about it...i had a bf like that 2 once. but he's probably just insanely being weird because he doesnt want guys hitting on u
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he just really likes you! trust me, its a normal thing. mostly every guy does it. you can either talk to him or just get use to it.. good luck :]
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Well, he does have a right to feel uncomfortable, but I'm just not sure if making threatening messages is really appropriate. I think he cares about you & is just insecure like you said. Try to reassure him that you like him & him only & that he has nothing to worry about. :)
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It shows how much he loves you. I do it to my boyfriends and it usually ends up in break ups cuz my boyfriends don't like it when I get jealous like that. It's how he's saying, "She's mine, back off." He just doesn't want to lose you to anybody else who might be flirting with you. I know because I'm always in his situation. I don't want to lose my boyfriend, so I talk girls that he talks to, asking them what they talk about and stuff. So, yes. It's basically showing that he loves you. Hope I helped.
~countriebabe08
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