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heres my problem. whenever i start to like a guy, i get really excited about it and tell ALL of my friends. then it usually turns out that the guy doesnt like me and ive been humiliated in fron of my friends. how can i keep my love life to myself?

Hey ! This has happened to me before. I know yoo get very sad that they dont like yoo. This is what I do. I would tell one of my friend. A friend that yoo rele trust. Maybe like a best friend or something. Then both of yoo try to find out if that guy likes yoo or not and if he does yoo can tell him that yoo like him too and maybe have a relastionship and then yoo can tell all of your friends that yoo like someone. Well Hope I Helped.
-:- Bianca -:-

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Ugh. My best friend kelly thinks she's a really good singer. The problem is... she sux! She's also going to be in the talent show and perform a song. When she does, she's gonna be sooo emmbarrased aftwerwards! Everyone's gonna make fum of her. I don't know what to do, or how to break it to her!! Should I just let her be TOTALLY embarrased? Help!! Please!!

Well if your friend is a rele bad singer talk to her. Maybe tell her that she is not a very good singer talk to her dont go up to her and say u sux! Well Hope I Helped
-:- Elle n Kristina -:-

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i have a really odd habit of looking at peoples mouths when they talk. i am fairly short (often eye level with the chins of my peers), and tend to read lips in a noisy environment or other instances where i have trouble understanding people. Friends have commented on this before and i would really like to stop. Do you have any tips as to how to break this habit? thanks!

I think it's awesome that yoo can read lips. I dont think its a BAD habit its just a habit. It's probably only because your not as tall as the other person. By the time yoo grow taller the habit will prbably stop.
Hope we helped
-:-Elle n Kristina-:-

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ok i have this pimple that is like smaller than a pin head. the only problem is that it is so full of like puss and junk that it is white. i have tan skin so it REALLY shows up. the other thing is that it is like right where the outside curve of my nostril meets my face. so it is sort of hidden in a crease but still really noticable. my mom wont bring me anywhere to go get anykind of nutregina or anything so i need a home remedy on how to get rid of this bugger. like putting some kind of food on it or something. i need help and i need it fast.

First of all DONT pop it, it can cause more pimples to go on your face. Try to put a steamy hot rag over your face for a while and wash your face everyday. Even if yoo dont have pimples yoo should still wash your fave regualry.
Hope we helped
-:-Elle n Kristina-:-

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i dont know everyone always says "your to abusive" because ill hit guys and stuff just messing around but i guess that is my way of flirting with them but it dosent work aparently what are some ways i could be nicer or just flirt in a more gentle way? thank you.

We'll first hitting guys isn't rele a good way to flirt lol. Yoo can talk to them and say nice things like comliment them like "wow i like your hair like that" or if they fall or get gurt yoo can say "are yoo okay" and they will feel very comforted
Hope we helped
-:Elle and Kristina-:-

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i would walk 3 miles every other day? 1/2 mile run on the days when i dont walk? how about that? or would running about 2 miles be better instead of walking fast? like for my legs..to be toned, a nice tight butt/legs kuz i have a big butt but it looks gross lol im not fat but lol idk!

and um also i heard from someone that you have to run a FOOTBALL FIELD to burn off ONE M&M?!??!?! IS THAT TRUE? please respond !!!!

Thats a good question to ask. Yoo should run and dont like count the miles time yourself. I run 20 min every other day and that keeps me in tone with my legs and i get slimmer. If your butt doesn't look right yoo should do situps that usually works lol.
Hope I helped
~Kristina~

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I have a big problem with my hair - I love the length of it, it comes down to the middle of my back, but it is very very thick. Not only is it very thick but it has a tendency to become frizzy after washing. My hair is naturally wavy, but when I brush through it the frizz gets worse.
Can anybody help me keep it under control?

I think that's a horrible problem for a girl to have. I suggest yoo dont cut it any shorty because it will become very big like an afro lol. Yoo should buy special defrizz shampoos and conditioners. Sometimes they even have sprays. Or if that doesnt work yoo can as a hair dresser.
Hope we helped
~Kristina~

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i have a really close guy friend we close but we cant be nothing but friends because on long distance and i hate long distance realtionships because the never work out. ok but n-e-ways sometimes we act like lovers and sometimes like friends but even when he had a gf we did the samething because he always liked me more then his gf even though he broke up with her for me but i still didnt go out with him and like now i dont know what to do i do love this guy and like he perfect for me and all but i am really confuessed?can you plz help i wil rate! thanks!

we'll he seems like he's a great guy and he rele does like yoo for breaking up with the other girl 4 yoo. I wish all guys were like that lol. Yoo should try to hang out more wen yoo can especially on a long distance relationship. If yoo guys don't feel so close then yoo should end your relationship and become friends. Usually lond distance doenst work out.
Hope we helped
elle and kristina

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Me and my brother are very close hes always there for me and I am always here for him..I am 15 and he is 20 and he just got this new girlfriend and we got along for a while but We ended up fighting and I beat her ass and my brother chose her over me...I told her i didnt want to fight her cause she is my girl but she pushed me and I poured my heart out to my brother asking him how can he choose her over me..Well he lives here and his gf is here everyday me nad her are cool now but I dont feel close to my brother like i did before I dont htink I ever can again. He always told me I was his world. and now this girl is comming between us. What should I do? I dont think i should just forgive him..he rreally hurt me I was in tears for hours the rest of the night and now he is acting like nothing even happend..Should I just say fuck him or forgive him? How can she come between me and my brother?!

I think that your brother is just to into girls and thats how guys are and you probably know that. He will eventually get over her and yoo guys will be like the old yoo two. If yoo dont think that's a good idea then talk to him tell him that he hurt yoo.
Hope we helped
-:-Elle and Kristina-:-

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Hey im 16 and for my birthday my dad and mom got me a Hummer H2 SUT...and it has a navigation thing in it and its not working correctly..what should i do?

Well the easiest way is to tell your parents. If yoo think they will get mad, yoo can take all of your birthday money that im guessing yoo got and get it fixed. Hope I helped
-:-Kristina-:-

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There's this guy I know, who I haven't really been friends with since I've known him. I don't NOT like him, but he went through a phase of punching me whenever he saw me, mocking my voice, and telling me to shut up a short while ago. However, he has stopped that and is being very nice to me.
A friend of mine has said that he thinks im hot, and quite a few people I know seem to think that this guy likes me.
I recently gave him my number and since then he has called me every day, sometimes more than once. I met him once and he was very friendly, but kept being very close to me.
I have no problem with this, having liked him for a short while now, but it has left me confused about his feelings for me.
Any clues? Its driving me mad...
14/f

Well, we would suggest getting to know him better and hanging out more. Call him than having him call yoo. Some fun things yoo can do is like go to the mall or the movies or just chill at some1's house. If yoo arn't comfortable not being alone with him RIGHT now and hang around with a group. Hope we helped
-:-Elle and Kristina-:-

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