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heyy yall my name's mandi, im a teenager-to tell you the truth (which is mostly while i started this, cuz im good at tellin the truth) im not that popular. im just a regular girl dealing with the same stuff u do-but that doesnt mean i cood answer the stuff you handle and i dont. i have so many friends that go through many problems :-( more than half my friends have divorced parents, so i cood help yall out with things in that topic too! well i dont have much to say, exsept that if the only way i can help the world right now is given people advice, then ill do my part and help out everyone one advice question at a time! ;-) -mandi-

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Ok there is this girl that i have been best friends with for about two years. we arn't as close anymore because of fights. but ever since i met her i like, loved her. i cant get her out of my head. although im young (13) i know this isn't immature love. everyone seems to think im crazy because no matter how many times she breaks me, i still love her. i have been with her before, but... im not over it. i miss her so much. but the thing is, now, whenever im somewhere and she comes along. i wish she never came and just went home. but yet, i still feel the same way about her. and im not sure what i want completly. at the time, the thing is that i dont know how to get her out of my head. im starting to really lose consentration. im doing worse in school and im always sad. if anyone can please help me. i know its hard since i cant really ask a direct question... but try. i really miss her..

hey! i hope i can help you out! i know this may sound horrible at first, but try to get her out of ur head and maybe even see some new people. i know you might still feel the same about her, but the more you think about her, the more numb ull become. like you'll start to look desperate and if you do get over her one day, some girls might still think of you as desperate. i dont think you are, im just saying maybe try to get her out of your head. you cood also become so busy with things, you woodnt have time to think about her, but that might make you stressed. if all this doesnt work out, maybe just try to make you twos "best friend" relationship stronger, so that she doesnt think you're desperate, but instead a great best friend! soon ull start to think of her as one too! sry if i coodnt help! hope it does though!

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okay, so there is this guy that won't leave me alone. i mean i wanna be friends with him, but he wants to be my girlfriend. I am really starting to hate him. i was talking to him in aim and he kept saying things like "i love you," or "okay, see ya girlfriend". i kept telling him to stop, but he WON'T! arrggggggggggggggg!
please help me b4 i kill him!

omg your like totally living my life! haha well not exactly, but you know wat i mean. same here, but not as much as this guy seems to be obbsessed with you! guy who likes me, its like he...i duno kinda like you, but he pretends in a jokey flirty way, but hes too much of my friend to be a bf. ok sooo heres my advice--1.tell him hes way too much a good friend (even if hes not)to be a bf. 2.rite him a note, a very descriptive note of how u feel, but no mush! 3.tell him to please stop and that hes making you feel uncomferable around him and the more he annoys you, the more you want to stay away. hope i helped! -mandi-

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how should i get my hair dyed .. my hair is blond now with some brown but i think i want it like chucky brown and blonde ... HELP ME OUT!

first of all, decide if you want a total, full out coloring or a temporary one you can buy at a local drugstore, like randalls or sumthin...then decide your color. if your pale, dont get something too dark, and if your tan, dont get something too light! talk to your friends and family and if you have a bf, ask him too, but mostly follow your heart.

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If god knows that we are gonna do something bad, like look up porn, why doesnt he try and stop us. I dont really understand it but, i am a porn addict and its getting harder and harder for me to stop. why would god let me do it if he knows its wrong?

hi this is mandi and i hope i can help. i dont know wat ur going through or how bad your adiction is, but i do know the bible says that God never lets you be tempted with something you cant handle. just remember to pray about it and if you cant stop, see a theripist. i know it sounds crazy, but porn is really bad and is a sin. also, if God tried stopping you at looking at porn, dont you think he wood have stopped someone from killing someone else. God gave us choice, and we have to choose right over wrong. hope i helped! :-)

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hey i'm 13 and i'm a Christian! i would really like to know more bible verses for i'm going through so much (parents are like yea...and my friends are failing me...and i have like 2 major issues of being easily angered and jealous, i'm praying about it too) so if you know any bible verses that might help me with the above or just any good ones tell me!! thanks soooo much *i rate*

hey! i hope this helps- i usually open up the bible and read what God has planned for me to open up to, but i know its not as easy as that. you can go to www.quotedoctor.com/bible_verses.htm -i cant say much, because this wont get to you if i rite to much, so i hoped i helped! if you got anymore problems, look me up and ill be sure to rite bak! (sides, im 13 too, so i can understand wat ur goin through) :-)

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Hey! I'm a girl and 16, and I really like this guy, David. I used to be 95% possitive that he liked me too, but I think somethings changed. I'm thinking that he MIGHT like this other girl, but she has a boyfriend already. Lately, he's been acting like he doesnt care about me, at all! Like, he doesnt talk to me, unless I talk to him. I left him a voice mail message twice (two days in a row) saying what the plans were for the night, and he didnt even BOTHER to call back and say he couldnt come, or give me the time of day. It's really starting to aggrivate me. I want to ask him what is up, and why he's pretty much ignoring me, but its hard! The last time we were alone. things were really nice, and now hes just being a JERK! In school, I go out of my way, and go to his locker and walk with him in the hallways, but hes NEVER at my locker. EVER! He doesnt show any intrest, at all. And I want to know what is up! What should I do?

give him a call or get in his face and just truly ask him-why are you being like this? make him know your serious and if he keeps being like this, ull just let him go. no use loving a guy who acts like you dont exsist. i know it might hurt if he rejects u, but know that you didnt waste lots of ur time chasing after him-wondering...and also they're are many more fish in the sea, so open up! they're probably many guys that would be just as cute and nice as him, but would care about you alot more! :-)

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