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so me and my now ex boyfriend broke up august of 2010. he broke up with me and it really broke my heart. we didnt talk for weeks and i did was cry. we are now talking again and i still love him sooo much. he is the only guy to have met my 1 year old daughter and he adores her. i really want to be with him again but he says he wants to wait because we live too far apart. but it never bothered him before when we were going out. we live about and hour and a half car drive away. i dont talk to any other guys and he doesnt talk to any other girls but we are not together like i want. its tearing me apart knowing he isnt mine because he has my heart. what should i do? wait for something that might not happen or try to move on?
Unless you two have serious living commitments, I would focus on trying to move on with your life. An on and off relationship is not healthy for you or your daughter and as a mother you set an example and you don't want your daughter around someone who isn't going to be in the picture. The truth, Long distant relationships are extremely stressful and hard to maintain. I was in one for several years and the drive was also an 1 1/2. You don't want people to come and go in your life and now that you have a daughter it wouldn't be fair for her to get attached to someone and then have them disappear out of her life as well. If the guy doesn't think it would be a good idea to be together because of the distance..I hate to tell you that he is probably right. I know it is a painful process but you need to do what is right for you and your daughter. If you hold yourself back you miss out on possibilities.
Okay so my older sister gave me her old drivers license. I'm 17 and she's 22. We look very similar. Could I get in trouble if I tried to use it? I mean obviously if I bought alcohol with it I could get in trouble, but could I be in trouble for even trying? I'm wanting to use it to get a tattoo. If they thought it wasn't my real identity, would they have to call the cops?
Do not use your sisters ID..If you got caught you could get into serious trouble as well as your sister.
If you go through with it, You are taking a HUGE risk.
Yes, You can get in trouble. If you get caught, Anywhere you could be charged for numerous things and one of them being identity theft. Tattoo parlors often ask for signatures as well, If you false your sisters name you could be charged with forgery and sued. If you use your sisters driving licence not only will you get caught for sure if you got pulled over but you risk getting your drivers licence suspended or they could very well push your rights to receive a drivers licence to a later age and it could be on your driving record. Yes, If you got caught the cops would be involved and you could be taken to court. You are 17, Wait another few months until you reach 18 and you will legally have the right to get a tattoo. Don't be stupid because that is one hell of a mistake to make. Give your sister back the ID and say No.
Possible Charges if you get caught and likely you will if you do it..
1. Forgery, Identity Theft, Possible Jail time. It will not look good on a record at all.
I want to get a bigger butt, and I keep seeing getabiggerbutt.com, but it sounds too good to be true?
Is getabigger but a scam ripoff?
Thank you!
Sure sounds like it, Think about the title "Get a bigger butt" (lol)
The best way to boost up your butt is to exercise. Running, Leg lifts anything that focuses on tightening the muscles. Websites that advertise pills and things usually are in it for the money.
