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OK, I've been dating this guy for about a month or so ...and a few of my friends think he just wants sex and im not quite sure either....One time he asked me to have sex one night but i said no. we've hung out since then and he tried to get me to give him head and stuff but i didnt and we still hang out and whatever but he hasnt asked me to be his girlfriend or anything yet so thats why im unsure nor even have we talked about it . all our phone conversations are pretty short and just consist of making plans and whats up how r u n stuff along those lines however we do talk once in a while for like 15 minutes....so my ? is do u think he just wants sex? and anyways to find out besides talking to him about it
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your friends are right... if this guy wants you to do stuff like that but still hasnt asked u to be his gf, thats exactly what he wants. hes gonna keep askin till you do it. then when you do, hes gone. careful <3
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ii think hes just usiinq yu for sex! so the answer to yur questiion is yea! hes just wants some like any typical guy! dont let him make yu do something yu dont want to or yull regret it later! hOpe ii helped xO
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If a guy thinks your worth his time, then he'll let you know, most likely by asking you to be his girlfriend. Also, by not talking about this subject you're making it sound like it is ok for this to happen when you really feel uncomfortable. Communication is key in order for a relationship to work, so no more hiding feelings and be mature about it. He can't be too shy to talk about it if he has asked you for head and sex. Wouldn't you like to experience these things with a person you love and trust?
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Well, he might not want SEX inpeticular, but he might not want you for you. He doesn't seem like he's truely interested in you, if your phone conversations are only 15 minutes. I'm not saying it is wrong for them to be only 15 minutes, but my boyfriend and I have conersations for hours. If he continues to show no interest in you, and only in sexual things, you might need to rethink your relationship.
♥ Kristin
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Yes, he just wants sex. Next question.
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Sounds to me hun thats that is all he wants.. i mean with in a month he has asked you to give him head..to have sex and pushing you into things you dont sound ready for.. he apparently thought you was some kinda of hoe to think he was going to get it.. he dont want a steady reltionship and it sounds like you need to move on.. you can remain friends with him sounds like it would be the best thing for you have with a guy like that.. he isnt going to have true feelings for you.. if anything he'd probably lie and said he does jus to get exactly what he wants and you'd jus get hurt cause you would have them feelings and you'd be hurt so forget him..much luv dez x0x0
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I'll tell you how to find out if he just want's sex or he really likes you. Don't put out, if he keeps coming around even though you have not had sex then he probably wants a relationship, but if he avoids you after you keep telling him no, well than he is only after one thing sex. Remember if you don't put out it will keep them coming back, because they know you haven't slept with everyone and it will keep them interested.
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No, he probably just doesn't want to have sex. He did try it with you, but maybe he respects your wishes when you said no. If he didn't he's being a jerk. The other possibility though is he just tried to get something out of you, but I highly doubt that because he would have tried again or he would be completly ignoring you now. He might just feel awkward that you said no to him [not that you were wrong!]. You might want to ask him what's going on, why he's quiet, maybe it has nothing to do with you either. If you want to be totally foward say "Um, you haven't really been the same since, you know, you asked me to have sex." and see what he says, it definitely wouldn't hurt. ♥ HOPE I'VE HELPED!
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sorry, but yes.
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they way that i hear it yes . . but thats just wat i think! good luck! =) x0x
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Well since hes been asking you to do stuff, and your not even "going out" offically...I think he just wants sex. Sorry hun! Theres lots of jerks out there...so yeah. Just be careful and dont give in to him..because he'll leave you. And you'll be broken hearted. Not trying to be mean, I just dont want to see you get hurt.
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