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im really worried about my best friend she sleeps with anyone and anything that moves last week she slept with 5 different guys than last night at a party she slept with 3 guys gave head to 1 and let that guys brother go down on her and hooked up with my close mate now she saying she wont hang around me unless i change im out of ideas of things to do.
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You're out of ideas? Okay let her talk to me, im sure i have a few...;)
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you really need to talk to her about it that is not good! she could get pregnant! not only that but she wouldn't know who the father is. but if she says that she isn't going to change you need to talk to someone! butt if u don't want to find a new friend.
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shee's not worth being friends with if she won't hang out with u unless u act like a skank
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Well if she wants you to change then she aint a good friend. Friends should like you for you and not for who they want you to be so i say ditch her.
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Don't change. Continue to respect yourself, even if it costs you a friendship.
Your friend obviously has some serious issues. All you can do is try talking to her. Tell her that you are worried about her. (Her actions could result in contracting a sexually transmitted disease or an unwanted pregnancy.) If she doesn't listen, then let go of her. You don't want to hang around someone who behaves this way, and you certainly don't want to act like them.
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personally, if any of my "friends" did that id end up leaving them. try tellin her the risks shes taking by treating her body like a trash can and see if she comes around. dont let her take you down with her! what shes doin is not well liked by anyone. <3
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you would not want to get introuble becasue of your friends problems, but I know that she is doing this because of something that happened to her or to her familly/friends that affected her and so she sleeps with people to take away that pain. Talk to her one on one to find out what's wrong and until she tells you don't give up on her and tell her what she is doing is not solving her problem. She needs somebody to talk to and unless you talk to her or somebody really talks to her she will keep on sleeping with her. Good Luck
raven_75
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when it comes to that point..i would say move on from her. shes really spiraling in the wrong direction, and if shes gonna do that..its her life, but she shouldnt be dragging you down with her. a real friend wouldnt say that she wont hang around you until you change. shes the one who needs change. i would drop her and hang with appreciating friends. Its hard to drop a friend..but its the best for both of you..plus..she seems like she would drop you as a friend in an instant.
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okay, first lets see what a friend is:
1 : a person who has a strong liking for and trust in another
2 : a person who is not an enemy <are you friend or foe>
3 : a person who aids or favors something
4 capitalized : a member of a Christian group that stresses Inner Light, rejects sacraments and an ordained ministry, and opposes war
so, a friend is someone who accepts you.
so, DONT be her friend because she doesnt accept you.
-Happy, me!
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Kiss this 'best friend' goodbye unless you want to be a slut with her. Shes not going to change for you, trust me on this, shes going to be like this for the rest of her life, but don't let it happen to you. I lost my best friend to sex and drugs, and I sure am better off. Just go on with your life and let her get pregnant and have her deal with her consequences. Her fun with guys will not go on much longer, but you need to just leave her.
-TheTeenGirl
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Talk to her about it if she doesnt listen leave her to it and find some new friends.
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well she isn't a friend worth having at the time being leave her alone and act like you don't care about her anymore and eventally she come running back. hope i helped
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You are very right to be concerned. Please don't change just to remain friends with her.
She is putting herself at risk for Aid's, any number of STD'S and preganancy. Any of which have deadly or life altering consequenecs.Not to mention she is the very definition of a slut. All these boy's who are going out with her now will never respect her or go out with her for any other reason other than to have sex with her.
You could tell her mother about it I suppose if she is really young.You didn't mention your age.
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How does she want you to change? Does she want you to be like her? Well, if you have to change to be her friend, why would you want a friend like that. You've got to hang out with the right people, and find good friends that you know will never want to change you for any reason. Because they like you, for you.
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