hi i'm the girl who's question you answered about asking if you thought my boyfriend cheated AND about asking if i should confront a girl to make her stop calling him, so im guessing you know now the story, he confessed just yesterday that he hooked up with her and they kissed and he stopped talking to you because he says he realised he really didn't wanted her and wanted me back or thats what he says .. )
i really appreciated your advice and id like to ask you something i know we were supposed to be broken up but does it still makes it ok when he says like we were broken up but i even checked the dates and eventho we were broken up he was saying stuff like he really wanted me and stuff and thats how i cant understand why would he say that when he was already moving on...he says that at least going out with her made him realise he really wanted me and only me and couldn't move on as easy as that, which to be honest i don't really believe it maybe he's just good with words or something the thing is..after i found out about this (yesterday) he hasnt shown really regreat other than saying im sorry i wish i havent done it , and only because he was in a position where sorry wouldve been the right thing to say , like i dont see him acting like i wouldve acted which wouldve be to try to get that person back and to get her to forgive me , like he has just been really calm about it , he said he stopped speaking to her because of me, but still makes me think like wouldnt the right thing wouldve be to tell this girl the real reason why he stopped contacting her? i mean i know i would've done it because the girl can't stop calling and texting eventho this happened over a month already, so i really don't know what to think, like i said we were broken up , but still he was saying he wanted to get back and things like this so that's why i don't understand cause i keep thinking , oh so he "wanted me " that much that just as soon as a hot girl came in the picture he forgets about it? i guess its also that i feel like he didn't think of me while doing this obviously and i picture it very wrong cause i see it like there he was on the same day he was probably out with her asking if i've got someone else ,if i've been dating during that time , but not in a nice way..his messages were like "i know you're probably seeing someone else , etc " tell me the truth have you got with anyone!!? while he was the one actually hooking up with someone, and then telling me he loves me and stuff when he's been out with her, that's why im very confused another thing, he hasn't really tried to talk to me he just send a text like well also knew during that time you were intested on other people or other guys probably also she's transparend and you're not i think we shouldn't speak anymore we are so not meant to be (like that doesnt sound like an apology to me ..) things were very good lately i swear they havent been this good in a while, until i found out about this, he had big trust issues eventho i never cheated on him or spoke to guys that liked me he thinks that i'm probably interested in other people and he constantly accuses me of cheating when he's the one with the cheating history on his ex's and i have been nothing but honest with him and he was the one lying saying he had to work until late when he was actually meeting this girl and stuff, he always was very controlling wanting to know where im at 24/7 and he never said much about himself, im just confused as to why someone who acts like that and is so affraid of me cheating on him and honestly thinks i've done something wrong,,why would still he say that he loves me , why would he accusse me of stuff he was the one doing... thanks alot for taking the time and reading it im sorry its too long i just feel very confused right now
Hello and thank you for the question
A few things that confuse me in what you explained above..
Your boyfriend states that he missed you while you were broken up, However his way of grieving over it is hooking up with other girls. Everyone has their ways of getting over a situation but as hurtful as it sounds it seems like your boyfriend just told you what you wanted to hear. Basically, He can't make up his mind on what he wants. Is he good with his words? Not necessarily but he sounds confused as hell
Did your boyfriend directly tell the girl to stop calling, texting?...Was he stern about it? Did he tell her he has a girlfriend? Right now you should be his priority as you two are currently in a relationship. Lets bare a few things in mind... Trust is a very big thing in relationships and so is communication if you are feeling a little insecure about a few things you need to talk it out with your boyfriend, Discuss the relationship if you think it would help and benefit the both of you come up with boundaries. Try and think of ways you two could become closer, Enjoy one another. My spouse and I discuss everything, We talk about randomness on a daily basis and in the long run sometimes the smallest things just make us closer. My spouse is my best friend, That is how it should be. Your boyfriends commitment should be on you, If the girl is bothering you tell him and let him know. If you can't trust him, Then the relationship is not going to work. If he can't be trustworthy and honest about things again, It's not going to work. Loyalty is a big thing and communication gets far. If you can't work it out, Then it would be best to move on.
hi, i have a bf who while we were broken up met this girl, he first lied about how he met her (i saw her on her contacts and he said she was an old friend ) then weeks later when we were kinda getting back together he told me the truth (supposely) he said that he met her at a train station when he had no money for the ticket and she offered nicely to pay so they chatter a little she "found him" on facebook and added him there, on blackberry messenger and on skype (which is rare cause he doesnt have any of this information on his profile so theres no possible way that she would do this without him giving the number and usernames since on facebook he doesnt even has a picture of himself and he has a very common name ) so i was thinking maybe HE added her and they exchanged numbers which is more liley what happened since tbh he is not a skype user either other than talking to me thats all he uses it for so its strange someone added him on there ...anyway ..he said he has stopped talking to her (apparently deleted her from facebook which i have no way to prove cause he has his friends hidden and IM NOT even one his friends there anymore )i deleted him from facebook cause he was extremly jealous i figured that would be better so i cannot add him back and if i did i wouldnt see much cause no one can post on his wall he only gets messages by inbox and his friend list is hidden..
