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OK, I've been dating this guy for about a month or so ...and a few of my friends think he just wants sex and im not quite sure either....One time he asked me to have sex one night but i said no. we've hung out since then and he tried to get me to give him head and stuff but i didnt and we still hang out and whatever but he hasnt asked me to be his girlfriend or anything yet so thats why im unsure nor even have we talked about it . all our phone conversations are pretty short and just consist of making plans and whats up how r u n stuff along those lines however we do talk once in a while for like 15 minutes....so my ? is do u think he just wants sex? and anyways to find out besides talking to him about it

your friends are right... if this guy wants you to do stuff like that but still hasnt asked u to be his gf, thats exactly what he wants. hes gonna keep askin till you do it. then when you do, hes gone. careful

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Ugh. My best friend kelly thinks she's a really good singer. The problem is... she sux! She's also going to be in the talent show and perform a song. When she does, she's gonna be sooo emmbarrased aftwerwards! Everyone's gonna make fum of her. I don't know what to do, or how to break it to her!! Should I just let her be TOTALLY embarrased? Help!! Please!!

o god. well you could try telling her but if she REALLY wants too, be nothing but supportive. get her confidence up before the shows and dont let it go down after.

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well im really trying to lose weight and my friend told me to run a mile 5 days a week then next week run 2 miles and so on if i did that up to 10 miles how long would it take me to lose about 45 pounds?

running will not help you loose wait (seriously) if you eat healthy then you will. increasing it by a mile a week will kill your legs! try starting at half then adding a half-mile. if you increase too quickly you wont be as motivated .."joy! i get to run 10 miles today" try different excersizes too...running help your legs and butt. luck!

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Near my armpit, I have a bump. Its about 1/2in by 1/2in. It looks like a buise but it, i dont know how to put this, its like, elevated. i have know idea what it is or how i got it. I've had it for about 4 months. The first month, when i squeezed it, a puss like fluid came out. But not anymore. It juts hurts when i touch it. Does anyone have any idea's on what it is?

it might just be from shaving (like ingrown) if your really worried about it then go see your doctor.

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I have eczema, and have had it since i was born. It only comes during cold weather, why? i dont know. Does anyone know any over the counter things that help it go away?

i think its because it make your skin dry. try curel lotion or go to a derm for a prescription moisturizer.

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I feel bad about myself sometimes because I'm skinny yet I don't look all that great. I want to feel better about myself and also look better. How is it possible?

maybe get some clothes that flatter your thin figure. as for confidence, just be happy with what you have and what you are.

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im 13 and im male. can anyone tell me some makingout tips. highly rated.

comming from a girl, brush your teeth even if your not gonna make out! if my boyfriend's breath stunk, that the LAST thing i would think of doing..first one being runnin far, far away. as for actual tip: no where you can be caught by parents.

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I find myself easily stressed out and being that I'm only 15 this must not be a good thing. I feel like I have no time to do all the things I need to do, with my life, with school work, a job, home with babysitting and I find myself unable to relax. I don't know what to do to relax. Any suggestions. Thank You.

well i know this is kinda late but its normal! dont worry about being stressed because that adds more stress. try taking bout 20 minutes a day for yourself and do yoga or pilates (or just any kind of excersize) and it will help you clear you mind and move on.

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Hi,
My school doesn't do work experience but I need to do a two week work experience placement to get onto the childcare course I would like to study. So, I'm trying to organise it myself and writing letters to all the nurseries in my area asking if they can help me.

My questions are:
*Do you think they would prefer handwritten or typed letters? (My handwriting is neat)
*What goes after 'yours' when you don't know the name of the person you are writing to?
*I am studying for 21 GCSEs. Do you think I should mention this or would it make me sound like I'm showing off?
*Should I mention any of my GCSEs? For example, I know that I have to gain good qualifications in English to be a Nursery Nurse, so should I mention that I'm studying English?

Oh, and I've been to Connexions, if anyone was going to suggest them to me, and they were absolutely useless, so I'm doing this myself.

Thanks!
xxx

1) typed is probably best
2) o0o0o0 maybe just sincerely or something. im not really sure.
3)i think you should mention everything you are studying for. like in a resume, its not considered bragging, its going into detail.
4) yes! mention that you are studying english. mention anything you think could help you get a good, enriching experience.
hope this helps!

