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girls ?:/
I really like this one girl called Nicole but from what i hear she hates my guts i want to ask why but shes a bad girl always skipping school and stuff (nadda really bad no durgs that i know of) it could just be because shes Goth i dunno. anyways my query is how do i make on friendly terms not a relationship without doing something corny, cheap or expensive(sp?)
thanks a ton
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Solemnstar
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hahaha my name is nicole
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finally! a guy on the site! ok srry. maybe shes just rebellious. if shes goth, maybe having something in common such as music could get the conversation going and maybe somewhere in there you could sing. if it doesnt get her in love with you, it will at least make her blush and giggle.
ps-i LOVE when guys sing!!
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well you could invite her to a movie or have her come over to your house
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You just have to talk to her and be friendly.You won't know if she "hates your guts" unless you ask her.It doesn't take any special skills or any money at all to do.
If she doesn't hate your guts,Then you can worry about how to entertain her.If she stays at school long enough:}
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Guest speaker (S.B.)'s Brilliant Answer: Whoa! You're name's Solemnstar? I bet she'd love you. From how I look at it, I'd totally be going out with a guy named Solemnstar. I mean, just look at it. It has "star" in it. And "Solemn" is pretty cool. But I think you should give her a bunch of flower you stole...uh... I mean... PICKED from some... random... garden. Or just go the the graveyard. They tend to have a whole bunch around them. I don't know why. I get all my flowers for my girlfriend there. Especially around holiday season
MY brilliant answer: First off, ignore S.B. Second, just BullShit talk to her. Improvise. Say that you like to listen to Rammstein, and say how you like the song "Ohne Dich" (Pronounced Ona dish). If that doesn't work, I'm sorry. Just start off by just being nice to her. Even if it SEEMS like she has a negative affect, just keep doing it, until she turns her heart towards you. I can't say how long of a process that is. Just.. you know... don't go stalking her around. Yea... toodles! I hope I helped.
~SAM
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WElL.. you said that you heard she hates your guts... you should find out if its tru or not.. nd` THen start up a convo with her n see what happens... hope i could help =]
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Hey, This might be a good way to get to know her, and also find out what she thinks of you. Next time you see her, try making a joke like " finally made it to school huh ((laugh))" Of course try to make that sound as funny and nice as you can. Then ask her in a very polite way "hey why are you always gone from school?" That might open up a door to conversation! And don't listen to what others say. Gossip is stupid, you never know the truth. The only way to find out whats going on is to try and say hi to her and get to know her, and have her get to know you. But don't be upset if she does hate you, becuase that means she is just stupid because she doesn't know anything about you. So hang in there , be cool and calm !!! And be yourself.. good luck!
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Answer: Reciprocate
re·cip·ro·cate
1. To give or take mutually; interchange.
2. To show, feel, or give in response or return.
In other words, give back that which she gives to. Human beings, strangely enough, are like animals when it comes to mating rituals. Some animals show their affection for their mate by copying movements and gestures. If one animal drinks from a river and then howls at the sun, the mate will mirror this afterwards. Strange? Not really. The purpose of this is to associate oneself to whatever makes their mate comfortable. Sometimes the gestures can be obvious. Other times, it is subtle. Women are no different. But, take care and err on the side of caution and go with subtle. It's the small gestures that are really important. If she blinks, you blink; if she smiles, you smile; if she leans back, you lean back. Get the picture? What you are subtly doing is associating yourself w/ gestures and movements that she herself feels comfortable doing. It then translates in her head that 'yeah, this guy's cool to hang out with.' Be warned, however, that considering she's also a 13-14yr old girl she might not respond due to the fact that 13-14yr old girls are shallow and generally have no concept of what true love is.
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well the first thing you need to find out if she actual does hate your guts..(you said that you heard it) And by doing that, you need to talk to her. It could be that she just doesn't trust a lot of people, and maybe its not just YOU personally. SO the best thing I could tellyou right now is to talk to her first, and see where that gets ya..then we can go from there..
First..like start out with "Hey Nicole, what up?" and if she answers....f off you moron, then I would leave her alone..but if she says like "hey" back, then ask some follow-up questions
Hope I helped!
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