he said he had deleted her off blackberry messenger and skype, BUT the girl keeps sending messages like
"i hope you're ok i dont know why you stopped contacting me i dont know why that day really affected me " (which im wondering ,,,did they go out ?? did they slept together/kissed or whatever more than just chatting at the train station?) he said nothing more happened than they speaking on facebook for like 2 days after meeting then when she started saying she liked his smile etc and flirting he stopped contacting her
shes been callling him NONSTOP and texting him, messages on facebook and everywhere else he wont take her calls or reply to his messages but shes still sending messages like
one day he shared his skype screen and a message from her came up saying "i hope you had fun today :)" (not even a hello or whatever...he said it was kinda like "i hope you have a good day " but to me sounded like as if they were out together and shes saying like i hope you had fun after them hanging out ) he denies it but its all very suspiscious like
"i hope you're ok etc etc i dont understand why u stopped talking to me "
1- why would a girl keep messaging a guy who she only spoke for like 3 days
2-why would she be insisting so much after he hasnt taken her calls? (seriously why cant she think like maybe he doesnt wanna talk to me or whatever)
ANYWAY im so tired of it and i cannot move on cause i wanna be with him but i dont feel safe having her trying to contact him so desperatley, i know he thought she was hot etc so i dont want him getting tempted so ive added her and im thinking about asking her NICELY to stop emssaging him but i want it to look in a way so she wont message him saying like your gf contacted me etc or something, asking him to tell her to stop trying to comunicate isnt an option he says just to drop the issue and move on and i cant so WHAT DO YOU THINK OF THIS? i was planning on telling her something like (not to offend her of course cause this is as much his fault not only hers she might not even know he has a gf )
hello im sorry that ive added you i really havent ever done this and i dont wanna come out rude or anything, but i'd like you to be honest with me about something..
can you tell me what really happened between you and (bf's name without saying my boyfriend )? because i can't understand why you would be insisting so much in contacting him..
if she doesn't wanna tell me then i don't know what would i do
then just say something like : i really don't wanna be rude or anything cause more likely you didn't knew he had something going on so im gonna just ask you in the nicest way as possible if you could stop trying to contact him?
(then hopefully she won't answer agressively or deffensive ...) I KNOW you probably will say just trust him but tthis is not as easy as that since i wont rest my mind until i really know what happened and i REALLY DIDNT wanted to ask her to stop messaging him but shes been calling almost every day for like a month and texting and he hasnt taken her calls
just please tell me your opinion and im sorry this is way too long
Don't message her, This is your boyfriend it is him that she is trying to contact. Let your boyfriend handle it. If your boyfriend is truly trying to "avoid" this girl then he needs to take the next step and be firm with her.
Another thing, Everything you said here I'm taking a wild guess that you don't fully trust your boyfriend? To tell you the truth, It does sound like your boyfriend gave her a bit of information to contact him. How else did she get his number?...I find it kind of creepy that she would just "Find him" on his facebook? Sounds like they chatted up one hell of a conversation. For you to message her is only going to make matters worse even if you approach it the nice way. Wouldn't your facebook status be in a relationship...? Sounds like she is looking for a problem, You contacting her is only going to provoke it and give her what she wants. Let alone, If she doesn't tell you what you want to hear in the end it is going to cause conflict between you and your boyfriend. Facebook has privacy options and those privacy options come with a block list. Your boyfriend needs to block her and leave her on the block list, Either that or change the privacy settings. If your boyfriend is not willing to reason with you then you've got your answer move on. Your boyfriend sounds like a full blown liar anyway
im 21 years old...and heres my story , sorry if its short but i really need advice ,ok so i have a boyfriend who ive been in an on and off relationship for the past months, there was one time where we broke up for good like the other times we used to say we were broken up but kept comunicating and eventually got back...we were back now for good and things where better than ever, but i noticed there was a girl who has been trying to contact him like calling nonstop and texting alooot and he never replies to her messages he didnt wanted to tell me the complete story and kept giving excuses, today he had finally told me the truth, he told me during that time we were really broken up which was like 2 weeks... which is the only time i really felt we weren't gonna get back together, he told me he hooked up with this girl and they kissed , and thats why she's been trying to contact him cause she never felt like that with anyone or whatever, i dont blame her cause she didnt knew i existed , my point is..should i still be upset about this? it did hurted ALOT cause even during that time i was thinking we were gonna get back together and we kept speaking during that time but not like suggesting getting back just casual speaking, so i really dont know what to do now, please i need an advice i really gave my heart to him and eventho he tries to justify it by saying we were broken up, i still feel he cheated , cause we talked about this girl and he said nothing happened, and he told me he hasnt hooked up with anyone ever since we started dating which was february,
I would think long and hard to whether the relationship is worth being in for several reasons
You've been on and off for several months, Here you two have been rocky to begin with.
