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this boy's driving me crazy!
Hey! I'm a girl and 16, and I really like this guy, David. I used to be 95% possitive that he liked me too, but I think somethings changed. I'm thinking that he MIGHT like this other girl, but she has a boyfriend already. Lately, he's been acting like he doesnt care about me, at all! Like, he doesnt talk to me, unless I talk to him. I left him a voice mail message twice (two days in a row) saying what the plans were for the night, and he didnt even BOTHER to call back and say he couldnt come, or give me the time of day. It's really starting to aggrivate me. I want to ask him what is up, and why he's pretty much ignoring me, but its hard! The last time we were alone. things were really nice, and now hes just being a JERK! In school, I go out of my way, and go to his locker and walk with him in the hallways, but hes NEVER at my locker. EVER! He doesnt show any intrest, at all. And I want to know what is up! What should I do?
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maby he is just playing hard to get. and with the other girl... it is possible to like 2 people at once. maby thats the case.
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What an asshole. He doesn't even deserve to be your friend. You should just completely do the same thing back to him. You don't have to treat him nicely because he's obviously treating you like a piece of shit.
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The only way to know is to ask.Hard as that may be!
He could be distracted by the fact that he likes that girl with the boyfriend.He could be upset about it and it might make him act the way he's acting.
If you want a chance you'll just have to jump in with both feet and catch him before another does.
Good luck!:}
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The best thing for you to do is talk to him. I know you may think it's hard, but that's one of the things about liking someone, facing life for what it is. Gte him to listen. If he doesn't have any interest in you, then forget about him. It will be hard, I've been through it, but you have to. Don't go out of your way to talk to him and spend more time with him, if he's not doing anything to work it out with you. You should feel like you have to chase because you don't. He's just going to keep on running, and sooner or later you'll get tried and give up. And you know what they say, sooner is better than later. I'm sure that there will be another guy along the way who is better than him, and who can talk to you and spend time with you like a boyfriend should do. I hope that things go well for you and that I helped! If you have any more questions, send me a message in my inbox.
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give him a call or get in his face and just truly ask him-why are you being like this? make him know your serious and if he keeps being like this, ull just let him go. no use loving a guy who acts like you dont exsist. i know it might hurt if he rejects u, but know that you didnt waste lots of ur time chasing after him-wondering...and also they're are many more fish in the sea, so open up! they're probably many guys that would be just as cute and nice as him, but would care about you alot more! :-)
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I know its hard but you just need to ask him or you'll never know! Just go up to him and be like "Your a really cool person, and I like talking to you and hanging out and stuff but latley you've seemed kinda distant and I wanted to know whats up" If thats a little too nice, just tell him hes a jerk and ask him whats up with that. You'll get up the courage to do it somehow..dont you want to know? Because really, there will be no other way. Unless you ask a friend to tell him, but I think it would be better coming from you. sorry if I didnt help much !
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