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I like this guy and he likes me.. I want to tell him how i truley feel but im afraid.. Should i gain up my courage and tell him? or just leave it alone?

you never know till you try! tell him just dont put all your self-worth into whether he likes you or not. if u dont tell him, u might miss out on somethin great.

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Hey Ya'll,
First off Im male and 15. I've kinda got a problem... There is this girl that is pretty much one of my best friends I guess you'd say. But we hang out alot or atleast when we can. And for the last few(2) months I started liking her as more than a friend. But the problem is that I don't know if she likes me as more than a BFF. I mean some days she really seems to like me as more than a friend in my opinion and some days it just seems like were just like best friends. I really don't know what to do cause i dont want to hurt our friendship if she doesnt feel that way... Because I love hangn with this girl shes so awsome!

I was thinking of asking her to prom (my schools screwed up and small so I can go to prom if I pay) because I know she'll make it a fun time even if she doesnt like me that way because she just makes me have a great time hangn with her... Should I ask her?

YES!! ask her to prom! even if she doesnt like u as more than a friend, u can go as best friends and have a kick-ass time!

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So im talking to this person from another country.. I ask him what his country thinks about 9/11. The attack we had. So He said i dont want to tell you im really sorry for that but i should better not tell u prob u must have already understood but still wont teel u. What is it that they possibly think? They think what we are doing is wrong?

well, its a question that is based on opinion. some opinions are better left unsaid because they could breakup a friendship if they are different. honor the fact that he is keeping to himself.

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I'm on a diet right now, and obviously, Easter is coming up. I have younger siblings who still get candy from the "Easter Bunny" and they're probably not going to buy "The Easter Bunny didn't bring your sister anything because she's on a diet." What can I have my mom give me so that I can have fun on Easter and still stick to my diet?

the easter bunny doesnt give older kids candy, they get stuffed animals and (something your into) instead. or you can be nice and share the candy you get with your youner sibs.

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I'm 13, female, about 5'4" and about 140 lbs. I've tried dieting, since i'm too young i can't use diet pills, and i've run out of solutions. I can't even get dressed without crying because i can't stand the way i look. i have absolutely no idea what to do. any suggestions are greatly appreciated. thank you guys so much

the more you worry about it, the more depressing it will become! so, learn to love the skin you are in! no matter how hard it is just keep working and excersizing and youll get there! stay posative!

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im almost 14 and i still havent been kissed or had a boyfriend is that normal??? I feel like im abnormalk or something...

thats perfectly normal! dating b4 15 isnt really that serious anyway. and i know tons of ppl that age that are the same way, so dont worry bout it.

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Ok...I am content with my body except this little pouch of fat or something on my inner thighs..its the only thing that bothers me really..im pretty active, i walk and exercise about every day or every other day and play ports and was in track, and i try to eat fairly healthy. soo anything i can do to get rid of this? i'll rate high...!

im the exact same and i dont think they will ever go away...if u get any good answers plz lemme know!

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what brand of mascara works really well?

mabelline is the best! :-)

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15/f-I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now. Previously he was going out with my ex-best friend, whom i am at poor terms with as a direct result of my dating him. While i know i made a mistake by doing this, I don't regret ending the friendship for many personal reasons. Still, i can't escape her wrath. she tells our mutual friends and others, that i'm a whore or a slut or other related labels, when in reality i'm very near prude. What should i do to protect my reputation? I don't want one mistake to haunt me forever. thanks

what a b!tch! well if your friends are hearing that, tell them whats going on. dont be too loud or mean about it, just tell them u arent a whore if your with the same guy for 6 months and havent done anything. they should side with you. just dont confront her yet, that could end up making things worse.

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I have been going out with my boyfriend now for 3 monthes. I am 14 years old. Last night, we went to a house party. Ther was this game were we had to give head. I didn't want to give his bestfriend head, but all the girls were doing it. The game was called "rainbow."
I feel so guilty, and gross, what can i do to feel better?

ok thats sick! be glad u didnt do it just because everyone else was.

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Have you noticed if a girl has sex they are called a slut and when a guy has sex they get more popular. I dont understand it please someone explain it to me or give your opinion on it!!
i rate high!

yeah its retarded. lesson here: dont have sex with someone who likes to kiss n tell.

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i always write before i go to bed because im a young author, and well, i always leave my light on because i forget because by the time im done writing im really tired. anyway does sleeping with a light on really give you lukemia?

LUKEMIA?! wow, no sweetie. it might not be good for your sight but lukemia is in your bones/bloodstream and the light has nothing to do with it.