You're boyfriend said he kissed a girl while you two technically took a break from one another for 2 weeks. Guess what, Kissing her is all you know do you know for sure that it wasn't anything more than that? I would assume so by the desperate attempts of trying to get a hold of him but again lets not jump the gun just yet
Has your boyfriend told her to stop texting him?...If not then I would wonder why he hasn't after all he is in a relationship with YOU. The truth, You may never get the truth out of your boyfriend only your instincts can tell you what the truth may be. I would suspect your boyfriend isn't exactly telling you the entire story. Think about the relationship, Is an on and off what you really want?
I cheated on my boyfriend in the summer twice with my ex. Because he made me feel so insecure about our relationship. He never gave me a lot of attention, he never called me. He didn't text me very fast. My ex gave me a lot of attention and made me feel loved. And my boyfriend never gets jealous about other guys except my ex because we went out for 2 years. Also I get really jealous if my boyfriend talks to other girls or hangs out with them. My ex kept coming back to me even when I was going out with him. I keep cheating on my boyfriend with him though. Now I stopped. I feel guilty about it because I think my boyfriend has never cheated on me. I just don't trust him. Because he talks to a lot of girls and never gives me a lot of attention. All he does is buy me gifts and its always jewlery. But i feel guilty that I cheated. My best friend told me he deserved it. My boyfriend still doesnt know i cheated on him. On our anniversary last month my ex texted me. And my boyfriend responded to his text. And my ex's answer was "were more than just friends" and he got so mad. And his mom asked me if I was being unfaithful and I said no and lied. What should i do? Ive never cheated on a guy EVER. I've been cheated on before. Guys have left me for other people. How can I deal with this relationship? I need help from someone :(
First, Your friend is not a friend. Anyone who thinks someone "deserves" to be treated poorly in a relationship is wrong.
Second, You've made it pretty clear above that your current boyfriend doesn't make you happy which makes me want to ask why are you still with him? Someone who ignores their partner obviously isn't A. Interested or B. Doesn't care enough to put in effort to make it work. The right thing to do would of been to break off the relationship.
You need to decide for yourself whether the stress of your boyfriend not paying attention to you nor committing the effort to work things out with you is worth it. Reason with yourself, What is the reason of your ex being an ex?...Do you feel you two could over come the past and begin a new future? If not, Well then maybe you should try option 3 and find someone else that is available to you and will commit because your boyfriend on the other hand obviously isn't that person. Sometimes it's hard to except the truth, Sometimes the truth hurts, but in the end the truth is what makes us stronger.
I really need advice on what to do about this situation. My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year..new years is one year. We are both 21, and go to the same college, and when we're at school we pretty much live together. However, for break we are like 4 hours apart. I thought I trusted him completely..until recently. I got on my computer and got on facebook, and because he uses my computer sometimes it was automatically signed into his name. I didn't realize this until I clickd on the messages and saw messages from a few girls. The one that really caught my eye was one asking a girl to come over at 3am. He said soemthing along the lines of being able to keep her up even though she was tired. So i don't know what happened after that...my problem is that I don't want to tell my boyfriend I was on his facebook because he will think I was snooping on him. But i would like to confront him about it because I want to know what is up with this. I just don't know what to do!! we just had our christmas together and it was great..he wrote me a really nice card that was very loving, and he spent quite a bit of money on my presents...I just don't understand!
