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How can SHE come between me and my brother?!?!?!?!
Me and my brother are very close hes always there for me and I am always here for him..I am 15 and he is 20 and he just got this new girlfriend and we got along for a while but We ended up fighting and I beat her ass and my brother chose her over me...I told her i didnt want to fight her cause she is my girl but she pushed me and I poured my heart out to my brother asking him how can he choose her over me..Well he lives here and his gf is here everyday me nad her are cool now but I dont feel close to my brother like i did before I dont htink I ever can again. He always told me I was his world. and now this girl is comming between us. What should I do? I dont think i should just forgive him..he rreally hurt me I was in tears for hours the rest of the night and now he is acting like nothing even happend..Should I just say fuck him or forgive him? How can she come between me and my brother?!
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Don't let his new girlfriend come between you and your brother. You have to know that she may be special to him, but he loves you more than her times 1000. He even told you that you were his world, which really means a lot. Yeah, you should be upset with him because he chose her over you, but don't let that affect your bond. Many siblings would die just to have the connection that you and your brother have. Don't throw it all away just because a new girl came into his life. Talk to him alone without his girlfriend there in the conversation. Tell him that it hurt you. Tell him that you don't want her to come between you guys why they are still dating, and tell him that you still want to have the same connection that you guys had before he had his new girlfriend. I know things won't be the same now that he will be sharing time with both of you, but all 3 of you could go out to where you guys like to hang out and have fun. Who knows, she might be into what you and your brother are into. Remember, try to regain that connection with him that is lost, and talk to him explaining how you felt towards his actions, and why he did what he did. I hope I helped!
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He may be your brother, but you can't possess him forever. Girlfriends come and go but the lesson here is that you need to let him live his own life. He's 20--he should be moved out by now, or soon, and you shouldn't be clinging onto him. Don't you have your own friends or lovers?
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I think that your brother is just to into girls and thats how guys are and you probably know that. He will eventually get over her and yoo guys will be like the old yoo two. If yoo dont think that's a good idea then talk to him tell him that he hurt yoo.
Hope we helped
-:-Elle and Kristina-:-
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Well you did say that you didn't want to fight her, but it looks like you let your pride get the best of you. You put him in a very difficult position. I hope that one day he will see that family should come before anything else. But right now you have to remember that he is hurt that you fought with her, and he probably just trying to forget about what happened. I think that you should forgive him but also let him forgive you <3
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Well, you didn't show respect to him. If you want respect, you must give it out first. Doesn't matter if his gf is a biatch or not. If you want his respect you must respect that he wants to spend time with his gf. Plus you're his sister. A gf is something a sister can never be (unless you lived in the Southern US). Jealousy is an evil and shallow emotion. It causes undue stress and drama. Trust in your brother and trust that he cares for his family, including his lil sister. Trust also in the fact that girlfriends will come and go but family is till you die.
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Because you are allowing her to.By fighting with her and "beating her ass", you force him to choose.You showed him no respect.Sorry, ya asked.
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