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i was wondering does any1 know any fitness exersises to get abs?im a girl and want to have abs. also a butt workout!! I really need to lose weight and how can i get motivated to lose weight? i am 130 pounds at 5'2 female.
Thank you in advance

if you go on google you can find different sites to guide you in finding and excersize plan. some have pictures to show you how. try: toneteen.com

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im really worried about my best friend she sleeps with anyone and anything that moves last week she slept with 5 different guys than last night at a party she slept with 3 guys gave head to 1 and let that guys brother go down on her and hooked up with my close mate now she saying she wont hang around me unless i change im out of ideas of things to do.

personally, if any of my "friends" did that id end up leaving them. try tellin her the risks shes taking by treating her body like a trash can and see if she comes around. dont let her take you down with her! what shes doin is not well liked by anyone.

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im gettin uncertain about a little get together im supposed to have tonight..im afraid my parents will come home early or that they are suspicous. i know a lot of you are going to say cancel it if i feel this way..but if i dont and they come home early is it a good idea to hide the guys in my grandmas summer place and to come clean that 5 girls were over? they would flip if they knew guys were over. any famous lines i can use if i get caught? i dont wanna cancel because im having 10 ppl over and they r lookin foward to it..i am too..i think i can get away with it..right?

all obnoxious / mean , etc ppl will be givin a 1 so dont answer..your not needed

well make sure everyone keeps their clothes on. then if you get caught its not HUGE trouble. as for excuses (after you hide the guys) we were planning on making dinner for the homeless so we were working together. instead of wasting time on the phone, i didnt think you would mind having a few girlfriends stay over for a bit. thats all i can think of! good luck n have fun!

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I think my parents went through my purse! I came home last night and my purse was on my bed and it was opened! I feel violated, and hurt because i dont know why they would feel the need to do that. should i wait it out..because maybe if they went through my purse then they would talk to me about it soon? or should i confront them? if it ends up they didnt look through it they would think im paranoid and think i mmight have something to hide right?

calmly ask them to please not go through your things. if they need to check anything if theyre questioning your behavior, they should ask you first and you will let them. (not saying that u actually will...make them feel like they can do somethin)

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Hey, i have had this girl as my girlfriend for a month and 3 1/2 weeks. But, we have not kissed yet, the main reason is, because we both have braces, i am affraid of all the roumours of linked braces that are going around. I get my braces off in June or July, and i am having her over tonight with a few friends for a movie night, should i got ahead and kiss her, or should i wait til i get my braces off and play it safe?

___ and ___ sittin on the couch K-I-S-S-I-N-G
first comes love..then comes marriage...
ok im done.

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im 13/f and have been gettin discharge for more then a year...buti havent gotten my period yet..is this normal?

as far as i know, your fine.

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Is it safe to have sex in a hot tub? I heard that the water can get up in you and cause infections or something. Also, is there a greater chance the condom will slip?

no, its not safe.

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I'm really into fashion and stuff but i don't know what stores have the hottest clothes!! Fill me in!!

i suggest getting a few magazines and looking at the places they get the clothes.

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Is it possible to be suicidal, but to not have attempted suicide...?

yep. you have lots of thoughts then when you finally break down completely you think back to "the plan" n do it.

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I really like this one girl called Nicole but from what i hear she hates my guts i want to ask why but shes a bad girl always skipping school and stuff (nadda really bad no durgs that i know of) it could just be because shes Goth i dunno. anyways my query is how do i make on friendly terms not a relationship without doing something corny, cheap or expensive(sp?)

thanks a ton
13 male
Solemnstar

finally! a guy on the site! ok srry. maybe shes just rebellious. if shes goth, maybe having something in common such as music could get the conversation going and maybe somewhere in there you could sing. if it doesnt get her in love with you, it will at least make her blush and giggle.
ps-i LOVE when guys sing!!

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Does anyone think that sex makes a relationship, or that it makes a relationship better? Why or why not?

A relationship revolving around sex is not better. it wont last very long... after the action is over... so is the "love"
it wont make it better. it doesnt make the other partner fully commited or more attracted.

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