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I am 15/f and I am iching and burning down there and it hurts like heck and I dont know what it is...I have recently had sex like almost a month ago and I am scared that I may have something...could anyone tell me what this could be? If so thanks I need to know a/s/a/p...I'm scared that this could be something bad...please help me I will rate high ...thanks

you should really go see a gyno. it could be serious and no one can realy tell what it is online. best wishes.

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Ok heres the problem, i LOVE to sing, i can sing very well too. The problem is i can't preform in front of people! I am way to nervous. I can't even sing infront of my family. Its just to nerve -racking. My family says i should go out for singing lessons because sometimes they hear me but im to nervous to go out. When i get older i really wanna try out for american idol, ya it sounds stupid but i do. Its just im to nervous in front of people! Does anyone have any tips to get un-nervous, or any advice for me to go out?
- Shy Singer -

once you can sing in front of at least 1 person it will be easier, trust me! you can look at them when your performing for support. it took me a while to do it but once i could sing in front of my choir director, i sang in front of 500 ppl and LIVED. its huge at first but put yourself in charecter,and dont sing for anyone but yourself.

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ive read some questions and most about sex with guys is a little making me uncomfortable. not all guys are horny lil bastards. i dont go looking for sex and all that, i just look for some1 i can relax with and have a good time with, not the first girl that is willing to give it up 4 me. trust me girl when i say this, guys are all talk. they say that with their friends, but if a girl came on to me wanting sex (im a virgin) i wouldnt have a clue what 2 do.

wow...your one in a million! not all guys are like u but i can definatly see where ur commin from. keep it real,

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Okey, my friend told me to ask this question. She has been shaving her mustach for about a year now..and it looks really bad!! what can she do? she cant wax because she gets rashes and for some reason it doesnt even work..and she cant tweez because there's too much hair. And she cant colour cuz it still shows..any suggestions?

bad idea. um yeah she could try bleaching it with the sally hansen stuff. they have some for really stuborn hair. its like 5 bucks at ur local drugstore. luck,

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Okay I am 14/female. I weigh 157 lbs. And I eat too much. Like when I am bored I will eat food. I am fat and I really would like to lose weight. I will look and feel better if I do. My Mom is on Weight Watchers and I want to do that. I am going to most likely, but what I want to know is what are some ways that you can excercise at home? And what are some ways to discipline yourself not to eat so much? I know that if I lost weight then I would be prettier then I am. Also what are some ways to build leg muscles and stomach muscles? And how can I get rid of the stretch marks on my stomach. If anyone knows of some quick ways of losing weight please let me know. During the summer I will be able to lose a little bit of weight because I have a pool and I will be swimming a lot. I am sorry that this is so long. This is kinda off topic of the question but also I am pretty pale skinned. What are some easy ways to tan at home without having to be soaked with tanning oil?

♥power to be pretty♥

i really have to know your height BUT anyway, you can do squats, run, tae bo, pilates. if you dont want to eat as much, try hanging out as far away from the fridge as possible then youll have to move to get to the food. following your mom's plan is not a bad idea! there are NO fast ways to lose weight! 2 pounds a week is a good pace. luck!

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ok so i have this boyfreind...and i love him with all my heart, weve been on and off for about a year now. Ive been in love with him since the first day he asked me out.I love everything about him, but theres one thing that he just started doing that really bugs me. Ok he's your average 17 year old honry teen...but he like talks about it a lot. He always tries to talk dirty to me, and i used to think it was cute, but after some of the things guys have done to me...i dont like it anymore...at all! even him, and sometimes he gets to the point where i have to tell him to stop...but i feel really bad telling him that. I know this is a weird situation, but what should i do?

a lot of guys do that! if he doenst stop when u ask him to, hes not worth it.

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hey i'm 13 and i'm a Christian! i would really like to know more bible verses for i'm going through so much (parents are like yea...and my friends are failing me...and i have like 2 major issues of being easily angered and jealous, i'm praying about it too) so if you know any bible verses that might help me with the above or just any good ones tell me!! thanks soooo much *i rate*

ive never answered a question like this but some cool ones are:
WHATAP- With Him All Things Are Possible
FROG-Fully Rely On God

id ont know if you have the book of psalms but i like psalm 23 - "the lord is my shepherd, i shall not want"

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ok umm im going to this kids house i just met and hes cool and i have bin talking too himALOT and his friends and everything and he wants me too go too his house after easter and sleep over but hes not sure if i can bring a friend and people are saying thats not a good idea cause they think i dont no him thaat well but like he is really nice and he would never ever do that and his mom is one of my teachers and i dont no she wont find out cause we are gong too his dads house and i dont no he are going to smoke and drink and i dont no what too do?

save yourself some time and dont go! you just met him and he wants you to sleep over without anyone else being there... think of where this could go and if your willin to take the chance..

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