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i have a really close guy friend we close but we cant be nothing but friends because on long distance and i hate long distance realtionships because the never work out. ok but n-e-ways sometimes we act like lovers and sometimes like friends but even when he had a gf we did the samething because he always liked me more then his gf even though he broke up with her for me but i still didnt go out with him and like now i dont know what to do i do love this guy and like he perfect for me and all but i am really confuessed?can you plz help i wil rate! thanks!
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i think you should try it it might work out if u love that much good luck
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Long distance relationships...
._. I'm the master at them. I finally quit after my last one ended up me getting cheated on really badly and my heart left broken and battered. Some of them do work though, considering my best friend dated this guy named Serge for like 3 years. When they finally got out of school he moved to her, and they got married. They are still doing great (from what she tells me..hehe). It all just depends on if you are really ready for them. You will have to give up everyone else, temtation and such for someone that cannot hold you or touch you or kiss away your tears when you need him to. But! If you do have one, and both of you are loyal...well. It might just work out in the end. But you have to ask yourself. Is it worth it? Hope to be some help, and good luck. ^_~
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Hey. You said that longdistance relationships never work out, but they actually can. You have to make sure you can trust this guy. He obvioussly likes you if he broke up with his gf for you! Give it a shot and if it doesnt work out then thats fine. There are other fish in the sea. Good Luck.
~Brina~
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Even though long distance relashionships are hard to maintain, you should still try to find out with him someway to make it work. He probably feels like you don't like him because you turned him down. Tell him that you really do like him, but you just thought a long distance relashionship wouldn't go far enough to work out. You guys together can work out a long distance relashionship if you guys share strong feeling for eachother. Couples go through many obstacle, and if you guys can work together to handle a long distance relashionship, then you guys are really meant to be. You said it yourself that you love him and that he is the perfect guy for you. Don't let him get away, because you will regret it. Put your doubts to the side, and look through the positive things that could come out of this. I hope everything works out for you and that I helped!
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wow...that sounds exactly like what happened to me last year. Me and my best guy friend are like brother and sister...i know exactly how you feel. I think if he broke up with his girlfriend for you hes def. worth considering, But since you didnt go out with him when you had the chance, maybe you dont love him as much as you think you do...maybe you just love him as a friend and think of him as a brother. I think since you guys are so close you should talk about this and ask him how he feels about you and what you think is the best choice. I winded up not liking my guy anymore but now we are closer than ever as friends. Hope i helped
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we'll he seems like he's a great guy and he rele does like yoo for breaking up with the other girl 4 yoo. I wish all guys were like that lol. Yoo should try to hang out more wen yoo can especially on a long distance relationship. If yoo guys don't feel so close then yoo should end your relationship and become friends. Usually lond distance doenst work out.
Hope we helped
elle and kristina
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What's to be confused about.You care for the guy.
The fact's you have about long term relationships are correct though.He won't be there for the important things going on in your life because he is to far away.You won't be there for his.That doesn't usually make for lasting relationships.People want to share their lives with those they care about.So, keep that in mind and decide what you can live with.It would depend on your ages and how far away he is.
Since that isn't known thats the best I have for you. Good luck with your decision:}
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I would try a long distance relationship. Even though (like you said) they don't normally work out, it sounds like you two might pull it off if you love eachother that much. You should at least give it a try.
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hey, I think ghead is right. You probably don't love him. Its like if you had a really good peice of cake. Its great for the first week or so, but after that you don't want cake, cause you've had to much. Now if you go with out that cake for a week or two when you finally get it you almost swallow it whole. Maybe you are not in love with this guy. Maybe you just like the idea of having someone to be in love with? But hey if you think that is total bullshit heres another piece of advice. It sounds like he only wants you to be his part time girl, that sucks. You should just stick to friends. Try telling yourself that you are worth haveing as a full time girlfriend. Right now he is thinking about how he is the man cause he's got you and whatever other hoe he wants. Thats no good, cut him down to size, tell him you are not a hoe and that you want a full time commitment or you'll turn and walk away from him.. You deserve better!
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You're not really in love with him. I'll tell you why. Ever hear the phrase "Distance makes the heart grow fonder"? Well, you're a textbook case. You just want to hit it, split it, hit in the back; Thing's so big you need a carjack. So why not just be FTF or FWB? If you don't know what they mean, ask another question.
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