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hymen
if i dont have sex for like a week and a half it hurts really bad!! like it feels like my hymen is being ripped all over again and it hurts and sometimes bleeds.is this normal? what can i do to prevent it? do i need to get this checked out?does anyone else have this problem?
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You either need to have sex more often or stop having sex altogether.
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in my opinion i think you should go to a doctor and get this checked out cuz nobody is going to know more about this then the doctor himself.you never know mabey its STD's so you shouldnt hesitate to go cuz if theres a problem now it needs to be solved.
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The longer you go without having sex, the more is seems to hurt. When I first started having sex I couldn't even go 2 days without it because if I did, it felt like I was a virgin getting my cherry popped all over again. [like you said]
It's impossible to have your hymen ripped again after it's already happened. But it is possible that he's just ripping your vagina walls in general. [it's painful, but common] this could be the cause of the pain & the bleeding. Next time you have sex, tell him to go slow. This could be a big factor in why you are being ripped. Also, be careful not to get to rough and do more then you can handle. Especially if you are a petite girl and he has a big penis.
You shouldn't make an appointment just for this reason unless you are genuinely worried about it. But I would suggest that the next time you go to your OBGYN, be sure to mention it to him/her.
I had this problem the first few months, but after a while it just didn't bother me as bad. I still feel a sharp pain when we first start, but I tell him to go slow and I adjust myself to the pain until there isn't any at all.. that's when it starts getting pleasurable. I also get sore afterwards, and my legs start to give out on me. [weird i know] Anyways, just make sure he goes at a slow pace until you are ready to go harder/faster or whatever.
There isn't anything you can really do to prevent it, accept to have more sex. Not exactly the advice that I should be giving you, but if you want the pain to go away, the only thing you can do is get used to the feeling. It will still hurt at first, but if you get into it and enjoy yourself [even through the pain] then it will get a lot better and a lot more pleasurable.
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