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What do i do?
Ok there is this girl that i have been best friends with for about two years. we arn't as close anymore because of fights. but ever since i met her i like, loved her. i cant get her out of my head. although im young (13) i know this isn't immature love. everyone seems to think im crazy because no matter how many times she breaks me, i still love her. i have been with her before, but... im not over it. i miss her so much. but the thing is, now, whenever im somewhere and she comes along. i wish she never came and just went home. but yet, i still feel the same way about her. and im not sure what i want completly. at the time, the thing is that i dont know how to get her out of my head. im starting to really lose consentration. im doing worse in school and im always sad. if anyone can please help me. i know its hard since i cant really ask a direct question... but try. i really miss her..
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You probably just love her has a really true best friend. Dont ask her out again because she might think your desperate for her. If you sometimes wish she wasnt there then it may not be true love. Just go with the flow and talk to her and just be her best friend! Its the next best thing to boyfriend.
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Ok the best way to show your feelings is to right them down I find that it helps when you write a poem about how you feel it makes you feel so much better getting it out in the open
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Ah, yes, 'puppy love'. Despite the fact that you say you love her and claim it's not immature love, where is your proof? Your feelings of love aren't false - however the love itself is. If she is 'breaking you' yet you keep coming back for more, that's not love, that's someone who likes to get punished. Love, as stated in another answer for another question is about sacrifce, commitment, and endurance. Love means sometimes sacrificing your happiness for your love's benefit. It means commiting your all to do whatever it takes to make your love's happiness come true. It means having the endurance during times of pain and suffering (sometimes after the death of a loved one) and to go on with life. Due to your age, I wouldn't doubt that this girl is one of the first girls you've fallen in love with. If you're smart then it won't be your last. I'm not telling your to go around loving every girl you meet. Instead, I'm telling you that there will be other girls to fall in love with. The one you love who loves you back is the only person that can make you happy. If this girl doesn't love you it's a one way love and that is not love, it's called stalking.
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Hey.. I think the only way to stop this is to talk to her. It may be tough adn if you cant do it in person.. try iming her or sending her an email. You sound like you really love her and the only way that she'll find out about that is if you talk to her. Good Luck and hopefully she'll realize that she loves you too! If you guys do get back together.. whenever you fight.. just try talking about it cuz it helps me. If you dont.. dont woryr about it you really have to just try and be happy and see other people. You cant let one girl get you taht upset! Hope i helped.. <3/blinkgurl813
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hey! i hope i can help you out! i know this may sound horrible at first, but try to get her out of ur head and maybe even see some new people. i know you might still feel the same about her, but the more you think about her, the more numb ull become. like you'll start to look desperate and if you do get over her one day, some girls might still think of you as desperate. i dont think you are, im just saying maybe try to get her out of your head. you cood also become so busy with things, you woodnt have time to think about her, but that might make you stressed. if all this doesnt work out, maybe just try to make you twos "best friend" relationship stronger, so that she doesnt think you're desperate, but instead a great best friend! soon ull start to think of her as one too! sry if i coodnt help! hope it does though!
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hey wut i think you should do is talk to her and tell her that you like and and you never know after that she may start to like you or even better she might already like you. But i don't really exactly get it how you said that when she comes along you wish she didn't. maybe it's because you don't want to get heart broken because you think that she doesn't like you but you don't know that until you ask her or tell her how you feel. I wish you the best! JUST REALLY TALK TO HER ABOUT IT!
luv,
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