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Question Posted Friday March 25 2005, 12:12 am

ive read some questions and most about sex with guys is a little making me uncomfortable. not all guys are horny lil bastards. i dont go looking for sex and all that, i just look for some1 i can relax with and have a good time with, not the first girl that is willing to give it up 4 me. trust me girl when i say this, guys are all talk. they say that with their friends, but if a girl came on to me wanting sex (im a virgin) i wouldnt have a clue what 2 do.

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Kels answered Saturday April 2 2005, 12:42 pm:
well, im glad you are like that, there are very few guys like you!

good for you!

and when people make fun of you for being a virgin!- you may look like the loser then

but when they are pregnate or have gfs who are pregnate, and dont have a good job, and they have bad grades and are paying child support.........................


LOOK WHOES THE LOSER NOW!!!!!!!!!


always there-
kels

if you ever need anything, leave one in my inboX!

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TheTeenGirl answered Sunday March 27 2005, 4:30 am:
I believe they are all talk, but lots of normal guys want sex. I know not all guys are like that, but its not like we don't know they can't control their hormones, but many teenage guys are this way, like it or not. But its good that they don't stay this way, thank you for maturity. Also, we know they are all talk with friends, they feel the need to impress, or they are nothing. I'm sorry this upsets you, but all the girls out there thank you for being one of those guys that are rare, and hopefully you won't take advantage of a girl and just have sex with her.



-TheTeenGirl

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Dom answered Saturday March 26 2005, 2:46 am:
i know where your coming from man. Im a 17 male and theres so many times i could have had sex with all these girls....and i just never took the chance cause im not like that. i hear people say all the time "oh wow you nailed another one so and so how many is this now?" its just the kids these days that are immature about things. the real mature and responsible males are like you said, are willing to wait, make sure you know the person, and see if there is actually anything there for you guys to be together. I tell you, if you keep on having sex just for fun, its going to either ruin your reputation or its going to put you down a road of torment later on in life. I tell you want i may not be a virgin but i had only had sex with one girl in my life. and i tell you now that it was a big mistake of my life, and that i have decided to absolutely wait and make sure i know the person first. I respect you man, keep it up(Y).

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LoveNJstyle answered Friday March 25 2005, 8:23 pm:
wow...your one in a million! not all guys are like u but i can definatly see where ur commin from. keep it real, <3

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pixieglitter123 answered Friday March 25 2005, 7:53 pm:
if you can feel that it is the right thing, then do it. but if you feel skeptical, then dont. Trust me, you will feel it with all your might when you want to do it with somebody.

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cheer_gurl answered Friday March 25 2005, 11:20 am:
well thats relieving. u sound sweet. if ur asking if thats a good thing, i think its a great thing, not too many guys are like that!

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br0kenPr0miiSes answered Friday March 25 2005, 8:42 am:
i feel that way too!! ((im a girl)) i get afraid to go into a relationship thinking thats all they want, but you have to get to know the guy better i guess. i guess you should just, be yourself and not say it.

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karenR answered Friday March 25 2005, 3:16 am:
well, your letter was a breath of fresh air.
It is good that a guy can wait until he gets to know a girl first. You'll make a good boyfriend for some nice girl.Don't worry, when day comes you'll figure it out.Come's naturally! I think the reason you read so much about it hear is because teens are curious and have lots of questions.They need to have them answered, I think correctly.So they can make choices that are right for them.
I agree not all boys are that way.Totally agree.
But once you get to a certain age those hormones take over and you have questions.
And once you have sex, usually thats when the problems start coming along!so,don't judge the askers or us to harshly okay.Gotta get the answers somewhere!:}

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kevin1986 answered Friday March 25 2005, 2:15 am:
Dude,not all guys are like that,but that's like saying all girls don't like The Notebook. If any girl comes on to me,we're not talking. Maybe as a secondary thing. It's nice when you can have sex with somebody you care about. It's better that way,but sometimes,dammit you just gotta think with the head below your belt.

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shake answered Friday March 25 2005, 1:46 am:
Sex? Girls? Virgin? Horny?

Im sorry you were saying?

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FunnyCide answered Friday March 25 2005, 1:41 am:
I applaud you on your taking a stand for guys. Though I'm not a guy, I agree with you. Not all guys are "that way". In fact, it's probably about half and half. (half "that way" and half "the other way".) Though you hear about guys wantin' to have sex, it's sometimes the girls to initiate it. The guys just go along with it.. but you're exactly right. You sound like a cool guy.. more people (male and female) should look for someone they can relax with, hang out with, have a good time with.. not have sex with. If all "boyfriends" and "girlfriends" did was have sex, I'd be a hermit. ;) You sound really cool, thanks for taking a stand.
-FunnyCide

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Diona_Marie answered Friday March 25 2005, 1:03 am:
Awww thats soo sweet i wish i can find a boy like you !! every guy just want me for sex lol...i hope any girl that gets u appreciates you
<3 Diona Marie
email or i.m me or sumthin one daiie babe !

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FunkyHoMoSapien answered Friday March 25 2005, 12:55 am:
well said my friend. now if only we could tell all girls this and if only they could believe us.... good job my friend good job.

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punkrockprincess answered Friday March 25 2005, 12:51 am:
Well thanks for clearing that one up! (=. But you sound really sweet! And any girl would be lucky to have you!!


&hearts; Always,
Maria

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