Your boyfriend asking a girl to come to his place at 3am clearly shows he is not as trustworthy as you hoped. Nobody ask someone to show up late in the morning unless they have intentions. You've caught him red handed, You need to sit down and talk with your boyfriend bring up that you were attempting to log into facebook and he had forgotten to log out. Your boyfriend is going to assume, Lie, Beat around the bush all together. Your boyfriend is already in hot water. If he can't be faithful then obviously he doesn't deserve you. People who are caught cheating normally do not like to admit to it. Once a cheater, Always a cheater and if you talk it out and forgive him it's only saying "Hey Honey, It's okay...I forgive you" Don't be fooled because if given another chance and he cheats again.The difference is he will be extra careful NOT to get caught.
So my boyfriend and I have sex a couple of weeks ago. He put it in two or three times with out a condom and then I made him stop and put a condom on and then we had sex again. So my question is could I get pregnant from pre cum?
Yes, It is possible to become pregnant from pre cum. All it takes is one time and one accident
Can giving a handjob give any STD's/infections of any sort? For instance, if the male's genitals are infected, can the female contract it simply by touching?
Yes, It is possible
My husband and I are from another country.We have a 2 year old daughter.He is very good to her.When she was 4 months old ,we went to his house for a week long stay.His parents,especially his mom tried to harm her physically.As I was extremely vigilant,she could'nt do anything,but still was vocal about her wishes.She said that she wanted to burn her fingers,put hard solid foods like pickles,guavas and insert them into her throat with her fingers,took her to an angry dog of a neighbor and asked the neighbor to free the dog from its leash.I kept my baby in my arms and told the neighbors not to do it.She wanted to scare her in a variety of other forms.Also when baby rolled up her legs, she put her legs down saying that she was immodest ,though baby was wearing diaper and shorts.She suggested tying up baby with a rope.Also,she told mu husband that the baby is very ugly though many people in the USA call her pretty.After that we did not go there for a stay.We did visit her and she was the same.Now my husband wants to stay there for a night with our 2 year old.He gets angry when I try to reason out with him.WHAT SHOULD I DO?should I go with the stay or not?
PLEASE ADVICE
All forms of attempted act are abuse. Mentally, Physically, and Emotionally. It's WRONG. ( I, Personally would record the conversation and report it to the local police department)
Sit your husband down and discuss this, Let him know that it is wrong, You don't want your daughter around his mother for the sake of her safety. IF you can't reason with him and you do decide to stay a night I would find a baby sitter. Someone you trust, To watch your daughter for the night DO NOT bring her over there. I would let your husband know that his mother is a danger to your daughter and how you do not want her around the daughter. If your husband can't reason with you and put his daughter's safety first then you may want to think about whether you really can stay married to your husband. As the truth, You marry your husband...You marry his family. Your daughter comes first, That's how it should always be no matter the circumstances.
I know this sounds odd but i'm curious. (this is mostly for girls but guys can answer to if they want).
Would you feel comforable watching porn (or a sex scene in a movie) with your bf/husband?
Watching porn is not an uncommon thing that couples do, In fact a lot of couples do it.
Watching porn helps some people get in the mood, It increases sexual desires and it is nothing to be ashamed of. It's very common
Hey! I'm a fifteen year old girl, sophomore. So I was at this party last night and there was this guy that used to go to my school (he got expelled for getting busted with pot) so he goes to a school nearby (he's a junior, 17). So I barely even knew him until last night and a few factors, ahem, impaired my judgement and I went up to him and sat in his lap while he was playing cod. He taught me how to play and then we stared dancing. For awhile. And we hooked up, but just making out. He asks for my number and I give it to him. He texted me today. I don't know what to do. Im kind if interested in him but I know he's not what you'd call a "good kid". Okay I'm not exactly a good kid either but I've never been interested in a guy this bad (I try to avoid potheads) and I know I barely know him but there's something that's making soooo curious about him and I dunno why.
