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how do i make him stop?
okay, so there is this guy that won't leave me alone. i mean i wanna be friends with him, but he wants to be my girlfriend. I am really starting to hate him. i was talking to him in aim and he kept saying things like "i love you," or "okay, see ya girlfriend". i kept telling him to stop, but he WON'T! arrggggggggggggggg!
please help me b4 i kill him!
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just say "look i just wanna friends" or something that way...just dont start backin out...just up front about it and get it done and over with...because if you keep it from him he'll start to think that he really does have a chance with him...if ya need nething else u can im me on aim @ HeartxBreakerx92 (im not really a heartbreaker)
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He's going to keep it up until you stop reacting that way. Either make a joke of it yourself, or ignore it. Talk to him about how much you like some other guy. Tell him he's just like "one of the girls." He'll love that :D
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Well don't kill him. That would just create a whole new set of problems.Besides you'd be trapped in a small cage and he'd be staring at you through the bars.
This guy sounds just plain weird.Maybe you should threaten him with bodily harm. If that doesn't work then tell a teacher or threaten a sexual harrassment suit.Maybe some big guy friends could give him a talking to.
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anonymous -
Kick him in the balls and say, "Hey, this is what a girlfriend does, right?"
But if you still want to be friends with him, I'm not sure how well that option would work!
Just tell him straight up you don't like him like that. If need be, be mean and rude about it. Sometimes that's the only way to get to people. If that doesn't work, try Plan A above...:)
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Stop talking to him until he can respect your wishes. Tell him that you like him as just a friend, and nothing more, and that it irritates you whn he calls you girlfriend or says that he loves you. Let him know that until he can respect your wishes then you don't want to talk to him period. If he continues to say that on AIM, then block him from you AIM list until he realizes that you aren't playing with him. He should get the picture soon.
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get a boyfriend :p
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Just tell him that you're not interested in him as a boyfriend, and he should get the point. If he doesn't, avoid him for a bit and he should get the message.
If by this point he doesn't get it, let someone else know. By someone else I mean someone older, a parental figure or whatnot.
Good luck.
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Tell him "Look, I know you like me and I don't know how many times I have to tell you this without completely hurting you- I'm flattered that you find me attractive, but I'm not attracted to you like that." If it doesn't work [it should] block him LOL! ♥ Good luck!
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omg your like totally living my life! haha well not exactly, but you know wat i mean. same here, but not as much as this guy seems to be obbsessed with you! guy who likes me, its like he...i duno kinda like you, but he pretends in a jokey flirty way, but hes too much of my friend to be a bf. ok sooo heres my advice--1.tell him hes way too much a good friend (even if hes not)to be a bf. 2.rite him a note, a very descriptive note of how u feel, but no mush! 3.tell him to please stop and that hes making you feel uncomferable around him and the more he annoys you, the more you want to stay away. hope i helped! -mandi-
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Okay, if hes like that..then dont even be friends. Seriously. I mean thats nice, to be friends with him, but hes not getting the clue. So ignore him all together, block him on aim, and ignore him at school. good luck !
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