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to overreactive!!!
heres my problem. whenever i start to like a guy, i get really excited about it and tell ALL of my friends. then it usually turns out that the guy doesnt like me and ive been humiliated in fron of my friends. how can i keep my love life to myself?
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get a diary or something... a way to tell someone/something without telling someone u could be imbarrised in front of
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Hey ! This has happened to me before. I know yoo get very sad that they dont like yoo. This is what I do. I would tell one of my friend. A friend that yoo rele trust. Maybe like a best friend or something. Then both of yoo try to find out if that guy likes yoo or not and if he does yoo can tell him that yoo like him too and maybe have a relastionship and then yoo can tell all of your friends that yoo like someone. Well Hope I Helped.
-:- Bianca -:-
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Journal, notebook diary,<< basically same thing but thats one way of keeping all your feelings confidential! i hope this helps xoxo BLONDE911
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write about it in a journal or in a notebook that noone will read.
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the best way is to keep a diary or a journal. but keep it hidden
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You'r frends are you're problem. Yo need to make new ones. That's right! MAKE!! Try carving them out of pineapples. Pineapples dont like humilation. And they're pretty easy going cos they dont get mad when you bite them.
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wait until you actually have a date set up.Then, when you do....Go nuts!:)
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That is easy, stop telling all of your friends. The only person putting your love life out to everyone is you. When you stop talking to everybody about who you have a crush on, then you won't be embarrassed when that guy doesn't have the same feelings for you.
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I know what you mean, let your friends know that you're interested, but not by blabbling all over the place. Just ask him what they think of the guy, and they should get the point. That way, if it doesn't work out, they probably won't think that you really really liked him, you were just a little interested.
Make sure that he's not the only thing you talk about either, because that just gets annoying.
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I have two people that I can confide in and don't feel embarrassed with.. but before I did, instead of telling my blabbermouth friends I used to write in a journal. It's much better, it's like talking to someone, as lame as that sounds, but you don't have to share it with the world. Good luck! ♥ and I hope I've helped!
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maybe if you dont think about him a lot, you wont bring him up. or dont talk about things that would make you bringhim up. Instead right your feelings in a notebook or something. this happenes to me all the time. Stinks huh. Hope i helped!
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Hey, start writing down your feelings for the guys you like instead of blurting them out to your friends. Only tell the friends that you know will keep a secret. Good Luck.
~Brina~
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