Everyone has different things that turn them on
If you like him, It is up to you whether you want to date him or not. However, Remember one thing...When two people end up dating they have a mutual influence on one another. Do you want to date someone who is into this sort of stuff? Would it be a smart choice on your behalf?..Can you see yourself having a healthy relationship? Everyone has their views, Some will say trouble makers are people too yes, but whether you want to be involved with someone's crap is highly up to you. You can let the crush eventually blow over or end up going down a similar road. Why do you like him? Maybe it is because what Missy said below, They are "fun" in their rebellious ways but are his rebellious ways worth falling for is the question.
Hi! I'm not sure what to give my girlfriend for Christmas this year. I already got her boots and a ukulele for her birthday and anniversary, but I am stuck on what to give her for Christmas!!! I was thinking of giving her a Build-A-Bear because I think it would be cute (something for a change because I always get her practical things), but I asked my sister what she thought, and she said she wouldn't like really care for it if she got it for Christmas. So now, I'm really discouraged about getting it. What do you guys think? Thanks.
My girlfriend is 20 btw, she likes playing the guitar, and she's really into cooking. Maybe that will help.
What does your girlfriend like?
You can never go wrong on gift cards.
Movie Tickets, Restaurant, or to her favorite store.
Doesn't sound like much because it's just a card? ..Well remember it's the thought that counts. If you feel the need add something to the gift card... Jewelry, Bath set, Make up etc. If she is into that stuff.
Another wicked awesome store, Newbury comics they are a decent price and have cool things. Build A Bear..Well, Depends is she into stuffed animals? Maybe you could put the sound thing in the bear with you saying "I love you, Merry Christmas?" That's a sweet idea and maybe she would appreciate it more. Little things are what counts
He says there just friends but she comes up too me and tells me that they still have sex everyday. i really want to believe him but at the same time i care about getting hurt.
Are you two dating?...Are you married?..You didn't label any details.
If you are just friends with this guy, Then there really isn't much to worry about because you two only have a friendship. If you two are dating I would sit down and talk to him, Ask him why is he in contact with his ex? A boyfriend should be committed to his girlfriend, NOT having the exes involved as it leads to stress, drama and a whole bunch of problems. If he refuses or makes up an excuse maybe then it's time to move on before you really get hurt.
I'm 12 & I've been having dreams about this guy that I have a crush on. His Best friend asked me out for him & He ignored me all day following that. He's all I think about all day. I've read on the internet about the signs of love & Ask.com & a few other sites said it was. Am I?
You may be mixing love with lust, You stated you have a crush on someone these feelings are normal. However, I would let the friend know that if the guy wants to ask you out you would rather have him ask you himself. Anyone can say things but if you want to know for sure whether is he really into you...He's best bet would be to approach you not his friend doing it for him.
names kayla, well long story short i have been with my husband for 8 years and hes deployed right now. he will be home in 2 months though. my mama who was a best friend to me passed away this year on mothers day. well i have never been on my own i have always had my husband or a family members living with me. with that said i have recently cheated on my husband for the first time ever.i really dont have the answers to why i did what i did but i feel ugly for doing so. i share everything with this man but i dont know if i should wait to tell him when he comes home from iraq or should i tell him now?
I would tell him, He deserves to know the truth but whether you go through with it is all up to you.
You have two choices, Tell him and be upfront with it and deal with the possible consequences or have it be in the back of your mind your entire marriage and live with the guilt.
Technically, You owe it too your husband to be honest. Sometimes actions come with consequences, It was either meant to be or wasn't but I would tell him the truth.
So lets say your guy leaves you and gets with someone else. He didn't even bother telling you he left you FOR someone else, he just said that things aren't working out and I don't think we should see each other. Now, here's the catch. You think the whole time he left you because he actually liked the other girl, but in reality he never liked her like that. They were just friends with benefits. You've already taken him back but this was before you knew of the friends with benefits relationship. Now you're pissed and you don't know how to bring it up with him but you want answers and in the past, he's told you that his past is his business and only if he chooses to tell you, then he will. What would you do?
What would I do?
Sit down and discuss it with him, Let him know that it bothers you and you want to make sure that you two have the stability to work through things. However, I normally say once a cheater always a cheater. Personally, I would probably go my own way. As he originally left you for someone else. He calls it friends with benefits but reality he obviously had feelings for someone else. I would think long and hard to whether he was worth my time or not. I on the other hand, I'm a once chance person..You blow it, You're gone.
First, some history: I am the youngest of four siblings, and grew up in a very bad home. My sisters' greatest pleasure in life was to beat the tar out of me, belittle me, and basically make me miserable every time my dad's back was turned, and my brother actually molested me several times. My parents were divorced, and Mom never so much as sent a birthday card; Dad was always working, so I was on my own.
I cut my siblings out of my life after Dad died. Got married, had a couple of kids, bought a house, and settled into a nice, normal, kinda boring but very peaceful life. Everything was great until three months ago, when my oldest sister found me on Facebook. Like an idiot, I accepted her request.
She immediately starts in with the lies. Tonya lies about everything, apparently. I don't think she's told me one truth in the past three months. Then, she tells my brother where I live, and just to add a little drama, sent him photos of my 13 yr old daughter. All of a sudden, he wants to be my "friend" again. I'm expecting my middle sister to show up in my life any day now-that would be the one who tried to have my father commited to a nursing home so she could take over his estate.
I don't know if I'm being rational or not. I want to delete my FB, move, and just disappear again. I don't want these people in my life. But part of me wants to believe that maybe they've changed. I've had a great life without them. Should I allow my siblings back into my life for the sake of "family," or tell them to get lost because of what kind of drama they MIGHT cause my family now?
1. You do not have to delete your facebook, Facebook comes with privacy settings, If you look on the top right hand corner under "Account" there will be a privacy setting. You can block people who you don't want to be associated with.
2. Moving and running away is not going to make matters any better, Running away from your problems is not the way to solve them. If anyone shows up at your house, Tell them you do not want anything to do with the family please don't stop by this house again. Your house is YOUR house, You make the rules that simple and remind them if they show up again you won't hesitate to get the police involved. Your sister is immature and full of drama, This option is up to you..Send her a message through facebook and let her know that you are removing her and she shall not contact you again. IF this situation was to go to the police after all so much of it before it becomes a possible harassment case you keep all conversations. Should you let them back into your life, Your first step was accepting your sisters friends request...She already started drama by spreading your location without your permission. Sometimes people can only be given so many chances, You are an adult now nobody is forcing you to have relations with your family. It's unfortunate if it leads to cutting our your siblings but you need to understand that some people just don't grow up and at least you tried. Whatever you decide in the long run, Remember one thing...You got married, Had a few kids, Bought a house...and live a happy life. That is your focus
Ok, so I like this guy, I'll refer to him as Bob. I'm 17 and he's about to be 22, but the age isn't the problem because I turn 18 in two weeks and we agreed that our relationship wouldn't go past friends until then. So that is not the problem. What I wanna know is how can I tell if he's in it for me or because he wants to get laid. Is there any warning signs? If so, please let me know, because I really like Bob, and I'd rather not be fooled because of that. Please and thank-you!
Ways you can usually tell if a guy is into you or not is all about the way he acts towards you.
Is sex all he talks about?...If so well, I would start to suspect that maybe that's all on his mind.
A guy who is into a girl for who she is, Normally is not all about sex. Respect, Is a huge thing in relationships...Does this guy respect you enough to lay off the subject? Does he listen to you?...Does he seem pushy?, Does he pressure you? These are signs to watch out for. One thing you don't want to do is when you two start dating DON'T RUSH IT, Take it slow because the truth is if you take it slow and wait a bit before it gets that far then you'll really know what he's in for.